Transgender, looking for Dom-me for psychological BDSM.

[shadow_thistle]

Hi everyone,

I know this will be an important point for some of you, so let's adress my gender identity first.
I am transgender, and have only started transitioning in some safe circles. I haven't started hormones yet, and am not sure I will - feminity can be expressed in many ways and I am not sure I will need it. After all, being a woman is not only about body ; and one is not born a woman, but becomes one.
So, to put in bluntly - my body still is "male-shaped". However, deep inside I know I am a woman and I would appreciate it very much if you adressed me as such.



I am in my early thirties, live in Western Europe (it's somewhat important - because we need matching timezones, and I would love to meet up some day. However, if we really do click, that's not a blocking matter).
I work full time, and am somewhat busy with various commitments that mean the World to me ; however, I will still make sure I will have enough time for the relationship I am looking for here.

My non-kink interests are :
- Reading / litterature in general ;
- Philosophy, and though systems. Currently, I am exploring the nature / culture dichotomy, as well as gender theory - but anything can feed my thoughts, really ;
- Music (either poetic songwriters, or very hard metal, techno, and free jazz) ;
- Exercicing, as it keeps me (somehow) sane.


Anyway, let's get to business.

As I said, I am looking for Dom-me.

I am looking to explore the following :

- TPE and protocols ; I am willing to give up (progressively and within reason) most of my freedom.
- Chastity play. Long term preferably.
- Service submission.
- Humiliation.
- Pain play.

I do have limits, of course. Everyone does. However, I am not listing them here, because I prefer to discuss what we would like to do first, and see what would go or not.

I really am into the psychological aspect of BDSM. I need to know the reason for everything that is going on ("Because I like it" is a very good reason ; I just need to hear it). I also tend to intellecualize and (let's say it) overthink everything, and that inclused my BDSM relationships.

I would prefer if you were within my age range, but that's not a requirement, as long as you are of legal age.

Your gender doesn't matter to me.

Bonus points if you are queer too, because it might make us closer together ; but that is in no way a necessary.

 

[Dapperguy]

Right, I will cut to the chase. I live in Scotland. I am an alpha male bi. Master both sex and gender. God gifted me with a nine-inch meat stick, for you to worship. I can be harsh when disappointed with my ‘plaything’ when they do not comply with my ambitions for them. I can punish as a true Master should. I expect a sub to be obedient and ambidextrous in terms of sex and applied mechanical technology, such as pin and thread stimulation. I am 42 of age, fit, but not gym specific. I am loving and able to empathise with the world. I like to jigsaw with clitoris or small cocks, no volume is needed as no compressed air is used in this method of erotic stimulation. We can discuss stainless steel innovation and agree on its participation in our work together.

I include role-play in my package, especially non-consensual castration and pickpocket body arousal. No breezing with precum as I know it is too humiliating. I specialise in nipple degradation and wood binding and paper posting of cock and testes. Most subs demand more of this.

I am educated (three university degrees) and freelance teach community groups, specialising in existential community care.

My hobbies include reading literature, ornithology, walking, reading and writing poetry, drinking classical beers, Gustav Mahler and other romantic composers, cooking and baking.

If interested, PM me, my sweet bottom of outrageous desire.

 

[Samantha47]

Right, I will cut to the chase. I live in Scotland. I am an alpha male bi. Master both sex and gender. God gifted me with a nine-inch meat stick, for you to worship. I can be harsh when disappointed with my ‘plaything’ when they do not comply with my ambitions for them. I can punish as a true Master should. I expect a sub to be obedient and ambidextrous in terms of sex and applied mechanical technology, such as pin and thread stimulation. I am 42 of age, fit, but not gym specific. I am loving and able to empathise with the world. I like to jigsaw with clitoris or small cocks, no volume is needed as no compressed air is used in this method of erotic stimulation. We can discuss stainless steel innovation and agree on its participation in our work together.

I include role-play in my package, especially non-consensual castration and pickpocket body arousal. No breezing with precum as I know it is too humiliating. I specialise in nipple degradation and wood binding and paper posting of cock and testes. Most subs demand more of this.

I am educated (three university degrees) and freelance teach community groups, specialising in existential community care.

My hobbies include reading literature, ornithology, walking, reading and writing poetry, drinking classical beers, Gustav Mahler and other romantic composers, cooking and baking.

If interested, PM me, my sweet bottom of outrageous desire.

I'm 26 110 pounds sissy that's completely submissive

 

[Samantha47]

I'm 26 110 pounds sissy that's completely submissive

If you're interested you are exactly what I've been looking for

 

[Dapperguy]

I'm 26 110 pounds sissy that's completely submissive

PM me for details.