Sex & Shenanigans

[crazychemgirl]

Oh dear A small one? Everyone okay? You okay?

Yeah it was a small one. Just enough to make my 8 work monitors shake and the 100°C oil bath slosh a bit.

Felt like a truck had hit my building initially … and before I realized what was happening it was over.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

I love it. I loved Jessica Jones more.

I loved Jessica Jones too!

Well sure, it had Tennant!

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

It requires a lot of conversation before hand. And you aren't actually choking them, in my experience, more slowing blood to the brain. Less dangerous and more controlled, and gives a massive endorphin rush for her. There are probably people who enjoy breath play, but I'm not comfortable with that. As the one choking, it is the utter level of trust she has in me that does it for me. That look of trust with her eyes locked on mine? Oh fuck....

But honestly, I am far more comfortable with just my hand on her throat. She is mine at that moment, and more important, she is allowing herself to be mine. Trust is such a turn on for me.

I'm a fan of both, but for different reasons. What they do have in common is the trust. The total submission in the trust. It's incredibly intimate.

I'm not anti pornography, but porn has also done so much damage with stuff like this. We just believe what we take in.

I think this is why amateur porn has become so popular. It's real-ish.

Pain, breath play, a claiming possession... it's different for lots of people. Sure, it can leave bruises, but it doesn't have to. It's not about the danger, it's about the trust. As someone who enjoys aspects of this kinda play, I wouldn't ask just anyone I hook up with to do this. This is something reserved for my person only. The person I trust to stop when I need them to stop. The person to push when I need them to push. The person to just hold my neck if that's all I need.

But, it should be a conversation before anything happens in that department to know what both parties are comfortable with, for sure.

100% discussed, and discussed, and discussed some more!

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Just experienced an earthquake … way to go out with a bang Friday.

I hope you are ok and safe!

 

[UnquietDreams]

Here's a fun fact I don't get to share very often!

I'm in Agents of Shield

Well not actually. I think I might be, or I might be on the cutting room floor. The first episode was filmed in Stockholm, on Sergels Square ("Plattan") and they'd advertised they'd be filming there beforehand, that's why there's a veritable sea of onlookers there. I'm on the upper platform a few rows back

I will look for you!

I was an extra in a Burt Reynolds movie and a Madonna/Willam Defoe movie. My knee appears in one scene total. I have a face for writing...

 

[UnquietDreams]

Pain, breath play, a claiming possession... it's different for lots of people. Sure, it can leave bruises, but it doesn't have to. It's not about the danger, it's about the trust. As someone who enjoys aspects of this kinda play, I wouldn't ask just anyone I hook up with to do this. This is something reserved for my person only. The person I trust to stop when I need them to stop. The person to push when I need them to push. The person to just hold my neck if that's all I need.

But, it should be a conversation before anything happens in that department to know what both parties are comfortable with, for sure.

Trust, but also the connection. When I am buried in her, her legs wrapped around my hips, my hands wrapped around her throat, faces close, eyes locked deep into each other, nothing but moans and sighs, breathing the same air? It transcends physical to emotional, spiritual, maybe psychic. Impossible to explain but fuck, when you reach that point, that connection, bathed in trust...

 

[vagrantx]

I will look for you!

Good luck with that, I've never been able to spot me

I'm somewhere in the red circle. I think. Been a long time. Also fun fact, inside the building, in the green circle, is a wonderful little café that has Stockholms best blueberry muffins

https://i.ibb.co/qYXKzX5h/image.png

I was an extra in a Burt Reynolds movie and a Madonna/Willam Defoe movie. My knee appears in one scene total. I have a face for writing...

Aaaaahhh! So you're pretty much besties with a couple of A-listers!! That's cool!

 

[Wand3rlust]

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A 3 Y

 

[MindYaBitness]

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B 3 X

 

[cactusjack0584]

@UnquietDreams
I’m lazy and don’t want to read back… what are your feelings on the Arrowverse? Positive negative?

 

[UnquietDreams]

@UnquietDreams
I’m lazy and don’t want to read back… what are your feelings on the Arrowverse? Positive negative?

I haven't watched any of the DC TV shows.

 

[vagrantx]

@UnquietDreams
I’m lazy and don’t want to read back… what are your feelings on the Arrowverse? Positive negative?

Jumping in! First season of Arrow is great! It's gritty and bloody, and Oliver has no qualms killing his foes. Then it quiiiickly spirals into teenage rom-drama in season 2 and onwards.

The other Arrowverse shows are substatially worse >_<

 

[MrMakersMark]

Jumping in! First season of Arrow is great! It's gritty and bloody, and Oliver has no qualms killing his foes. Then it quiiiickly spirals into teenage rom-drama in season 2 and onwards.

The other Arrowverse shows are substatially worse >_<

This is a spot on review of Arrow.

 

[cactusjack0584]

Jumping in! First season of Arrow is great! It's gritty and bloody, and Oliver has no qualms killing his foes. Then it quiiiickly spirals into teenage rom-drama in season 2 and onwards.

