That actual is pure torture -- especially to continue playing with the head, which becomes super-sensitive in a very painful way after an orgasm.
Communication is key. I think you're in for an extremely good time. Both of you. I bet you were hard almost immediately when she turned you down.We communicated a bit about and throughout the day. She is open to but shes self conscious on how and what to do and she didnt want to let me down. I ensured her she could never let me down and that its new for both of us. We can practice and try new things and find out what works for us.
Got home and told her I needed to shower and probably should give the cage a cleaning. When she agreed I asked if I could edge myself in the shower. She replied "No! You can't be trusted. Wash it and get the cage back on."
I think its coming together
From my own experience, I have been tortured from the pure need to be put in my place because I either came when I wasn't supposed to, or asked too much.
asked too much? How do you ask too much?
Begged to cum after being told no.
Yes, it actually is. Super sensitive to the point of being uncomfortable, but I do like a bit of pain with pleasure, so it is something I'd enjoy.
I would say be patient. My wife is a great domme. But it took her a while to get into the mindset and approach. She is not a naturally dominant woman.We communicated a bit about and throughout the day. She is open to but shes self conscious on how and what to do and she didnt want to let me down. I ensured her she could never let me down and that its new for both of us. We can practice and try new things and find out what works for us.
Got home and told her I needed to shower and probably should give the cage a cleaning. When she agreed I asked if I could edge myself in the shower. She replied "No! You can't be trusted. Wash it and get the cage back on."
I think its coming together
