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I wouldn't change anything. You sound pretty normal to me. Besides, a woman who sheds her fears and feels safe exploring her sexual side is likely to end up dead. I suggest you hold on to those fears. They're there for a reason.(First time posting something so sorry if I get it wrong.)
I want to learn to be more comfortable in expressing myself sexually and engaging in sexual activity. I can tell that I have an honest desire to be sexual, but I’ve got these awful brain goblins (societal/cultural hang-ups, as well as personal baggage) that get in my way and make it hard to enjoy myself and actually go after what I want.
I guess I’m asking for advice on how to loosen up, to shed my fears and self-consciousness, and to feel comfortable and safe in exploring my sexual side?
I think there's wisdom in not shedding your fears entirely. But don't let them dominate you, either. What's the best course? Set boundaries. Give yourself so much freedom to explore, but make it clear to both yourself and your prospective partner that the lines are drawn. If they exceed them, cut them off.I wouldn't change anything. You sound pretty normal to me. Besides, a woman who sheds her fears and feels safe exploring her sexual side is likely to end up dead. I suggest you hold on to those fears. They're there for a reason.
What about the spirit of spontaneity? One must live and love for this.I think there's wisdom in shedding your fears entirely. But don't let them dominate you, either. What's the best course? Set boundaries. Give yourself so much freedom to explore, but make it clear to both yourself and your prospective partner that the lines are drawn. If they exceed them, cut them off.
Hah, I feel like the point about therapy is good advice that keeps coming up for me. I do already talk to someone in that regard, about general stuff, but she hasn't exactly been the most in-tune when I've brought up things about sexuality. Idk, maybe I should seek out someone separate for that.