How to -- Oral Worship

mouthful6

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Kiss. Blowjob. Eat her out.

Ah hah moment came to me when I figured out they are all the same, at least in starting out in my head space -- attention, watching, listening, focus, savoring each instant. -- how would I want to receive fuels how I give.

Instead of telling my partner how I want to receive oral, I just give oral that way. Instant understanding. Her pussy? Just started thinking of it as a small cock on the outside, or a mostly outside-in version of me. How do I want worship? Just like this.

Now, I kiss better also, and my partner gives better, as well.

How do you give or get better oral worship?
 
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All men but one that I've had pleasure me really only used their tongue and mouth mildly..
My ex husband used to, until one night he was down there and began vibrating his lips (like blowing raspberries) on my clit.. well, after that, I was hooked on him pleasing my pussy any time!!
 
All men but one that I've had pleasure me really only used their tongue and mouth mildly..
My ex husband used to, until one night he was down there and began vibrating his lips (like blowing raspberries) on my clit.. well, after that, I was hooked on him pleasing my pussy any time!!
Thanks for this!

I can imagine this would feel good on me, especially when shaved & slick with spit, or maybe even just humming while sucking. I would guess the sound could be a turn on or distraction, so music could be good. I've never received something the like.

So yeah, potentially my wife might love this, too, if she had AirPods in, maybe just nodding, moaning, etc. to give me cues, but otherwise checked out & not self conscious about the added kink.
 
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I have been considering a story idea for a while that plays the "Mirror Game" to learn what feels good orally to a partner. The basic idea is a round of 69 where the fellatrix demonstrates what he/she wants the partner to do using their hands, mouth, and tongue. Anal play and taint are direct mirrors of course. Whatever the giver does the receiver does. The example of a standard male/female 69 would have the woman giving her partner a blowjob but all the actions she takes are not for her partner's pleasure. They are designed to direct her partner on what she like. The head of the penis is the analogue for the clitoris, the balls are the labia, the shaft of the penis is for vaginal play. tongue on shaft directs partner to use tongue on/in vagina. Once the woman's pleasure is achieved, the reverse happens and the man uses his mouth, tongue, and fingers on her to direct her in what he wants from the blowjob. It's a story in my head, now I just have to find the time to translate it to the printed page.
 
Because I love to do it so much, pleasuring my lover's cunt is naturally an act of worship. I listen to the sounds she makes and feel her movement.....it becomes a dance. Licking, light biting, clit sucking......all for her pleasure, and if I've done well she will bless me with her cum.
 
All men but one that I've had pleasure me really only used their tongue and mouth mildly..
My ex husband used to, until one night he was down there and began vibrating his lips (like blowing raspberries) on my clit.. well, after that, I was hooked on him pleasing my pussy any time!!
I'd take your clit and suck it like it was a little penis, feeling it swell and harden in my mouth until I could feel your female cum dripping in my mouth.
And if you would allow me I'd finger your asshole while my mouth worked your cunt until I could feel you spasm and clamp down on my finger as you orgasimed.
 
All men but one that I've had pleasure me really only used their tongue and mouth mildly..
My ex husband used to, until one night he was down there and began vibrating his lips (like blowing raspberries) on my clit.. well, after that, I was hooked on him pleasing my pussy any time!!
 
My wife is very picky about sex, very - does not allow much at all - but she loves me to go down on her and I camp out there. Never tried that trick, she may not like it but will try as soon as she says we can give it a go. Thanks
 
My wife is very picky about sex, very - does not allow much at all - but she loves me to go down on her and I camp out there. Never tried that trick, she may not like it but will try as soon as she says we can give it a go. Thanks
Be careful, as it's dangerous I read somewhere to blow air into the vagina... Keep the raspberry on her clit😉
 
Never eat the same pussy the same way twice in a row! Don’t be predictable. Start gently by only licking her soft skin around the labia, then make teasing thrusts with your tongue into her waiting pussy lips. Lap, slurp, and pant like a hungry puppy. Don’t touch her wonderful clit until she is very ready. Be sure to show her you love it. Once you do suck her clitoris between your lips, gently suck it like a tiny nipple and flick it with the tip of your tongue. Use your fingers and a vibrator, too. Let her moans and shrieks be your guide. Once she climaxes, lay still with her until she recovers, then celebrate her orgasm with loving kisses to her inner thighs. Tell her how wonderful she is and what a privilege it is to give her pleasure.
 