The other Arrowverse shows are substatially worse >_<

I think Flash had its moments. And I like Arrow for the most part. And I did really like Superman and Lois.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I'm so confused by this conversation! I'm Going to go put on my Wonder Woman Underoos and watch my girl crush again

 

[MrMakersMark]

I'm so confused by this conversation! I'm Going to go put on my Wonder Woman Underoos and watch my girl crush again

Perfect solution!

 

[Sammysub07]

Just experienced an earthquake … way to go out with a bang Friday.

Girl! Get yourself a glass, fill it up with some good stuff and enjoy! Cheers to some wine on a Friday!
Was this your first experience feeling an earthquake? I experienced them often in Japan and California. I eventually got so used to them I slept right through them.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

B 3 X

I thought you meant "B - 3 times" as in "Just give me 3 brisket sandwiches." Which is valid.
Also, you're very close, but the correct answer is B3Y

 

[LupineOne]

I think Flash had its moments. And I like Arrow for the most part. And I did really like Superman and Lois.

Superman and Lois was the only good DC show I’ve seen. Tyler Hoechlin gave the best modern portrayal of Clark Kent/Superman I’ve seen yet.

 

[Sammysub07]

I don't know how I'd react if my SO asked me to choke her. I'd like to think I'm down for anything, but that just sounds like something that's fun in your brain but in actuality is pretty dangerous and could lead to bruising that requires an awkward and embarrassing explanation to people who care about you.

This doesn't have to be something that only fires up the synapses of the brain by thought only. It can safely be carried out and result in a heightened sexual experience and also serve as a bonding experience between partners. You also don't need a whole lot of pressure to achieve this which can reduce any noticeable bruising. What it does require though, is a lot of forethought, research, communication, and trust! Without all of that, It absolutely shouldn't be attempted. But it's a damn good time.

It requires a lot of conversation before hand. And you aren't actually choking them, in my experience, more slowing blood to the brain. Less dangerous and more controlled, and gives a massive endorphin rush for her. There are probably people who enjoy breath play, but I'm not comfortable with that. As the one choking, it is the utter level of trust she has in me that does it for me. That look of trust with her eyes locked on mine? Oh fuck....

But honestly, I am far more comfortable with just my hand on her throat. She is mine at that moment, and more important, she is allowing herself to be mine. Trust is such a turn on for me.

Couldn't agree more, lots of trust! Most who enjoy any type of Erotic Asphyxiation play prefer the type of choking that is achieved by applying pressure to the Carotid Arteries. This allows the slowing of blood to the brain to achieve that desired light-headed feeling that's followed by a flow of dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins upon release.

In addition to the slowing of blood flow to the brain, some also prefer that in combination with the slowing of oxygen by increasing pressure on the Larynx.

But in being less dangerous, only applying pressure to the Carotid Arteries is the safest bet to avoid any damage to the Larynx.

That Locking of the eyes moment. Of fuck is right! The trust, submission, and possession in it, regardless of whether you're applying pressure or not. That. Is. Everything!

Pain, breath play, a claiming possession... it's different for lots of people. Sure, it can leave bruises, but it doesn't have to. It's not about the danger, it's about the trust. As someone who enjoys aspects of this kinda play, I wouldn't ask just anyone I hook up with to do this. This is something reserved for my person only. The person I trust to stop when I need them to stop. The person to push when I need them to push. The person to just hold my neck if that's all I need.

But, it should be a conversation before anything happens in that department to know what both parties are comfortable with, for sure.

I couldn't have said it any better! It's not for just anyone. This is for that one partner with whom you trust and they're that person for you!

I'm a fan of both, but for different reasons. What they do have in common is the trust. The total submission in the trust. It's incredibly intimate.

Trust is the key! With all that comes the submission and intimacy of the moment!

100% discussed, and discussed, and discussed some more!

I knew you were a smart cookie!

 

[LupineOne]

Oof. This doggo

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Oof. This doggo

Is yours being foolish, too? Mine tried to grab at my glove as I was tossing firewood into the firebox..

 

[LupineOne]

Is yours being foolish, too? Mine tried to grab at my glove as I was tossing firewood into the firebox..

It’s my bother’s Great Dane. Guard dog, timid, like all Danes (my parents are veterinarians, so I trust their experience) little separation anxiety and just can’t quote predict her behavior.
So I inherently can’t trust her, and if she decided to bite because she’s timid…fucking ouch.
Granted, she hasn’t ever full on bitten anyone, ever, but there’s still the trust issue.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

It’s my bother’s Great Dane. Guard dog, timid, like all Danes (my parents are veterinarians, so I trust their experience) little separation anxiety and just can’t quote predict her behavior.
So I inherently can’t trust her, and if she decided to bite because she’s timid…fucking ouch.

Awww. Bless ya both... Trade? Miss Donut is cute and cuddles but is dumb as a box of rocks and has a smelly butt.

 

[LupineOne]

Awww. Bless ya both... Trade? Miss Donut is cute and cuddles but is dumb as a box of rocks and has a smelly butt.

Definitely
And “Miss Donut” is a perfect name for a dog of that description