TheOlderGuy
Purveyor of Pleasure
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When you stay in a marriage for the sake of your kids, and and the kids get grown, off to college or out on their own, when does your obligation to stay end?
I'm sure most on here know what I went thru yesterday in my marriage and that I need to leave for my own safety. My oldest(she's 23) says what he did was wrong but I should try therapy and us learn how to communicate. That what he did was wrong, but we need to try to fix it.
My youngest doesn't know exactly what he did...she couldn't handle it. I told her he had crossed a line there was no uncrossing and that leaving him may be own option. She cried. Said she understood, but she didn't want it to come to that cause she didn't think she could handle it.
When exactly does my obligation end?
For your safety, and for theirs, you know the answer to that