Are Women really as Taboo as men ???

I used to think men in general are pervier than women. When I was in a fetish/sex group, the ratio of women to men would always weigh heavily in favor of men.

But after my college, when I was having sex outside the group, I realized the imbalance is both the reason and the cause of why women seem less taboo.

I'm blessed enough that men make the first move, they try to sound interesting and unique, and then try to impress me in bed. Men are competing with a bigger group. Sometimes when sexual urges are not met, one is left to their own thoughts. Within the freedom of one's mind, these urges invent fantasies, and they grow, and grow.

So I think, men and women have the same capacity to be pervy, but on average, more men exercise that part of their mind than women.

Some say that's unfortunate but I think it's fortunate because men aren't ready mentally and biologically for a world where women are uninhibited in their sexual urges and fantasies

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So I think, men and women have the same capacity to be pervy, but on average, more men exercise that part of their mind than women.
I think men and women are equally pervy. I just think men are more comfortable talking about their perversions. Kind of like how we all will show our dicks to anyone remotely interested.

And hi, Lily. 🙂
 
Also... This depends. Openly, I agree. But pm, not really. I'm as comfortable as others. In fact, I sometimes find I should rein back a bit, especially in group pm
Never consider reigning yourself back, Lily, be proud of your beautiful sexuality, let it shine...
 
I would think so! Why not?
I would definitely hope so, I would love to meet someone with similar taboo interests. It just seems that men express these interests a little more openly than women. Whenever I’ve tested the waters with women I dated and approached the topic very carefully I kinda got the impression I shouldn’t push any further as they didn’t seem very receptive. It’s very easy to get a female to open up about that possibility of being with another girl or doing a FFM threesome but anything further than that doesn’t always go over so well. I would like to talk to you privately if possible..
 
Men and women both have taboo interests. On sites like Lit we all come together as a community and can confidently discuss these with like minded people. In society however, it is full of snowflakes and approaching said taboos becomes more difficult. Some find them embarrassing where I find hearing other people's fantasies and taboos a huge turn on.

I'm sure I'd love to have drinks and chats with many people on here. Who knows where it would lead.
 
I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???
I’m right there with you
 
I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???
You and any other man who is interested in a woman who is into taboo fetishes can pm me anytime!
 
I’m right there with you
The internet has been a godsend to us who have kinky thoughts and ideas. Before, we had to sneak into "adult bookstores" or sneak into the backrooms of newsstands to get any literature, or had to be luck AF to find like minded people. I was one of the latter, having been exposed (pun intended) to so many in college and before (mom sold Undercover Wear and I modeled men's "sleepwear" for her and the women).
 
I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???
Oh god. I've had very taboo thoughts all my life, it just gets me so excited. My clit is throbbing as I type this xx
 
I've only read the last page of this thread so forgive me if this point has already been made.

I think the extent to which men and women differ in their interest in taboo activities has more to do with the risks and costs of engaging in such behavior than their inherent wiring and capacity for it.

Remember that men tend to be much larger, heavier, and stronger than women giving them a greater capacity for violence. Plus, men tend to suffer less shame from friends, family and society if caught in engaging in taboo behaviors. Take for example picking up a woman at a Hotel bar. If she goes back to the room of a strange man she is at FAR greater risk of being beaten than he is. Likewise if their spouses find out. She is much more likely to be beaten by a jealous husband than he is by a jealous wife. Ugh.

Who knows for certain if they'd be JUST as taboo as men, but women would CERTAINLY be more taboo than they are today if the risks of such behavior were truly equal to a mans.
 
I've only read the last page of this thread so forgive me if this point has already been made.

I think the extent to which men and women differ in their interest in taboo activities has more to do with the risks and costs of engaging in such behavior than their inherent wiring and capacity for it.

Remember that men tend to be much larger, heavier, and stronger than women giving them a greater capacity for violence. Plus, men tend to suffer less shame from friends, family and society if caught in engaging in taboo behaviors. Take for example picking up a woman at a Hotel bar. If she goes back to the room of a strange man she is at FAR greater risk of being beaten than he is. Likewise if their spouses find out. She is much more likely to be beaten by a jealous husband than he is by a jealous wife. Ugh.

Who knows for certain if they'd be JUST as taboo as men, but women would CERTAINLY be more taboo than they are today if the risks of such behavior were truly equal to a mans.
Picking up a woman at a bar for a one night stand is not taboo in my opinion. A woman getting drunk and blowing her brother in a bathroom during a family gathering is the taboo I’m referring to..
 
By reading lit threads on the subject of taboo, I suspect that the number of men having those thoughts and desires outnumber women greatly! Although quite rare I admit I have had them over the years but only acted on them a couple times, and that was many years ago.
 
I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???
I'm almost 50 so we're of a similar age. And I'm sex crazed incest nut, been into it for three decades. And the thing is, I dont hide it from my hubby, he knows and considers this my little crazy hobby lol... but it's so much more. Anyways, if you want to know me better, feel free to DM...
 
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