What is BDSM to you?

[KWAL]

Its about trust, respect and acceptance IMO. You need a high level of trust to submit to someone, a lot more than you need to marry someone.
Someone once defined a BDSM relationship as Two consenting adults seeking a (not necessarily sexual) relationship in order to satisfy non traditional needs that their partners cannot understand or find unacceptable.

Very well said and I love the defination fits nicely

 

[~hellbaby~]

Very well said and I love the defination fits nicely

Thank you. I cannot take credit for the definition we used in order to justify our relationship;that was his writing. I will say that there is no greater bond that that of those who are in a D/S relationship. A lot of people don't understand it but to those who do, it is a joy.

 

[Sweetzera]

An umbrella that makes me feel at home; a place that not only does not judge my needs, but involves people that look for someone like me .

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

It is trust, it is freedom, it is the key to my sexuality, it is the gift I choose to give and the rewards are tenfold.
I am a a pyl or submissive whether I like it or not, it is not by choice it is part of who I am and by allowing myself to recognise it and occasionally live it, I can be myself.

 

[Anne1105]

Anywhere from roleplay to a lifestyle to be honest. We managed to blend it in with our daily life in a way that suits our needs.
Personally speaking, for me it is something I could not do without. It is an outlet, a way to forget and relief the stress. It feels like magic!

 

[Bandit58]

For me it seems to be about service. Sexual, health care, and just making sure He has what He wants when He wants it.