Crazy fetish / sex drive in my 50's

[Noor]

I am quite amazed at how different these 'therapy's' can affect different people, women in this case. I had no where near the results Tna4u had, and in fact I did not get any sexual rise from it! I'm sad and glad at the same time?????? I don't know what I would do if I was driven like that! Wow! Just WOW!

Sounds like whatever you were on wasn’t what you were missing.
I’m on hrt plus dhea. Getting hormone blood tests helps a lot. When it was only a patch, I was indifferent.
Dhea helps me produce more testerone which I wasn’t producing enough of due to low s-dhea from surgetical menopause.

 

[Noor]

Also my body reacts to some men and is completely indifferent to others.
Audition a variety and see.

 

[joclfc]

I'm now in my early 50's and my sex drive and fetish interest has returned and increased so much. I married when i was 45 to a woman with an average sex drive and little interest in anything kink, just a plain jane. I was content with that as I was a bit of a man whore throughout my 20's and 30's, had threesomes, one night stands and preferred sex with strangers over long term girlfriends. I've often masturbated to my older sister and on a number of occasions came close to initiating something with her when we'd drink & do coke together. And by my early 40's was slowing down and looking to settle down. But lately I've had an insatiable sexual appetite, I'm getting aroused everyday, all day by young and old, at work, on the train, I'm masturbating in the bathroom at work, I'm watching porn constantly. Im tempted to grope females on the train, i come home and watch more porn, mostly incest stuff but I now find stuff with much much older women very arousing. I love pregnant porn and young women peeing gets me off now too. I love my wife but I'm now looking to seek no strings attached encounters, I'm trying to find free hookup sites to meet young n old women. Anyone else in their 50's experience such an increase in sexual interests and drive ???

Yes and my wife doesn't want anything to do with me I bed

 

[Elayne_Hawke]

But it is true, as I get further through my 50's I am getting more and more sexually adventurous and my libido is higher than it was in my 20's ......... I shit you not!

Same, mine has drastically increased in the last year which I find interesting.

I went through a major dry spell for quite a few years in my late 40's. I think part of it was because I was hitting pre-menopause and stress from work. Now that I took some time for myself and my body's not being so spastic, my sex drive is as intense as when I was younger, a horny ass bitch with a raging libido. Life is great lol

 

[Treeview]

...my sex drive is as intense as when I was younger, a horny ass bitch with a raging libido. Life is great lol

That's what I found as I was dating Ladies who were post-menopause. Very adverturesome and sexpiremental. WOW

 

[BabyBoomer50s]

Same, mine has drastically increased in the last year which I find interesting.

I went through a major dry spell for quite a few years in my late 40's. I think part of it was because I was hitting pre-menopause and stress from work. Now that I took some time for myself and my body's not being so spastic, my sex drive is as intense as when I was younger, a horny ass bitch with a raging libido. Life is great lol

Stress from work or other aspects of day to day life can have a tremendously adverse impact on libido. Good for you for taking time to yourself and freeing yourself from the negativity.

 

[Badguy4u]

I'm now in my early 50's and my sex drive and fetish interest has returned and increased so much. I married when i was 45 to a woman with an average sex drive and little interest in anything kink, just a plain jane. I was content with that as I was a bit of a man whore throughout my 20's and 30's, had threesomes, one night stands and preferred sex with strangers over long term girlfriends. I've often masturbated to my older sister and on a number of occasions came close to initiating something with her when we'd drink & do coke together. And by my early 40's was slowing down and looking to settle down. But lately I've had an insatiable sexual appetite, I'm getting aroused everyday, all day by young and old, at work, on the train, I'm masturbating in the bathroom at work, I'm watching porn constantly. Im tempted to grope females on the train, i come home and watch more porn, mostly incest stuff but I now find stuff with much much older women very arousing. I love pregnant porn and young women peeing gets me off now too. I love my wife but I'm now looking to seek no strings attached encounters, I'm trying to find free hookup sites to meet young n old women. Anyone else in their 50's experience such an increase in sexual interests and drive ???

Wait until you get in your 60s. Doesn't decrease, but availability does

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

Same, mine has drastically increased in the last year which I find interesting.

I went through a major dry spell for quite a few years in my late 40's. I think part of it was because I was hitting pre-menopause and stress from work. Now that I took some time for myself and my body's not being so spastic, my sex drive is as intense as when I was younger, a horny ass bitch with a raging libido. Life is great lol

You are so correct. I too ran into a decade plus long dry spell. Between demands of the job, raising children and financial pressures, sex gradually fell lower on the priority list. Once those pressures subsided, I regained the horniness I had in my 20s. The problem is that I can no longer cum 4-5 times a night like I used to back in those days.

 

[SingleinPNW]

I'm so sad to hear this. If I could share it with you, I totally would! It did take some experimenting and mixology to get the balance of progo/estro/testo just right.

