AlexBailey
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#5
Not exactly a question but an assignment!
https://thethreepennyguignol.com/2017/06/03/basically-straight/
I thought this was a good read and I'm curious about your thoughts!
"We’re too gay for the straights and too straight for the gays..."
Pssha! Yea. That hit home - story of my life! WTF?
I was a teenager who got crushes on boys and girls. I was femme and usually did a good job of hiding it. I had a hot girlfriend who saw it and dug me, but her religious dad told her to move on when he saw a picture of me in her cheerleader uniform.
Later I had a lesbian girlfriend and was a 'fag hag' who hung out with a 'pack o' dykes' - always on the edge of the scene but still out of place. I had a lot of bi girlfriends and a few boyfriends but I thought I needed to be straight to have a family... that blew up in my face.
I just recently came to grips with myself and who I really am. I'm a queer poly fetishists but I'm in a monogamous relationship. Lol. Go figure.
I spent a lot of time on the fence, not quite embracing or being true to myself, stuck in some middle ground. If I had it all to do over again I'd tell myself, "Don't stress so much. It's okay to make your own path." There would have been a few emotional dust ups, but they would have been on my own terms instead of feeling like I was barely hanging onto a crazy-ass ride.
I have an amazing family with open, loving, and self-supportive adult children - I don't really have any big regrets, just that I could have been nicer to myself.
Thanks for posting that article PLPeep.