voluptuary_manque
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Funny thing, Mama prefers it with just a plain dildo. The Nexus didn't do much for her.
Strap on sex- taking it like a man
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sophia jane
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That's interesting. I've heard only great things about both the Nexus and the Feeldoe, but I guess it'd be like all things, just a matter of personal preference.
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Here's the one I was talking about:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=263206&highlight=strap-on
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I've written a couple stories in this vein myself. I find the idea of making a guy totally lose control very interesting. My concern would definitely be with making it pleasurable rather than painful.
After reading that thread in the Playground, I wrote one story specifically about a man who was interested in it and how he approached his wife. It's called Ask and Ye Shall Recieve. The fans of the idea enjoyed it, though I was told by one reader that using a dildo on a guy's ass was NOT anal. LOL
After reading that thread in the Playground, I wrote one story specifically about a man who was interested in it and how he approached his wife. It's called Ask and Ye Shall Recieve. The fans of the idea enjoyed it, though I was told by one reader that using a dildo on a guy's ass was NOT anal. LOL
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Oh! I'll have to read it.
My interest in using a strap-on actually started because of a man I was involved with who really wanted to try it; we never got to, but the fantasy stuck with me. It's definitely not something I want to do as a Dom/sub thing or even as a power thing; it's more that the idea of being able to be the one doing the fucking is really a turn on.
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My very first story here A Beginning for an End and its sequel were on that very subject and its mentioned again in Drums. That last one wasn't well received. Interracial must be the wrong place for it.
voluptuary_manque
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Violet Blue wrote a really good book on the subject, The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex. I recommend it. Now there's a woman who really likes men. Women, too, BTW.
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I've written one too, and it was focused totally on pleasure and not in a dom/sub kind of way (though there was role reversal in the story... sort of). Mine is in Toys & Masturbation category. It got a several comments, but it was a holiday contest story, so I think that had a lot to do with it.
There was a time when I kind of wanted to do this, but the fantasy has kind of died. I can't live it out with who I live with anyway.
There was a time when I kind of wanted to do this, but the fantasy has kind of died. I can't live it out with who I live with anyway.
CeriseNoire
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I've always taken interest in the subject. The only story I have in print is actually about strap-on sex.
It seems like a huge sign of trust.
It seems like a huge sign of trust.
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CeriseNoire
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That's perfectly understandable. I feel similarly about anal sex. If I get there someday, I'd like for it to be kind of a give and take situation.
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Very no.
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I don't have any great interest here, but if my lover had a great interest in it...
...let's just say that in order for me to be in the kind of relationship I want and am currently enjoying, EVERYTHING has to be at least open for discussion. That's not saying I'm gonna turn around and tell her to go for it... just that I think we are always better off with more communication.
If something were to turn out to be some kind of majorly secret and unfulfilled fantasy of Imp's, I would be hard pressed to deny it to her. I mean, as long as it wasn't something that really, really squicked me out.
...let's just say that in order for me to be in the kind of relationship I want and am currently enjoying, EVERYTHING has to be at least open for discussion. That's not saying I'm gonna turn around and tell her to go for it... just that I think we are always better off with more communication.
If something were to turn out to be some kind of majorly secret and unfulfilled fantasy of Imp's, I would be hard pressed to deny it to her. I mean, as long as it wasn't something that really, really squicked me out.
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I think that's what made me so sad for the men who wrote feedback to me about the story.
They had this deep, burning desire to try it. They really wanted to experience this. But they were too afraid to bring it up to their women because "straight" guys aren't supposed to want a little anal play.
If they had tried it and realized it wasn't their thing, fine. And maybe if some of the guys did try it, they would decide it really wasn't for them, anyway.
But to secretly long for something you're too embarrassed to ask for, even with the person you're supposed to be closest to?
Well that's just a shame, isn't it?
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Much of my marriage was that way, and it is sad. I'm glad I'm in a place now where I can be honest with myself and with any partners I have about what I do and don't want. It makes sex sooo much better when you aren't always secretly longing for the special something that's missing.
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Like drinking cheap whiskey???
Sorry, that was uncalled for...
No, just accurate.
Cheap whiskey has its uses... disinfectant, for example.
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I'd totally do it if she wanted it.
OneLustyWench
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OK, first of all, regular strap ons just don't cut it. You don't feel the sensation as the giver and second, it's just damn awkward. It doesn't move the way a man moves with his equipment. (at least in my two experiences with a friend and their toys)
But something that lets you feel the experience as if it was factory installed equipment has to be a plus. Hard to get a grove on when you have to worry about holding it where it needs to be.
But something that lets you feel the experience as if it was factory installed equipment has to be a plus. Hard to get a grove on when you have to worry about holding it where it needs to be.
I would love it
All I fantasize about, it seems, is being fucked with a strap-on. I've used dildos/butt plugs while masturbating and have loved it. I need perhaps a feeldoe but I want the biggest one. But, I guess it's just a fantasy. Women that I meet that seem edgy or adventurous aren't interested.
I just read this :
http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/
Reading the article, I thought first- oooh I want a feeldoe (not the first time for that thought), but I also started to wonder how many men would be willing, how many enjoy it, how many think it's awful.
So, what do you think:
have you or would you let your girl fuck you with a strap on?
do you like it?
what's the appeal?
if you disliked it, why?
For the shy, feel free to pm me.
All I fantasize about, it seems, is being fucked with a strap-on. I've used dildos/butt plugs while masturbating and have loved it. I need perhaps a feeldoe but I want the biggest one. But, I guess it's just a fantasy. Women that I meet that seem edgy or adventurous aren't interested.
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I don't even want a finger back there.
Though I do love a good lesbian strap-on porn vid. Watching two women strap-on fuck a third is one of my favorite things.
Though I do love a good lesbian strap-on porn vid. Watching two women strap-on fuck a third is one of my favorite things.
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I'd love to do it. It would be massively cool to be on the giving end of penetration.
It's weird, though, whilst I would like to do a man with a strap on, I'm not certain I would be comfortable doing it to The Fiance... he's such a big powerful man, so in control and I like that about him. I wonder, would it change things too much if I made him vulnerable? Although sometimes, when he's emotionally vulnerable, it's nice because it brings balance in... I would have to think carefully about it if the topic came up. It probably won't, though, because of various health issues which I do *not* need to get into here.
As for f/f sex - strap-ons? Bring it on.
Shame the f/f option is ruled out by monogamy. Oh well, that's the grey lining to my silver cloud
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It's weird, though, whilst I would like to do a man with a strap on, I'm not certain I would be comfortable doing it to The Fiance... he's such a big powerful man, so in control and I like that about him. I wonder, would it change things too much if I made him vulnerable? Although sometimes, when he's emotionally vulnerable, it's nice because it brings balance in... I would have to think carefully about it if the topic came up. It probably won't, though, because of various health issues which I do *not* need to get into here.
As for f/f sex - strap-ons? Bring it on.
Shame the f/f option is ruled out by monogamy. Oh well, that's the grey lining to my silver cloud
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