This is an open letter to the men (and boys) of lit. I've posted to the boards, corresponded with some of you, and I believe there are plenty of decent men and women on here. To you, please move along, nothing to see here.
To the rest of you, please get your collective heads out of your asses. You're the guys who give the rest of us a bad rap and turn the women into the bitches you whine and complain about. Just because someone doesn't respond to your emails, KIK you, Skype with you everyday, or however you converse, it doesn't give you the right to lash out at them because they didn't measure up to your warped expectations and weren't available to meet your every need. The women on here aren't on-demand channels you can tune in and out as you wish. They are people. People with real feelings, real thoughts, real desires, real insecurities and deserve to be treated as such. Recently a friend of mine was spammed by some loser on here because she didn't respond to his chats, PMs etc.
To you I say grow the fuck up. You're online. She was decent enough not to give me your lit tag so I can't spam your ass directly, you inconsequential, self absorbed, small dicked, little pissant. Right there she is a better person than you are.
You know nothing about her. You wanted to get off, have a good time, and when she wasn't there again at your beck and call, you attacked her, spit your vitriol and I guess it made you feel like a big man. You're not a man at all. You're a grade A, top of the line, meaningless piece of shit loser. People come on here to have fun. They don't need your <pick your insecurity and enter it here> ass to be projected onto them because you can't deal with your empty pathetic life. Sorry their not responding ruined your jerk off session. They are real people with real lives, real thoughts and some have real problems. How many people on here have dealt with death of a spouse, cancer, cheating spouses, abusive partners, you name it.... they are real problems, but they come here to have a little fun and get a little release from the unpleasant parts of their lives. Or wow, here's a thought, maybe they come here to read the stories, explore their sexuality, and grow as a person. You have to be the center of the universe and when they don't accept your dick pic or won't respond to your 15 unrequested invitations to cyber you go ballistic on them. Fuck you and your addled little mind. Get over yourself. Treat people how you'd like to be treated. If they don't respond to your unsolicited advances, or even solicited ones, get over it. You said or did something they didn't like, figure it out genius, and learn from your mistakes. Did you ask them how they felt? Did you ask if you did or said something that made them uncomfortable? No you lash out and call them a tease, ice princess, whatever childish name you can think of because the truth of the matter is the only way you can inflate your fragile little microscopic sized male ego is to tear them down. You don't have the balls to try to make yourself a better person or learn from your mistakes. You'd rather convince yourself, in your twisted, shallow, depraved mind its them instead of you that has the problem. I'm hoping the next time you decide to attack someone you think of this, and think twice about it. Be a real man and try to figure out why she didn't respond instead of going on the attack. If you're smart enough you just might learn something and become a better person for it. Or maybe my expectations of the dregs of lit is simply too high.
Again to the decent people on here, sorry about that, but I don't let neanderthal jackasses insult, abuse, or otherwise tear down the decent people here, particularly those I choose to call a friend. If you think this is directed at you, rethink your online life.
Feel free to flame away.
To the rest of you, please get your collective heads out of your asses. You're the guys who give the rest of us a bad rap and turn the women into the bitches you whine and complain about. Just because someone doesn't respond to your emails, KIK you, Skype with you everyday, or however you converse, it doesn't give you the right to lash out at them because they didn't measure up to your warped expectations and weren't available to meet your every need. The women on here aren't on-demand channels you can tune in and out as you wish. They are people. People with real feelings, real thoughts, real desires, real insecurities and deserve to be treated as such. Recently a friend of mine was spammed by some loser on here because she didn't respond to his chats, PMs etc.
To you I say grow the fuck up. You're online. She was decent enough not to give me your lit tag so I can't spam your ass directly, you inconsequential, self absorbed, small dicked, little pissant. Right there she is a better person than you are.
You know nothing about her. You wanted to get off, have a good time, and when she wasn't there again at your beck and call, you attacked her, spit your vitriol and I guess it made you feel like a big man. You're not a man at all. You're a grade A, top of the line, meaningless piece of shit loser. People come on here to have fun. They don't need your <pick your insecurity and enter it here> ass to be projected onto them because you can't deal with your empty pathetic life. Sorry their not responding ruined your jerk off session. They are real people with real lives, real thoughts and some have real problems. How many people on here have dealt with death of a spouse, cancer, cheating spouses, abusive partners, you name it.... they are real problems, but they come here to have a little fun and get a little release from the unpleasant parts of their lives. Or wow, here's a thought, maybe they come here to read the stories, explore their sexuality, and grow as a person. You have to be the center of the universe and when they don't accept your dick pic or won't respond to your 15 unrequested invitations to cyber you go ballistic on them. Fuck you and your addled little mind. Get over yourself. Treat people how you'd like to be treated. If they don't respond to your unsolicited advances, or even solicited ones, get over it. You said or did something they didn't like, figure it out genius, and learn from your mistakes. Did you ask them how they felt? Did you ask if you did or said something that made them uncomfortable? No you lash out and call them a tease, ice princess, whatever childish name you can think of because the truth of the matter is the only way you can inflate your fragile little microscopic sized male ego is to tear them down. You don't have the balls to try to make yourself a better person or learn from your mistakes. You'd rather convince yourself, in your twisted, shallow, depraved mind its them instead of you that has the problem. I'm hoping the next time you decide to attack someone you think of this, and think twice about it. Be a real man and try to figure out why she didn't respond instead of going on the attack. If you're smart enough you just might learn something and become a better person for it. Or maybe my expectations of the dregs of lit is simply too high.
Again to the decent people on here, sorry about that, but I don't let neanderthal jackasses insult, abuse, or otherwise tear down the decent people here, particularly those I choose to call a friend. If you think this is directed at you, rethink your online life.
Feel free to flame away.
