Bramblethorn
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Uh, that's kind of the point. If you want to show character growth and development from events that transpired to form and shape the sexuality of a character, those are somewhat relevant.
And there's still plenty you can write about childhood events that influence a character's grown-up sexuality, without themselves being sexual. You can show the strict parenting that your protagonist will later rebel against, the religious upbringing that will create conflict when they fall in love with somebody of their own gender, the family dynamics that lead them to view everything including sex as a dominance game, etc. etc.
Yes, Literotica takes some story possibilities off the table, but it leaves plenty out there. IME that kind of character development, using non-sexual things to flesh out a character in ways that will eventually affect their sex life, often ends up being more interesting reading than "I found a clown porn website when I was thirteen and since then I've had a fetish for clowns".