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Never eat the same pussy the same way twice in a row! Don’t be predictable. Start gently by only licking her soft skin around the labia, then make teasing thrusts with your tongue into her waiting pussy lips. Lap, slurp, and pant like a hungry puppy. Don’t touch her wonderful clit until she is very ready. Be sure to show her you love it. Once you do suck her clitoris between your lips, gently suck it like snippets and flick it with the tip of your tongue. Use your fingers and a vibrator, too. Let her moans and shrieks be your guide. Once she climaxes, lay still with her until she recovers, then celebrate her orgasm with loving kisses to her inner thighs. Tell her how wonderful she is and what a privilege it is to give her pleasure.
Well i used to please my ladies like this, but now menopause has changed things. My wife thinks its dirty
 
For me, my love of eating her out started in college. When I first started having sex as a teenager (before the internet) my gf and I tried it, I know about the clit, but I didn't have the sexual confidence in myself. I think I might have given my gf at the time an orgasm (she loved to strum her clit when I was inside her). That's a memory I have of our first time together (we lost our virginity together).

When I was in college I dated a woman who was probably my first emotional love. When her and I became sexual a few months in, I was feeling really playful as we were on her bed in her apartment one night, and started a kiss trail down her chest (she was a bbw). This was the mid 90s and she had pubic hair. As I reached her pubes I started to run my tongue around them and playing with them. Her whimper to my first lick up her slit (her juices tasted amazing) told me this needs to be amazing for her. I remember a book I found in my mom's bedroom (yeah I snooped) called "Extended Sexual Orgasm" and I took its lessons to heart, so when I next would have access to a pussy I wanted to try it out :)

As she approached her orgasm, I would slow down my licking or change it up somehow - different pressure, tracing my tongue around her vagina differently, and suckle her clit as if it were one of her nipples. I'd slide a finger inside her finding her g-spot (I think I could definitely feel something along her front wall). I wish I could remember how long I kept her orgasm at bay before I finally allowed her to orgasm - I think she even squirted :) One thing I would love to do with her is keep my tongue in contact with her clit through her orgasm, then after she would start to come down off the O, to start to slowly caress her clit for a second orgasm :)

One session with her started in the back woods of a city park, then we went to my apartment to continue our festivities - she called that day "shit man day" as that was about all she could say when we were finished - I gave her three orgasms like that back to back before she pushed me away as she couldn't stand any touch - even a simple caress on her nipples. I was able to join her inside, slowly :)

Because of my time with her, for me I love pleasing her orally. I have ED now (20+ years later) because of a case of MS (tried pills but they just give me a headache). To me it is even more intimate than screwing - being able to taste her reactions to what my mouth, lips, tongue, hell the tip of my nose gets involved sometimes :) It was with her that I discovered having an altoid in your mouth adds a new dimension for her.

About a decade after we had been together, her and I had an affair, we were both married. I flew up to CT to see her, and we spent a weekend together at a hotel up in Mass., we were talking after our first session, and she said that after we were together that she had tried bisexuality for a while, but that no one, man or woman, ever gave her the orgasms like I had.

When we were together, I didn't know the term Oral Worship, but yeah, it is what I live for.
 
I will bullet point my way of worshipping my Master’s nice plump ballsac and his membrum penile:
 
