HoneyBrunette
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2014
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Right... straight into it... sex is getting boring! I can really and truly, actually predict his next move every single time and it's turning me off.
Ive tried hinting (at the time, and when we are not in the bedroom), Ive tried demonstrating by changing things up myself (leading by example). Yesterday I actually moved his hand and specifically named something else that i wanted. He just went back to what he had been doing...
So Im going to have to tackle this more directly. Obviously.
Because it has been going on like this for a while and it is annoying me, I am not sure that I am able to remain calm and have the conversation in a way that is productive rather than causing him upset and having him shut down.
Has anyone else been in this situation? How did you handle it? Any suggestions on how to discuss this without coming across as being critical?
Thanks in advance!!
Ive tried hinting (at the time, and when we are not in the bedroom), Ive tried demonstrating by changing things up myself (leading by example). Yesterday I actually moved his hand and specifically named something else that i wanted. He just went back to what he had been doing...
So Im going to have to tackle this more directly. Obviously.
Because it has been going on like this for a while and it is annoying me, I am not sure that I am able to remain calm and have the conversation in a way that is productive rather than causing him upset and having him shut down.
Has anyone else been in this situation? How did you handle it? Any suggestions on how to discuss this without coming across as being critical?
Thanks in advance!!