Do you remember your introduction to erotica?

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I got to thinking about this when I bumped into the fact that some people are young enough that they don't even know that "cum" derives from "come;" and when I bumped into another fact about people's knowledge/opinion of The Story of O. I got interested in how people's general view of erotica differs depending on their history.

I'll start.

As an early elementary school student I was precocious about reading about sex. My first relevant memory was confidently explaining to a friend, two years older, that "he really does get on top of her." I got my facts from Forever Amber. Next came me showing all "the good parts" in Peyton Place to friends in junior high. But that wasn't erotica. That was juicy fiction.

My first encounter with erotica was when The Story of O, by Pauline Reage, was published in the United States in 1965. I probably read it that year or very shortly thereafter. It packed quite a punch. It has pretty much defined my preferred kind of erotica ever since. I looked and looked for comparable stories. The Image fit the bill, but really nothing besides that except for a short story I've since lost track of. Anne Rice's Beauty Trilogy and Exit to Eden came close. Finally, I think I gave up sometime in the 70s (early 80s?) and retreated to detective stories, thrillers, and the occasional literary fiction.

Three years ago I re-discovered erotica, and the whole new world of literally thousands of stories on the internet. There were lots of new terms, new "cultures" (e.g., BDSM, which The Story of O does not fit). It's taken me a while to sort it all out. And to rest in the conclusion that there just isn't much out there that fits my particular sensibility.

Here are contrasting views of Reage's book. I assume the members are of different ages. But maybe not???

As a disclaimer, neither of us have read Story of O, and based on the Wikipedia article we’re not inspired to. You refer to it as an “important classic of erotica”, but from the description that seems based more on “nothing better was available at the time” than “this is the pinnacle of all things sexy in a written word.” A lot of classics that were interesting or scandalous or ahead of their time, at their time, would not be considered very highly today. I can’t fathom what would be erotic in that, but then it’s not my kink.

Adam's svelte voice continued. "The great erotic car journey is, of course, O. With her naked bottom on the cool leather seat. Driving to Roissy, to meet Sir Stephen."

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What's your story?
 
It's not really erotica, but a thriller from the 80s, "Dressed to Kill". My dad had recorded it on tape from HBO. Angie Dickinson masturbated in the shower. That was my first time.

After that, I raided my dad's magazine collection. He had the Penthouse Variations magazines and I read the hell out them, probably why I focus so much on text porn.

Those were pretty tame by Lit standards, but they were quite educational for me.
 
Even less about erotica and more about imagination. Back in the late 50's/early 60's I didn't have access to anything other than the Sears and Montgomery & Wards catalogs. The photos of women in their underwear were my go-to. I spent much time spanking the monkey and looking at those photos while imagining all kinda' sexual things. Yeah, I know, I'm older than dirt.


Comshaw
 
I found the erotic stories more interesting than the pictures in the magazines. Friends with older brothers and checking under their beds was a sure supply of such magazines.
 
I don't remember the specific moment or the first time I found erotica, but it stemmed from a desire for some story/character in porn, which obviously in video form is generally awful. I've always been a big reader, so once I realized such a thing existed I was off to the races.
 
Similar here. Reading the Readers' Letters in copies of Penthouse that had been "borrowed"
And so much rewarding because they painted a more vivid image in the brains of 12 year old boy leaning more towards cocks than clits. Unfortunately not many cocks on display in a normal magazine in those days (mid 80s).
 
Adolescent with overactive imagination, like most people. My school library had a loose policy on literature with graphic sex being loaned to students. Eric Lustbader’s stories about ninjas and certain other fantasy stories were intriguing to me. Magazine covers and photos of women in their underwear or strategically shielded nudity provided visual imagery. As I got older, I found more blatant smut. My first stroke book was a copy of Peter Steele’s Star of the Orgy I found in an airport. The clerk raised his eyebrows, but I was an 18 year old traveling alone, so he didn’t question me about the purchase. I first discovered online erotica in college and didn’t start writing it till later.

There was always hot sex referenced in my amateur writing, however, since my adolescence. Before 2006, I just had a polite fade to black while characters made out or one character describing something to another to test the waters. Things like the heroine recounting to the hero how her cousin had slept with her as a teenager to see if he wants a threesome with them while he recounts his vacations with nympho elf maidens (this was a fantasy story) and they then kiss and it fades to black. Or a spy story with the following exchange- “My, Agent Buckley, you get dressed fast.” “I get undressed even quicker, Agent Everglade. Want to find out after our mission?” The lead couple from that story never have sex onscreen but they do end up in a long happy relationship with four kids. You do the math. :)
 
The first I remember wasn't exactly erotica. My dad bought men's magazines like True, Argosy, and Adam and I borrowed them when he wasn't looking. None had much bare skin in the pictures and the stories were relatively tame in that the descriptions of sex were more hints than explicit. They were considered the closest thing to porn that could be legally sent through the US Mail system.
 
