LanguageOfLove
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I've been married for 20 something years, and our sex life has been almost non-existent up until this year.
Now that romance and our connection is getting better, how do I ask my husband that I want him to take charge during sex. It is not something that we've talked about, and I have this huge wall that is stopping me from asking him, but it is something that I kind of think about.
What are some "messages" that I can give him that lets him know this is what I desire? I am afraid that he will laugh if I just come out and say it...I know he probably won't but, what do you think?
Thanks for your replies.
Now that romance and our connection is getting better, how do I ask my husband that I want him to take charge during sex. It is not something that we've talked about, and I have this huge wall that is stopping me from asking him, but it is something that I kind of think about.
What are some "messages" that I can give him that lets him know this is what I desire? I am afraid that he will laugh if I just come out and say it...I know he probably won't but, what do you think?
Thanks for your replies.