The 50-Plus Room - for

56MWM…I’ve been sort of an open book on Lit about marital travails. Currently in little upswing although menopause has really crimped our style.

I noticed some of our Lit ladies that posted are going through the same thing as my wife…I’ll reach out when I have more time as she’s used a couple of things that have helped. I have posted those before in the GB but can’t remember where exactly.

Glad we have a thread of our own!
 
So I’m just going to copy and paste those links as I stumbled on to them in a PM:

Responsive desire
Never in the mood
Both of these are basically the same, but it explains my wife to a T….hope this helps someone on some level.

This is a copy&paste also:

Everything is organic but if she’s interested just do some due diligence and research everything.

The creme she uses is called Silky Peachy Crème…the web site was Parlorgames.com or org (I think). Should be able to just put it in the search.

It won’t let me upload a pic but the name of the other creme is Organic excellence Balance Plus Therapy
organicexcellece.com

The oil is a CBD based sort of thing used for arousal. I can attest that it works as she puts it on me also! I’ll get you the name later.

PS here is the crème web: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/SPCMASTER.html

The CBD oil is called BHRT naturals…

DEAH oil. I think what she uses is the progesterone crème out of this
 
Someone has to be the oldest here. I am well over 70. I post quite often in various threads. Keeping the fire going...
 
Ive had a sexual fling with an older gentleman for about 7 years now. Hes around 63. I enjoy being naked with him. We had another older guy join us(kyle) Hes a black gentleman with a very healthy cock i must add. Im not sure how old but im guessing in his late 50’s. Were all in sexless marriages. Weve had several 3 ways and we meet one on one. Just recently i met Kyle for car play. After not cumming for a whole week i knew he needed release and i was happy to help. I cant understand how his wife doesnt want that big throbbing delicious cock anymore. I told him i was glad to help and i also had a sweet release. Us older guys need to stick together. I may be old but my pecker still feels like im 20.
 
Ive had a sexual fling with an older gentleman for about 7 years now. Hes around 63. I enjoy being naked with him. We had another older guy join us(kyle) Hes a black gentleman with a very healthy cock i must add. Im not sure how old but im guessing in his late 50’s. Were all in sexless marriages. Weve had several 3 ways and we meet one on one. Just recently i met Kyle for car play. After not cumming for a whole week i knew he needed release and i was happy to help. I cant understand how his wife doesnt want that big throbbing delicious cock anymore. I told him i was glad to help and i also had a sweet release. Us older guys need to stick together. I may be old but my pecker still feels like im 20.
That's an amazing arrangement you have there with your two buddies. I'm quite envious tbh haaaaaaaa 🤣

Fun with two nice, hard cocks like you've described with both or even one on one would be something to look forward to even if once a month or two. My dirty mind starts running now where I'd even up the ante and bring my sexy wife along for us all to ravish. I've recently realized her yearning for being tied up and even blindfolded ........ kinda like being a sex toy which you and your friends would just enjoy so so much I'm sure 😜
 
hey ya'll.... 66 year old male, retired living near Tampa Florida. i do have a FWB and the last time i was with him he let me fuck his ass while he was laying on his stomach. i am married and enjoy having sex with my wife. always horny and masturbate almost every day. always looking for more.....more cock, more pussy, more ass if you are willing then i am ready, willing and able...hit me up.
 
My emoji was more about your lit 🔥, not your post , I always enjoy reading your thoughts in assorted threads. You‘re Lit 🥓 , you sizzle with your words. Kudos ‘
like to help a beautiful woman in menapause , accidently get pregnant again. I like surprises....Granny pregnant also.
 
67 in the middle of Illinois. Lit member for a long time, lots of posts and stories to be found. Open for a lot of fun and experimentation. PM if you would like to chat.
 
I'm all for surprised but THAT would be on surprise that would not be welcome
Not only that, is it even possible (forgive my Gen biology ignorance on this if it is!). Anny did you read those articles I posted on Responsive Desire? Sounds like you’re going through what my wife did in peri menopause. It may help you in some small way. Good luck.
 
