Julianoble
Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2013
- Posts
- 30
This is really for the women to respond. I am a lesbian beginning a new relationship and have never had an orgasm from someone going down on me. I'm not above giving instruction but I don't want to keep saying things like, 'here' 'no here' 'maybe harder', etc... The only way I come is by myself with a bullet vibrator and while I know I will be able to incorporate this into play at some point, my goal is to really enjoy oral sex. I like giving it but it doesn't do much for me when I'm getting it. Maybe I've become accustomed to a powerful vibe? Not sure but no one ever really helped me learn about getting oral and I don't want to seem really high maintenance about getting it. And being older I feel uncomfortable about not knowing what works for me by now.