Would you be OK being in a relationship with a porn star?

[scposteel]

I'm a massive fan of British porn star Danny D (for obvious reasons). But knowing he is doing it elsewhere with so many others I'm really not sure. God, I do love what he has though

I'd be fine with it. Yeah it's a messy job (pun intended) but it really wouldn't bother me any especially if I know all the appropriate precautions are present.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

I'm pretty sure I'd have no problem. Maybe she or he could help me freelance here and there. Of course there's also me pranking them on the guise of cheating and then tossing the dvd on the counter. I imagine how tiring it can be, so as long as I can get laid, I'll probably be good.

 

[Justhappytobealive]

Back in the day when I used to follow entrainment actress’s, I followed one call Houston. She was interviewed about her life’s goals and accomplishments.

She set the so called worlds record of continuous vaginal penetration in a certain time frame.

It was something like… 650 men in a continuous 24 hour period. It the kicker was…. Get this! After she was finished. And was cleaned up. Her and her new husband set off to Hawaii for there honeymoon.

Don’t get me wrong. Each to their own. But I can’t help myself by thinking, about what her new husband was thinking about during there marital consummation….!

 

[scottstone7]

Romantic/sexual relationship with a porn star? Nope. Not even if they quit. I'd be too worried about what I might catch. I know they are supposed "clean" and tested regularly but I wouldn't be able to get past the idea. Porn is BIG money, money has a way of making unwanted information disappear. Only takes one dirty noodle or pie and whole kitchen is funky. Thats probably just be the "dont have sex" STD shock classes from highschool all those years ago sticking in my mind. But.... No I couldn't even consider it.

 

[live4thebj]

Maybe

 

[Sarahwithlove]

Absolutely not. Sex with my husband is an act to be shared only between us. If he is having sex for his job, it takes something away from our marriage and I would feel that he would be just going through the motions and not really into it. Kind of like, getting off work as, oh I don't know, a plumber and having to come home and de-clog the drain all the time. That is the last thing you would want to do. Besides, porn behind the scenes, is kind of gross. And I don't want my husband fucking someone else...period!

 

[screwher]

I’d be all for my wife telling me she wants to be in a porn. The first film for the experience. Then decide if she wants to continue. Then I honestly think I’d enjoy it if my wife were to make it a regular thing. I would be crawling the walls as my wife was on set taking a big cock. And of course I’d be watching her movies as often as possible.

 

[Not Normal]

I think it might be somewhat easier than some other types of open/poly/consensual non monogamy situations. Who knows, but I think I could deal.

 

[FantasySharer1]

Not because of the life I have now. We have kids, we're part of a Christian community that's a little on the conservative side. We are integrated into multiple circles of families, friends, work-friends, neighbors, and and church friends.

There's no way I could be married to a porn star and have any of the life I have now.

But:
1. If we were raised non-religious and my parents and family were all non-religious.
2. My wife only did lesbian porn, and any male-female porn she did was only with her brother - the only guy I'm ok with her ever fucking besides me.
3. We were part of an equally supportive set of friends and community that we have now, of course their values and outlooks would be totally different.

Then I might be OK with it. It might even be kinda hot.

 

[FataMorgana]

Dear god, no.

 

[Naughty_Natalie]

I'm a massive fan of British porn star Danny D (for obvious reasons).

I wasn't familiar so I had to look him up. HOLY SHIT.

 

[BusDee276]

I wasn't familiar so I had to look him up. HOLY SHIT.

Am I wrong!!?

 

[gtnlynn]

Maybe if they are out of the business. My gave a definite "No". She doesn't find the men attractive and says she isn't letting anybody fuck her as long as they go in the videos.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Why not? wonderful experience . . .my own . . . . He has taught me so much about my own body and sexual pleasures I never dreamed possible.

 

[13Fantasies]

I don't know.

When younger, absolutely not. I was jealous and I'd worry about being second rate to the job.

Now? Possibly. I'm more secure and as long as we have communication and understand each other's concerns and boundaries, it could be possible

 

[VanV]

Only if she loves me and I love her.
I.c. that condition: I would 'accept' a porn star as much as any other human being.

 

[Hotshots44]

I am pretty sure, i would like...

 

[AchtungNight]

Depends on the porn star. I’d have to meet her and see if she met my standards. No, I won’t define those exactly here.

 

[Likeandthey]

What a can of worms.

Two people related in what sense? Like a traditional union? Dating (for fun)? Marriage? What kind of porn? Servicing Joe the Plumber for a few hundred bucks might merit a completely different response from condoning participation in a blowbang, a bukkake, or in any of the forums for more freakish and extreme types of pornography- which shall not be mentioned. 'Shiela came home last night and gave me a kiss without having brushed her teeth after work. She was in a hurry, she said. She forgot.' Softcore porn? Again. Different response. We are asking here where & why someone would choose to draw a line. Perhaps pornography is OK but safely practicing (we'll assume) prostitution is not? The key part of such a discussion, which I think we are leaving out is, how an individual explicitly conceptualizes whatever the relationship is and what one is willing to tolerate to preserve that conceptualization. A pimp certainly has a relationship with a prostitute- but culturally I don't think many of us here trend in that direction.

 

[ravus96]

Too many self insecurities, can’t imagine a porn star being, being into me after the gym rats they work with. Wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone not into me so no. Would love one as friend thou it might take the conversations in some interesting directions at a dinner party.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Seems to me there's a lot of hypocrisy and double-standards operating here.
When we enter a relationship with a new lover, we assume that we both have sexual histories, some greater and more varied than others. Some may have posted nude photos on the internet. Some may have used their cellphones to film a sex-act, as a bonding trust thing... and just maybe that clip got shared with one or two friends? It's just a matter of degrees. If that new partner happens to be a Porn Star it simply means that they do it on film. We either accept that part of their lives, or - if we are unable to deal with it, we get out of the relationship. Moral relativism has nothing to do with it.

 

[AchtungNight]

Too many self insecurities, can’t imagine a porn star being, being into me after the gym rats they work with. Wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone not into me so no. Would love one as friend thou it might take the conversations in some interesting directions at a dinner party.

Ok I will post a few criteria of mine. I’d want someone who might fake on set but won’t with me. Someone who’s fit but not a complete gym rat (or who prefers certain kinds of exercise, you know what I mean). An attractive non-jaded porn star who is happy doing what she does. Or maybe someone who needs real love after putting up with bogus acting bullshit. Or someone who can tolerate, maybe even get excited by me being a writer of erotic fantasies who prides themselves on doing it well and for free. Concentrate on that last one for sure.

 

[shewantsmore]

I might be wrong but surely its just a job, as long as theres no jealousy or hating the person or wanting them to stop,why cant you live with or marry a porn star, your with the person for who they are, i dont think though the normal what have you done at work today chat

 

[VinnyVeritas]

I'm not all that sure that a porn star would be OK with being in a relationship with me...


Would I only be allowed to watch his/her videos?
Would I be cheating?
Jealousy?

 

[InTj23]

Yes..........on 1 condition.........

That she's in the Food Porn industry and she has a livestream baking show where she makes delicious desserts for overweight sugar addicted men while wearing a bikini and one of those superimposed smiley faces covering her face the whole time. This way I make money from it, no touchy feely from strange men, get dessert leftovers from the show AND I get to say I'm dating a porn star for street creds...........I think that's what the kids call 4D chess.