How about "encourage arousal?" Sometimes masturbation is not convenient.
Isn't this true of every story with a sex scene? Does anyone who writes a sex scene in a story NOT want readers to stroke to it? What is a NONstroker?
We're talking about sex scenes that are the entire story, not part of a larger whole. Or at least, that's how I understand it. Just scene, no sequel.
That's a sensible definition, but it's not everybody's, as is evident from other perspectives in this thread.
To be tied, blindfolded, and then have your cute little bottom flogged until it's a bright pink.
Though nowadays I’m more likely to be looking for house plants at a garden center.
Advised by whom?
A handful of lovely folks have given me a variety of lovely suggestions. But your tone makes me feel like I might be getting someone in trouble if I were to cough up a name. As intriguing as that is, such lip-flappery is not my style.
so I remain open to suggestions.
I wasn't asking for names. The answer to my question is "individuals here at the forum."A handful of lovely folks have given me a variety of lovely suggestions. But your tone makes me feel like I might be getting someone in trouble if I were to cough up a name. As intriguing as that is, such lip-flappery is not my style.
But . . .
If the issue is the advice itself, then great! Do you have better advice you’d like me to use instead? Because I still haven’t begun my first piece yet
I don't sneer at them (I'll read them sometimes), but I don't write them. For one, it doesn't interest me enough to be worth the effort. For another, I don't think that is where my talent is. I think that if any of my sex scenes are hot enough to qualify, it's because the characters are good enough that the anticipation makes the scene hotter than it really is.
The therapist in me cannot help it: may I ask you to elaborate on what you mean by “correct?” Please know I’m asking curiously, respectfully, and not at all to sound challenging. This sort of dialog excites me.
I forgot to include that you would be stripped naked and tied to an "X" cross in the town's public square and left there with a sign, "No penetration. No orgasm. Until Midnight. Outside of that... everything is 'game'... nipples.... clit... lips- both sets". Still sound familiar?
I think what @Erozetta means is that the only rule is to write what you want to write. Don't let anyone convince you that you *have* to write a certain type of story, that you *have* to make it deep and meaningful or *have* to start by writing simple strokers, that you *have* to write a certain number of words, that you *have* to do this.
Correct as in there is no right way to do it, but to write the story as it needs to be told as you see it.
That's part of the punishment.
