Isn't painful anal more erotic?

[saintcero]

I am a sub bottom. My submissive side wants to be taken and filled to the limit (whatever that is). I don’t want you to kill me with the size of your cock but you sure can scare me to death when I see it the first time.

 

[haventdonethat]

#1 Rule

THe Receiver sets the pace. If they want to be entered faster they ask or take it. Go slow...the rewared is worth it many times over

#2 Rule

Lots of lube...no need to elaborate

This was first wife's method.
I would hold the head of my cock on her hole and she would push back at her own pace, rocking back and forth until I was all in.
I found it very erotic not moving at all and hearing her moans as she did the rocking motion. And played with herself at the same time.

 

[Easyvirtue]

I have only had a few experiences but never with my wife. The women I’ve had before were anal professionals and never experienced any pain with them.