67 yo male, joined with my wife of 40+ years who is also 67. She responds to questions. I have only had sex with my wife. She has had sex with several men in college and a few since we married. We enjoy reading about others' experiences and sharing ours, especially chatting.
 
I'm 72. Though my partner and I no longer have sex ( She has a chronic illness and I am her caregiver), we have a wonderful relationship and are deeply connected spiritually, and a special way that I serve her is to do massage and other bodywork techniques. It's a joy to make her feel good without having to think about orgasm.
My excellent sex life is with myself. I am having experiences that nourish me erotically and they are quite profound.
I'm on Literotica to let my perv within come out to play.
 
Hello everyone I am 51 mwm from Canada. I am just recently shared with my wife the desire to explore men. She was wonderful about and I have her fill support. Been a fun journey so far learning what type of guys I am attracted to. I am open to chat about anything and everything else.
 
Hi everyone ... 73 year old Brit, sexless marriage,she does not know I am here. ,always happy to chat, particularly with intelligent bbw 50+, on Lit I do have a couple of special friends
 
I fall in the life long bachelorette category. I am honestly not even sure if I could make the necessary accommodations needed to be in a successful relationship. I too have become accustomed to doing things my way, when I want, how I want. But I also would have enjoyed the chance to try. But haven't several years of actively trying and being unsuccessful, I have accepted that it just isn't going to happen for me. Contrary to popular belief, I do not believe that there is someone for everyone and some people, like me, don't get a love of their life.

I'm assuming by "make the necessary accommodations needed..." you are thinking in terms of living with each other. At our age, and any age for that matter, we don't have to cohabitate to be in a committed relationship. I'm 54 and been divorced and living alone for the past 11 years. I'd like to find a great partner again, but I don't think I'd want to live together full time.

I also hear you though about not everyone finding the love of their life. I thought I had it, but since I've been alone the past 11 years I'm at that point where I have given up on finding that true love.
 
My introduction:

I'm a divorced, single white male - age 54. I retired from my corporate job at the end of December 2018 to go back to college.

I have a FWB "relationship"
 
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Hello all. I’m a 62 year old married guy, based in the UK. Whilst I’m not in a completely sexless marriage, our tastes are different and have diverged over our years together. I’m a lover of the more kinky aspects and love to explore here
 
I'm assuming by "make the necessary accommodations needed..." you are thinking in terms of living with each other.
Actually, quite the opposite. When I first started look that was what I wanted. Someone who I would wake up with in the morning, go to sleep next in the evening and share all the good & bad the happens in between. But as time went on and I realized that was not going to happen, I took a long hard look at what I really wanted. And while I still would like to find that person I can share my life with what I really want is someone to enjoy the good times with. Someone to spend time with and do things with. Someone to go to breweries, events, go to new places and do new things with. Just to not be alone all the time. But even being open to something more casual and letting things be what they are, it still didn't happen for me. So now I am learning to accept this fact and not let not having someone stop me from enjoying life.
 
I'm assuming by "make the necessary accommodations needed..." you are thinking in terms of living with each other.
After some thought I realize I may have misunderstood this, so my answer may not make sense. Making the necessary accommodations is more figuring out how to deal with there being someone else to consider. Not necessarily only if we were to live together but even deciding what I want to do or not do for the weekend.
 
Fifty three recent empty nester, kinky CD (not a sissy) in a menopausal monogamous relationship. It’s rough but I’m resourceful with an extensive kinky closet.. Being nonbinary and pansexual I can be my own porn, but I would so love someone to play with.

I’m waiting it out - waiting for my wife to hit her second sexual wind, she hit fifty and is determined - making great progress to get in shape and feel better. She wants it for herself and for us and I believe in her, so for now I’m a do-it-yourselfer. :rolleyes:

Far from vanilla, I’ve had and loved many flavors in many kinds of relationships, often fantasizing now about being some smart, kind, and handsome guy’s best friend - go do guy stuff with gender-queer benefits, with me mostly as the little spoon, but I’d also have a lot of fun when it’s my turn on top. 😉
 
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