I have played with some toys but what got me into more was a prostate toy. First few times I wasnt impressed and found I was doing it wrong. I wasnt hitting the spot! After some practice I found it to be enjoyable and did it often. After awhile I wanted to try a dildo not real big. We had several around as my wife and I played with during sex. It took some time and learning how to relax but I was able completely take 5.5 inch one and I did like the feeling. I have been doing that now for some time and every time I jerk off I feel I have to have something in my ass. Havent had the real thing yet but working on it.