Why is Phone/Voice sex on the decline?

[linkierox]

mmmm i've done mic chat on whereby a few times. always with guys, which can be super hot. but i'd love to have an epic jack n jill session with a woman. never had the opportunity!

Good luck finding your Jill!

 

[loveseethrough]

Good luck finding your Jill!

thanks! i'll report back here if i find success!

 

[Nicefella]

I met my wife through phone sex. It's great.

You mean you paid for it and then fell in love?

 

[EvaLane]

I met my wife through phone sex. It's great.

Haha this is how my parents met! They swore it was a dating service, but they both recall only checking their messages in the middle of the night

 

[linkierox]

thanks! i'll report back here if i find success!

Lit should give us more reaction choices. I mean something more than just a thumb up but not as much as the heart eyes. Maybe like a thumb up with fire (meaning hell yes).

 

[Nicefella]

Haha this is how my parents met! They swore it was a dating service, but they both recall only checking their messages in the middle of the night

Sounds like it was love at first wank

 

[loveseethrough]

Lit should give us more reaction choices. I mean something more than just a thumb up but not as much as the heart eyes. Maybe like a thumb up with fire (meaning hell yes).

love it. thanks for your encouragement!

 

[magicalmoments]

You mean you paid for it and then fell in love?

No. long story made short. She put a personal advert in an adult magazine inviting guys to contact her for phone sex, no meeting, no fees, just phone sex. She got about 150 replies, I was one of about 6 of those she picked to reply to, and after about 6 months I was the only man left standing, so to speak. We agreed to meet, the rest is history.

 

[Nicefella]

That’s awesome!!

 

[hot hugo]

Just had one this morning (via Google meet). It’s so hot and I came 3 times. Shout out to all of the men who love phone sex

lucky you… and i envy the lucky counterpart

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Just had one this morning (via Google meet). It’s so hot and I came 3 times. Shout out to all of the men who love phone sex

It would be a great privilege to entertain you, young lady.

 

[J D Danger]

It sure was

lucky lucky girl

 

[J D Danger]

I remember my hottest experience with phone sex we had met on an online roleplaying site and exchanged phone numbers she was single I was single but it would have been a long distance relationship and she was quite a bit younger then me

one night she calls me on the way to a party I tell her I wish I was taking her to that party that I would take her into a room as soon as we got there pin her down to the bed and fuck her on the spot make her mine(she was a sub and had been hoping to find a Master around the time we met) her answer to me was Master(said out of respect) I'm driving please don't start anything you can't finish...

I said I will help you finish pull the car over and start to play with your fucking pussy she Master I can't I can't cum using only my fingers and I don't have a toy with me I said you can and you will cum when i tell you to cum

We both came hard about 5 mins later

a few years later we met in real life to celebrate her birthday we were at a bar and for some reason she started talking to her fiance about role play and phone sex and she told him that the hardest she had ever cum from phone sex was that night with me

 

[rodeoclown]

Let me also add that I love getting to know someone by talking. That first phone call is such a nervous thrill!

I agree completely. The nerves make it fun and exciting. I get my partner off first, so there is no leaving them wanting. I just wish I could find a new partner that would like things more than once.

 

[SensualGerund]

What a fun thread for me to chime in on



I think our definition of payoff must be very different. Videos are nice, but they’re a dime a dozen. Gets kinda boring, no? Surely men people can’t actually be that unimaginative and boring.



I love it. I love connecting with someone, exchanging messages, someone taking the risk to audibly say hello. Sometimes it’s me, sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it never moves further than some friendly exchanges and other times it moves faster than I can handle



Well put.

My best experience so far was when they had genuine interest in my needs and wants, asked questions that revealed truths I wasn’t even aware of, and using all of those bits of information to elevate our experience - make it real.

I’m doing this to feel something, not pretend to feel something.

The only way to actually enjoy myself is when I’m already in such a state of need and arousal that I’m begging them to call me. That I need them. No awkward moments, just straight passion and fireworks.

Of course, it’s a two way street. I’m sure most men would be fine with a moaning banshee that doesn’t contribute, but most of my pleasure derives from knowing I’m fulfilling whatever fantasy or need my partner has. That means I need to know about those things, I need to be an active participant.

Also, it’s just a fact that not everyone is going to mesh. It’s ok if I’m too soft for you and you’re looking for a filthy freak right off the bat, it’s ok if you’re a submissive boytoy and that’s not who I’m looking to play with. We can still be friends and swap stories

The fact that you used the word "contribute" really struck me. The immediate give and take of it.

 

[SensualGerund]

I love phone play, but most guys hang up after they get off, leaving me hanging. It's frustrating.

Ew. That's incredibly offensive. I'm sorry guys have done that to you.

 

[SensualGerund]

Face Time, Google Meet, and Whats App are the popular thing for my generation!

WhatsApp is supposedly end to end encrypted right? Still, it's a bit zucky

 

[SensualGerund]

I think this thread is on the decline because I chimed in. Sorry, phone friends.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I could go for some hot phone play right about now!

 

[linkierox]

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I remember my hottest experience with phone sex we had met on an online roleplaying site and exchanged phone numbers she was single I was single but it would have been a long distance relationship and she was quite a bit younger then me

one night she calls me on the way to a party I tell her I wish I was taking her to that party that I would take her into a room as soon as we got there pin her down to the bed and fuck her on the spot make her mine(she was a sub and had been hoping to find a Master around the time we met) her answer to me was Master(said out of respect) I'm driving please don't start anything you can't finish...

I said I will help you finish pull the car over and start to play with your fucking pussy she Master I can't I can't cum using only my fingers and I don't have a toy with me I said you can and you will cum when i tell you to cum

We both came hard about 5 mins later

a few years later we met in real life to celebrate her birthday we were at a bar and for some reason she started talking to her fiance about role play and phone sex and she told him that the hardest she had ever cum from phone sex was that night with me

Now that’s a lucky lady.

 

[J D Danger]

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Now that’s a lucky lady.

we both were lucky that night

 

[Nightspeed]

Ew. That's incredibly offensive. I'm sorry guys have done that to you.

It's rude as hell. So I'm a little gun shy with phone sex and men.

 

[Nightspeed]

I agree completely. The nerves make it fun and exciting. I get my partner off first, so there is no leaving them wanting. I just wish I could find a new partner that would like things more than once.

It's not easy to do. I've wished for the same thing.

 

[gregy70]

The best part of voice sex is the aftercare

 

[Wanderg]

I have brought this up earlier but the thrill of voice/phone conversations with a stranger as you get to know each other and become intimate, is just another dimension of excitement and pleasure.

Why is it on the decline here on Lit? Anyone care to shed some light?

We’ve had a generation grow up where the only way to communicate in real time when you’re apart was over the phone.

Phone seduction is a lost art, sure you can text erotic words and photos these days but what’s missing is the voice inflections and moans you get with phone talk. Even hearing the vibrator being turned off after helping her through an orgasm and hearing her wash her pussy juices off her hands are real things you don’t get sexting. Texting mmmmm or emojis isn’t the same as hearing the sounds of pleasure in real time.