Monica Bellucci in any number of things. But Bound was my introduction to girl on girl, and I think it opened my eyes to my true nature. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen. In someway, it still is the hottest girl-on-girl sex I've seen. Not the hottest I've done, but you didn't ask about that.
 
My mother managed a large resort motel in the mid sixties. I remember finding left behind magazines and paperback novels in a stash kept by the maintenance guy. Gent, Nugget, Playboy and others. From the first time I laid eyes on a photo of a smiling full figured nude woman, making eye contact with me from the page, I was hooked forever.....and there were also the seedy paperbacks....and the sneaking around, accruing my own stash......
 
Probably told this story before, but:

I don't think it was my first experience with a "dirty" magazine; my dad left Playboys laying around all the time.

He even threw one at me one day. "Here, get educated." I was a kid, and my dad was a drunk.

But I digress.

I found a Penthouse Forum magazine one day, don't remember exactly how.

Anyway, was reading it, and got those, you know, funny feelings.

One story in particular described a handjob in great detail.

I figured I could mimic what was being described with my own hand, and snuck off to the bathroom to experiment.

And within minutes, a lifelong habit was born 😆.
 
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I can't remember reading my first erotic story, but I remember my first Literotica story. It was a story about a trans woman and her female roommate falling in love and it absolutely rocked my world, not the least because, at that age*, I had no idea trans women existed, but also because after reading that story, I felt like any romance story/novel that did not include the sex (and I mean real sex, with all the juicy, dirty erotic details) didn't feel real to me anymore.



*All characters in this story are above the age of 18.
 
Pretty sure it was high school. I had to write on a book and for some reason picked Naked In Death from my english teachers shelf. He never got that book back.
 
For me, my introduction to erotica was "Delta of Venus" by Anais Nin, snuck out of my parents private collection. (Prior to that I had read things like Penthouse Letters, Penthouse Variation, but I didn't really consider those erotica. Delta of Venus opened me up to the possibilities of the genre.)
 
Mom's romance novels. There was a whole wall of them. This was the 80s, maybe into the 90s. I got good at flipping through with an eye out for words like throbbing and heaving.
Thank you. It was those and the words heaving, longing and throbbing being the most popular springs to mind. Knowing something else was going on but not sure what it entailed
 
Definitely Sleeping Beauty Trilogy here! You can tell it was formative lol. Okay, well, it was cool to see like wow this other person has (a lot of) my kinks and other people are buying these books. I felt very alone in the world before I found those.
 
The one I remember is getting 'Biography of a Space Tyrant' by Piers Anthony out of the library. I don't think they'd quite realized the content, but it was the first time I'd read a book where I ended up realizing that the science-fiction was in service to the sex, rather than it being science-fiction with a mere sprinkling of sex on top.

Looking back, that book was all kinds of wrong and, no, definitely wouldn't be publishable here. I won't say any more.
 
Sounds interesting. Did it every strike anyone as creepy that Kes was Neelix's gal pal and only one year old?
The one I remember is getting 'Biography of a Space Tyrant' by Piers Anthony out of the library. I don't think they'd quite realized the content, but it was the first time I'd read a book where I ended up realizing that the science-fiction was in service to the sex, rather than it being science-fiction with a mere sprinkling of sex on top.

Looking back, that book was all kinds of wrong and, no, definitely wouldn't be publishable here. I won't say any more.
 
The one I remember is getting 'Biography of a Space Tyrant' by Piers Anthony out of the library. I don't think they'd quite realized the content, but it was the first time I'd read a book where I ended up realizing that the science-fiction was in service to the sex, rather than it being science-fiction with a mere sprinkling of sex on top.

Looking back, that book was all kinds of wrong and, no, definitely wouldn't be publishable here. I won't say any more.
OK. The click bait worked. I ordered volume 1 on Kindle because I can't imagine a story that Amazon would sell but "wouldn't be publishable here."
 
OK. The click bait worked. I ordered volume 1 on Kindle because I can't imagine a story that Amazon would sell but "wouldn't be publishable here."
There are stories on wattpad and ao3, that wouldn't be allowed here.
 
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