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Brand New to BDSM and this board

Hello!!

Where to begin..... well I asked my husband of 15 yrs for a divorce a few months ago. It was kind of one of the final steps in a 4 year long personal journey. I decided that 15 years of really bad sex was enough (of course there were more issues) and so I went out searching for a way to rectify the no sex/bad sex problem.

I have been fascinated with BDSM since I was 15. I am 37 years old now so it's been a long time. I tried to experiment with it in my younger years, but after a few bad experiences I had given up. Being older and a lot wiser, I set out to find a Dom and fulfill my needs.

I had my very first ever scene yesterday!! I still feel giddy about it. That is what made me find this board. I need to talk to others about it. It is amazing to me how topsy turvey my ideas of right/wrong or normal/abnormal have been. I found so many answers in my exploration of the BDSM community and finally feel like I belong.
 
SunnyMoon77 said:
Hello!!

Where to begin..... well I asked my husband of 15 yrs for a divorce a few months ago. It was kind of one of the final steps in a 4 year long personal journey. I decided that 15 years of really bad sex was enough (of course there were more issues) and so I went out searching for a way to rectify the no sex/bad sex problem.

I have been fascinated with BDSM since I was 15. I am 37 years old now so it's been a long time. I tried to experiment with it in my younger years, but after a few bad experiences I had given up. Being older and a lot wiser, I set out to find a Dom and fulfill my needs.

I had my very first ever scene yesterday!! I still feel giddy about it. That is what made me find this board. I need to talk to others about it. It is amazing to me how topsy turvey my ideas of right/wrong or normal/abnormal have been. I found so many answers in my exploration of the BDSM community and finally feel like I belong.
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Welcome !! Everyone is different in their likes and dislikes,Some are the same. But each has it's own individuality. Hope you enjoy the site
 
Hi. 46M. Denver area.

My wife has had a boyfriend for about 8 years, now. I guess you could say I'm a cuck, but not the humiliated kind. We're not into that, really. She enjoys sex with me. She enjoys sex with him. Occasionally (about once or twice a month?), she enjoys a good threesome!

I've always been a bit more intellectual in my approach to my wife's extramarital fun. Sure...there's tons of porn out there for couples like us, and we do like to watch it from time to time. But I've always been excited more by the idea that there are other couples like us out there (in here?) who are willing to share their experiences...and not just the sex stories...the stories of how it happened, how they (like me) conquered the jealousy, and how they "get along" in the world.

So...here I am.

Pleased to me you.
 
gabriel16 said:
Hi Vyenna--- If you'd like others to be able to contact you, you can turn on PRIVATE MESSAGES in your profile. If not, leave it turned off.

Anyway, welcome! and enjoy!

Gabriel
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I didn't realize that was turned off... thanks!
 
Coming back after a few years, just to have some RP fun and maybe (hopefully) find a real connection. :cathappy:
 
Hi

Hello I'm spiderweb360 I just got into this and I was interested in knowing more about this subject. I'm looking for older women who like younger guys and that like to be the dominant one hope to get some replies.
 
iicemann here

Hello! First, please read my name properly, it's iceman with two i's and two n's. (Misreading it could be nasty.) With that out of the way, I'll continue.

I've read Lit for years, and decided to join and post in the Discussion Board today for the first time. I am genuinely interested in your replies about your experiences - I want to explore much more (kink) with my wife :D. We've pushed some boundaries but there is so much more pleasure to be had...

I enjoy being active outdoors: XC Mtn biking hard is my sport and I also windsurf. I am forthright but not mean. I am genuine so you can believe what I say. If I contact you, it's legit. Please be respectful as I will be.

I enjoy our real STORIES, long tales that happily include sex. Tx Tall Tales, Stangstar006, TStormF1 and Burntredstone write like that and are my favorite authors that come to mind at this moment. Also a LONG series about a Handyman on the Eastern US who ranged all the way down to the Keys.

There's an intro. Love to hear from you with your ideas for us. You'll learn more about me by interacting with me.

iicemann
 
So....

Hello out there - I'm a mid 20s guy in the UK. Read a story recently about a woman tying up a guy, which I really enjoyed - led me to this forum to find out a little more!

Not sure I'm into more of the harder stuff I've seen on here, so let me know if I'm in the wrong place! Thought I would say hi anyway :)
 
Hello to everyone

I just want to say that I have been a fan of this site for a long time now:) most of the stories are really well written and captivate me from the beginning and others really build me up. I'm here mostly for chat but I try to not say never.
 
Hello

Im new to the site, just joined today. Found the site when i was searching Dom/Sub storys. Ive always been interested in "bdsm" but Its not somthing i have any real experiace in at all. never in real life have i meet anyone who didnt think i was completly insane for thinking the things i do so i look forward to talking to people here and learning what i can. Any advice or thought on where to begin would be appreciated.
 
Divinewind57 said:
Im new to the site, just joined today. Found the site when i was searching Dom/Sub storys. Ive always been interested in "bdsm" but Its not somthing i have any real experiace in at all. never in real life have i meet anyone who didnt think i was completly insane for thinking the things i do so i look forward to talking to people here and learning what i can. Any advice or thought on where to begin would be appreciated.
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Research everything also and talking about it with others who have experience will help a lot. It's a lot more than what people think
 
New here!

I'm totally new to all the BDSM stuff, but I was curious when I was much younger and upon some encouragement from a friend, here I am! I'm here to learn what I can about the lifestyle, make friends and explore. :devil:

Audrey
 
AudreyUnsettled said:
I'm totally new to all the BDSM stuff, but I was curious when I was much younger and upon some encouragement from a friend, here I am! I'm here to learn what I can about the lifestyle, make friends and explore. :devil:

Audrey
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Welcome. I suggest that you explore the threads in the forum. Get to know people who post regularly and ask questions as they come to you. BDSM is a very wide umbrella; only you can know what it is that will turn your crank.

Oh, and you can expect many, many offers of help via Private Messages. Ignore them.
 
hi all -
long time lurker, first time poster. i'm a bit new to all this posting stuff so i'll be a bit shy at first, but i'll start getting involved soon, promise ;)
 
Love your open mindlessness

As a guy who loves to wear oanties and be dominated by women it's good to know that there are wonen Thai do judge and are interested if not into it. I've never had a woman turn me down by wearing panties!
 
SassyKatz71 said:
Research everything also and talking about it with others who have experience will help a lot. It's a lot more than what people think
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Thanks, thats good advice. Ive been researching and talking to people as much as i can. The more i do the more i find out just how much i dont know. Id like to thank eveyone for the pm ive recived. Your advice has been appreciated.
 
ps0lady said:
hi all -
long time lurker, first time poster. i'm a bit new to all this posting stuff so i'll be a bit shy at first, but i'll start getting involved soon, promise ;)
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I hope you will. Look around, find a comfy spot, and join in the fun.
 
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