I agree as well- I had to really advocate for myself and keep trying - it took me years but I did give up for a while and have other health stuff going on for a bit. When I finally got it right and felt like myself again, I had the same sex drive I’ve always had. I say keep trying and don’t accept “kinda ok” results.
I actually had surgical menopause - had to have ovaries out so was sudden full menopause in early 40s with HRT from the beginning.

 

[TnA4U]

I agree as well- I had to really advocate for myself and keep trying - it took me years but I did give up for a while and have other health stuff going on for a bit. When I finally got it right and felt like myself again, I had the same sex drive I’ve always had. I say keep trying and don’t accept “kinda ok” results.
I actually had surgical menopause - had to have ovaries out so was sudden full menopause in early 40s with HRT from the beginning.

Good for you!!!

 

[XXVIII]

Felt a big increase in my sex drive, kinks, and fetishes in my late 40's and now into my 50's. It's been fun exploring and opening up, and while my wife doesn't quite have the breadth of kinks and fetishes that I do, she loves my broadening sexuality. She embraces all of it and what we share together. I love that we can talk about it openly together too.

 

[Tweedledude]

It was when I was in my earlier 50's that I was introduced to the experience of group sex. I found this to satisfy my mature cravings for different sex very rewarding. I will always be thankful for meeting H & W my Dutch friends who introduced me to that and one or two other pursuits lol.

But it is true, as I get further through my 50's I am getting more and more sexually adventurous and my libido is higher than it was in my 20's ......... I shit you not!

Excellent attitude. If only you could bottle it and sell it as an active additive to breakfast cereal. Sure would help resolve a lot of stress and relationship induced problems.....

 

[Matt3427]

While in college I had an experience that was wonderful. While in second year I was doing work experience and having sex with a 54yo woman who worked there. She was widowed and her son was 2 years older than me in the same college.

 

[Sienna62]

That's what I found as I was dating Ladies who were post-menopause. Very adverturesome and sexpiremental. WOW

The BEST

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

Let's face it, we have a healthier attitude towards sex when we are over 50. For the most part, women had body issues when they were in their teens and 20s. A vast majority of women who I have spoken with and who came of sexual age in the 60s, 70s and well into the 80s have told me this. The reasons for this can fill a book. Most guys I have spoken with were trying to perform likes the guys in porn movies while trying to screw as many women as they could. Often it was a numbers game so they could brag to thier friends.

Then as we get older (most) women seem to lose those body hang ups. They, IMHO become sexier because who cares if there is some exrta weight or if there are wrinkles on the face or if the body sags here and there. They seem to be able to relax more and let thier inner sexuality come out...with the right kind of guy. As for guys, I can only speak for myself. My days of being able to get hard and cum 4-5 times a night are over and I ain't ashamed to admit it. (LOL an old joke was that it now takes me all night to do what I used to do all night) Sex, and in particular my orgasm, has become part of the "date" instead of being the sole goal of the experience.

So cutting through all the reasons, explainations and justifications; sexual fulfillment is all mental. And for most of us, we don't comprehend that until later in life.

 

[Sienna62]

While in college I had an experience that was wonderful. While in second year I was doing work experience and having sex with a 54yo woman who worked there. She was widowed and her son was 2 years older than me in the same college.

What a dream agenda

 

[drobert44]

O yes, fucking a married granny last fall, we were 79.

 

[Tweedledude]

Our general horniness and varied sexual interests increases and the wife's decreases. Good combination for constant masturbation.

No truer words were ever spoken

 

[Sienna62]

Im 54 and on the downhill slide of going through menopause. Besides annoying brain fog, hot flashes and a little weight gain, my sex drive is still high; I mean, my kids r out of the house,so I figure, what else do I have to do??? As a submissive, I was hopping to find DD/bg dynamic and while there are loads of them on lit,I can't seem to find any that r single, wanting a monogamous, meaningful connection. It's a good thing my vibe is rechargeable; I'd hate to think of what I would have to fork out for replacing batteries, lol!

Nice to read , here anytime … pm

 

[Sienna62]

Also my body reacts to some men and is completely indifferent to others.
Audition a variety and see.

I’m here for the audition

 

[hulmule]

My wife has been in menopause for years..... Has no interest in sex. Sad im dying inside

 

[drobert44]

Im 54 and on the downhill slide of going through menopause. Besides annoying brain fog, hot flashes and a little weight gain, my sex drive is still high; I mean, my kids r out of the house,so I figure, what else do I have to do??? As a submissive, I was hopping to find DD/bg dynamic and while there are loads of them on lit,I can't seem to find any that r single, wanting a monogamous, meaningful connection. It's a good thing my vibe is rechargeable; I'd hate to think of what I would have to fork out for replacing batteries, lol!

I could do that, but not a commitment.