  • Make a point of breathing in his genitals aroma and make sure he sees your response.
  • Place your cheeks against his genitals and inform him how hot they are.
  • Turn and face them, look at them pregnantly then sigh and softly tell him they are beautiful. Gaze at them lovingly and place your hands on his buttocks and gently feel their power. He’ll know what you have discovered.
  • If his cock is still flaccid, lift it with one hand and fully examine it, after which look up at his face and give him a little knowing smile, while placing your other hand under his ballsac and let him see you feel their weight. Tell him his testicles are fully loaded for you.
  • Now, pull back the foreskin and kiss his glans a few times before burying it into your mouth and commence with your sucking. At first, concentrate on the glans sucking and tonguing it while stroking his shaft with your other hand. At this point make little squeals and sighs-he’ll enjoy this- and stretch an arm up to chest and stroke it, as a sign of your submission to him.
  • At this point, begin to pull his shaft deep in your mouth and allow him to take up the strain. He will want to start to fuck your throat. Let him.
  • During this activity stroke his buttocks affectionately to show him you are loving your throat being fucked. Now, stretch your arms up his back and bring them slowly down to his buttocks, feeling his rib cage and his stomach area. Again, start to stroke his buttocks, after which your hands will explore his thighs and his calves, then back up to his buttocks.
  • As he is coming, don’t take responsibility to where he wants to deposit his semen. No. He will make that clear to you. If he wants to come over your face, kneel obediently, do not put your tongue out, this is only for porn inadequates. No doubt, he will instruct you where he wants his semen deposited. After his deposit, look up at him worshipfully, using your eyes blithely to show submission and enjoyment. If it is a facial deposit let his semen meander and drip on your face. Do not take steps to remove his semen.
  • If it is an oral deposit he desires, as you feel the semen ingress your mouth and throat, if possible, moan pleasurably and push against his pelvis to accept every last drop. Let him know orally how much his semen means to you by sucking on his flaccid cock. Remain sucking, until he plucks you off him, look at him with a hurt look. This will prove how much you worship him and his cock.
  • Remain on your knees, still with a blithe look and smile worshipfully and submissively at him.
  • Give out long and relaxed sleepy submissive sighs and again, tell him how much his semen means to you, an unworthy slut.
  • Wait for an opportunity to ask, where next on your body does he want you to worship his cock.
  • After this, expect some light foreplay before being penetrated so he can deposit his semen somewhere deep in your bowels.
  • That’s the way I do it.
 
  • Make a point of breathing in his genitals aroma and make sure he sees your response.
  • Place your cheeks against his genitals and inform him how hot they are.
  • Turn and face them, look at them pregnantly then sigh and softly tell him they are beautiful. Gaze at them lovingly and place your hands on his buttocks and gently feel their power. He’ll know what you have discovered.
  • If his cock is still flaccid, lift it with one hand and fully examine it, after which look up at his face and give him a little knowing smile, while placing your other hand under his ballsac and let him see you feel their weight. Tell him his testicles are fully loaded for you.
  • Now, pull back the foreskin and kiss his glans a few times before burying it into your mouth and commence with your sucking. At first, concentrate on the glans sucking and tonguing it while stroking his shaft with your other hand. At this point make little squeals and sighs-he’ll enjoy this- and stretch an arm up to chest and stroke it, as a sign of your submission to him.
  • At this point, begin to pull his shaft deep in your mouth and allow him to take up the strain. He will want to start to fuck your throat. Let him.
  • During this activity stroke his buttocks affectionately to show him you are loving your throat being fucked. Now, stretch your arms up his back and bring them slowly down to his buttocks, feeling his rib cage and his stomach area. Again, start to stroke his buttocks, after which your hands will explore his thighs and his calves, then back up to his buttocks.
  • As he is coming, don’t take responsibility to where he wants to deposit his semen. No. He will make that clear to you. If he wants to come over your face, kneel obediently, do not put your tongue out, this is only for porn inadequates. No doubt, he will instruct you where he wants his semen deposited. After his deposit, look up at him worshipfully, using your eyes blithely to show submission and enjoyment. If it is a facial deposit let his semen meander and drip on your face. Do not take steps to remove his semen.
  • If it is an oral deposit he desires, as you feel the semen ingress your mouth and throat, if possible, moan pleasurably and push against his pelvis to accept every last drop. Let him know orally how much his semen means to you by sucking on his flaccid cock. Remain sucking, until he plucks you off him, look at him with a hurt look. This will prove how much you worship him and his cock.
  • Remain on your knees, still with a blithe look and smile worshipfully and submissively at him.
  • Give out long and relaxed sleepy submissive sighs and again, tell him how much his semen means to you, an unworthy slut.
  • Wait for an opportunity to ask, where next on your body does he want you to worship his cock.
  • After this, expect some light foreplay before being penetrated so he can deposit his semen somewhere deep in your bowels.
  • That’s the way I do it.
got me all hot and bothered! I will try to remember this next time I give a blow job!
 
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