Watch wife with a stranger.... Anyone done this ???

I was the other guy once, well many times with the same woman. She was a few years older than I was and after the first time she told me that she was married and that they had an understanding, he liked her to be with other men. We lived about a half day drive from each other and met in an AOL chat room, it was nearly twenty years ago and I had just gotten divorced from my first wife.

Right from the beginning I wasn't interested in anything permanent, but I was turned on that she was married and hubby knew about and approved her seeing me. I told her I wasn't interested in getting married so it was good that she was already married. I loved to see her naked with nothing but her wedding ring. Sometimes when we were fucking she would hold her hand in front of me so I could see her ring. Huge turn on.

But when it turned out that hubby was in the dark and she was really cheating on him I got turned off and tried to ease out of the situation. She wanted to keep seeing me and even talked about leaving him. She said she loved me. I just freaked out. I had to break it up with her and had to be blunt about it to make her believe me.

It took a long time, years, before I could think about the whole affair without being sad and upset. But gradually the bad feelings faded away and I could think about and remember the good times fondly. Sometimes I get turned on at some of the things we did. It was quite romantic at times.

I tried to find her through the internet recently. She did divorce her husband, moved to another state. Well I got re-married since then so it would do no good to try to start anything again or even to contact her.

Oddly I fantasize about my wife being with another man. But it's just a fantasy, In real life it would be devastating. And I don't have any urge to be with someone else. My first wife cheated on me and I had no idea until she left me for someone else. Maybe my affair with that married woman was my way to get back. I had fun, but there's still some guilt.
 
Here is my experience, I wrote it in another post, from our trip to Berlin:

For starter, we ended getting difference seats on the airplane, me sitting near an old lady, Elma in front of me, near a guy around 40. I was going to ask the old lady to switch places with Elma, but I noticed the guy´s eyes wondering over her body as she was reaching for some newspapers from our luggage (Elma had tight jeans and a short top on). So I decided to play it cool, and wait for Elma say something about the poor seat arrangement. Well, she never said a word, but started to talk with the guy, flirting a little, as she always do. The trip to Berlin took around 1 hour and 30 minutes, so a short flight, but during that time, she didn't said a word to me. She laugh at the guy´s jokes, went a few times to toilet for the simple reason to show her wonderful ass to the poor guy, that I noticed, and when she came back to her seat, she winked at me. The old lady was asking me crazy questions, so I couldn't pay much attention at what Elma and the guy discussed. But heard how the guy was throwing the all "heavy artillery" at her.

As we arrived in Berlin, I stand up and helped the old lady with her luggage, ignoring Elma, but she came right up and give me a kiss. I almost laugh when I saw the guys face, he turn so red, trying to smile at me. I just node at him with my head, and we went out, to claim our luggage. He came after us and we started talking. He was in a business trip, staying at the same hotel, but only for 4 nights. We share a cab to the hotel and didn't see him for 3 days, as we were everyday, all day in town, shopping like crazy (mainly Elma, I just enjoyed the german beer in every terrace I can find on the way).

On the third day, we came to the hotel around 10 pm, and went for a drink in the hotel bar, and there the guy was, alone at a table. I almost forgot about him, but Elma was very pleased to see him, like it was an old friend. We all sit together until 2 in the morning, talking about everything. I must say, the guy was very pleasant, easy to talk to, and I noticed that Elma was into him, as she took advantage of every possibility to show her body, touched his hands, laugh at all his jokes.

After a while, the barman informed us that the bar is closing, so we all agreed to continue our little party up, in our room, as I had some beers there. Me and Elma lay on the bed and the guy in the chair and we watch some tv, drinking the beers. At some point, there was a movie on tv, where some couple was making love, and Elma start complaining that we didn't had sex in the last 3 days. The guy start laughing and said that "what is stopping you to do it now?".

Elma looked at me and said: "I guess nothing" and she start kissing me, with soft kisses first, and as I response, she start moaning and pushing her tongue in my mouth. The all situation was so hot, I start getting very quickly hard, feeling my cock growing bigger, as she start opening my jeans, kissing me without pause. She then pulled my cock out and start sucking and licking, looking up at the guy that was sitting in the chair. I kept her hair up, to give the guy a full view at her pretty face and mouth sucking my cock. After a while she whispered that she want me inside her, and she start undress quickly, nothing sexy, just pulling her clothes off fast, then she came and sit on me.

As she was directing my cock inside of her, the guy open his jeans and took his cock out, looking at Elma moving slowly on my cock. He was hard too, jerking slowly, looking at us. It was so hot! I told her to take a look at him, and when she saw him, she smiled and start fucking me harder, looking at his cock the all time. Pure lust on her face. She came in like 3-4 minutes, so hard that I felt her juices running down my legs. She did not ask the guy to join us at any point, so I didn't push. She kept moving slowly on my cock, as she start sucking on my fingers, looking at the guys cock from time to time, now big and fully erect.

She looked down on me, smile and my God, she looked so beautiful, the pleasure on her face, moaning, sucking my finger so hard that it almost hurt.

The guy stand up when to the other side of the bed, to have a better look at her pussy, she acknowledged this by moving slowly, up and down my cock, to give the guy a perfect view as she´s getting fucked. After a while, I start cuming, as I couldn't keep it anymore, she started cuming too and, screaming and moaning like I never heard before. The poor guys came too, on our sheets and it hit my leg.

It was a very special moment, full of lust.
 
Here is my experience, I wrote it in another post, from our trip to Berlin:



The guy stand up when to the other side of the bed, to have a better look at her pussy, she acknowledged this by moving slowly, up and down my cock, to give the guy a perfect view as she´s getting fucked. After a while, I start cuming, as I couldn't keep it anymore, she started cuming too and, screaming and moaning like I never heard before. The poor guys came too, on our sheets and it hit my leg.

It was a very special moment, full of lust.



that was awesome
 
I have been the other guy on a few occasions, have never been the cuckold. I enjoy it, whether the husband is involved or not. Although i do prefer that they are there, and she is dominant over him.
 
I am hinting to my reluctant wife I desire to watch her with another guy.. Anybody done this??


I think a lot of men think about this...after all, why does porn sell so well? Clearly the guys that control the porn market know a thing or two about men. Men are dogs! Think a lot of guys masturbate while thinking about their wife having sex with another man. I think a lot of men enjoy watching their wife flirt...and I think most men would be okay if the wife flirted with a sales person to get a better deal....just my two cents :)
 
I think a lot of men think about this...after all, why does porn sell so well? Clearly the guys that control the porn market know a thing or two about men. Men are dogs! Think a lot of guys masturbate while thinking about their wife having sex with another man. I think a lot of men enjoy watching their wife flirt...and I think most men would be okay if the wife flirted with a sales person to get a better deal....just my two cents :)

Ashley,
i think you are pretty much correct in your assumptiion. However, alot of men lose this fantasy after it actually happens. Especially if the other guy pleasures the wives better than they can. Which i would think it should make them want to try harder to get their wives off.

In some cases i have seen the women are size queens, which can be an issue to overcone for most men. As this can cause physchological issues for some men. Other men who are openly bi, or the men that perform bisexual acts for the womans pleasure, not such an issue, in my experience.
 
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