my fantasy as well
My fantasy is similar to yours.I like to think of my wife with other men or even an ex while having sex.Once the orgasm subsides I feel differently about it.
For this reason to me it is best left as a fantasy.
My wife entertains me by talking dirty during sex,describing what her and some of her boyfriends have done etc.
She and I both agree it stops there.
I would tread very lightly in this department.
She had strong feelings for the ex at one time and those feelings could come up again.
You said she likes to chat and get you both hot then have great sex.
What is wrong with leaving it there.
The mind is the biggest sexual organ there is.Most things lose appeal in reality where the fantasy is as hot as you want to make it.
It is good to hear someone else who is as warped as me but I would leave it at that.
Just my take on it.
Nothing is worth risking your marriage over.
My fantasy is similar to yours.I like to think of my wife with other men or even an ex while having sex.Once the orgasm subsides I feel differently about it.
For this reason to me it is best left as a fantasy.
My wife entertains me by talking dirty during sex,describing what her and some of her boyfriends have done etc.
She and I both agree it stops there.
I would tread very lightly in this department.
She had strong feelings for the ex at one time and those feelings could come up again.
You said she likes to chat and get you both hot then have great sex.
What is wrong with leaving it there.
The mind is the biggest sexual organ there is.Most things lose appeal in reality where the fantasy is as hot as you want to make it.
It is good to hear someone else who is as warped as me but I would leave it at that.
Just my take on it.
Nothing is worth risking your marriage over.