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So let's just say someone I've known for years...we'll call them "person X"...has a habit of flirting or expressing an openness to sex when...and usually only when...there's little chance of it happening...such as when I leaving for work...like literally walking out the damn door, for one.
Just wondering if it's an experience that anyone else has noticed in their interactions with naked humans. I guess I'm not sure if it's a response to past trauma (I know I should but I'm only comfortable when I can't), or some circadian rhythm that affects levels of stress or anxiety (mind is more clear in the morning), or maybe I'm just lousy in bed and have bad body odor....who knows. I'm weird. I know that much at least.
I also realize there are morning people and evening people, in terms of when they are more likely to be interested in sex. It could be just that as well. I'm just more inclined to wonder that it's something to do with anxiety...because it's more likely to be offered when the timing precludes the opportunity.
Just wondering if it's an experience that anyone else has noticed in their interactions with naked humans. I guess I'm not sure if it's a response to past trauma (I know I should but I'm only comfortable when I can't), or some circadian rhythm that affects levels of stress or anxiety (mind is more clear in the morning), or maybe I'm just lousy in bed and have bad body odor....who knows. I'm weird. I know that much at least.
I also realize there are morning people and evening people, in terms of when they are more likely to be interested in sex. It could be just that as well. I'm just more inclined to wonder that it's something to do with anxiety...because it's more likely to be offered when the timing precludes the opportunity.