tonguedancer
Really Experienced
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- May 20, 2013
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Are you looking for tips on how to be a bad girl for a specific guy or just guys in general?
This sort of says it. Not all guys are the same. Some actually get off on "shy girls" who have to be "taught" things. Some guys get off on kinky hooker lingerie, some hate it. Personally I hate it. Some guys get off on dirty talking and reacting to being talked dirty to. I love that. Some guys want anal, some guys don't.
Basically, you should first do some reading or watching of porn, not that porn is the way to all men's hearts and hards. But the point is, you need to first know about the options that are out there and then be confident enough to talk honestly and openly and at least semi-dirty about sex. Tell him what you like and ask him what turns you on. Do it after a bit of making out or a few glasses of wine when you're both a little loose and don't drop dirty talk on him in the middle of a restaurant unless you know that's a particular turn on for him. You san say things like, "I really love the first time I feel a hard cock slip into my wet pussy." or "I sometimes wonder if all women love sucking cock as much as I do. Are you a guy who loves licking pussy? I adore having mine licked."
If he cringes, then you know he's not the "dirty girl" type. If he responds in kind, go from there IF that's the sort of thing you want. The most important thing is to be honest with yourself because if you try to fake it, eventually he'll know and it will collapse like a house of cards. Be yourself and if he responds to the real you, then you're home free. If you're looking to expand your repertoire, then tell him and let him help you in what he likes as well as what you like.