Anonymous Secrets Thread

[PlayfulLittle1]

So how about a topic for todays discussion then!

Lets keep it in the secret genre.

I personally have a few kinks that I share on literotica, that I have never ever told anyone about in real life.
I even have one or two I don't freely share on lit, I guess I could say I am afraid it could damage my in-site reputation. Not all people are free thinkers, or open minded as they think they are.

So I will confess to my turn-on of control, also known as dominating.
I love the idea of taking full control and having a submissive lover.
However I know this is frowned upon in public, in part due to the feminist movement I feel.

Does anyone else have a turn-on, kink or fetish they only admit to on lit?

Do you have one that you don't even freely admit to fellow litsters?

In the vein of submission type play, I like the idea of being kept, like a housepet. Not to the extent of food dishes and litterboxes, mind you, and I'm not a furry. But collared, coddled, nurtured, and when needed disciplined.

Definitely not something I would admit to in real life, and rarely even bring up publicly in lit. Recently getting more comfortable though. So theres my big bad secret.

 

[Kudram123]

Only one person knows. And that's my best friend. But she's the same as me lol.
My ex knew. It's not something i'd hide from a partner but not something i shout from the rooftops either

Interesting
How did you partner (well ex now) respond to it at the time if I may ask?

My sub tendencies only come out on Lit, although I've been talking to my SO about it.

And there is one litster who knows my bizarre fetish, and I'm pretty sure it's gonna stay at just that one!

P.S. Have a great vacation, Neruda!!!

Was it hard to bring up?

I can imagine not wanting your SO think you're a freak (worst case scenario).

Makes one wonder how bizarre it is, a good confession for this thread perhaps

I give you my word as a scholar and a gentleman that I will take the same care your secrets that neruda does.

And I understand if you'd prefer not to send them to me.

Lets keep this thread going till he's back

In the vein of submission type play, I like the idea of being kept, like a housepet. Not to the extent of food dishes and litterboxes, mind you, and I'm not a furry. But collared, coddled, nurtured, and when needed disciplined.

Definitely not something I would admit to in real life, and rarely even bring up publicly in lit. Recently getting more comfortable though. So theres my big bad secret.

A lot of "secret subbies"

You do take it further then others though, or perhaps just admit to more

I do agree though, a lot of people in real life would look at you funny.

 

[BradBigBrain]

49, F - I was sexually assaulted several years ago by a family friend. My husband would happily murder him if he got the chance.

Several of my Lit friends already know about this, but I would appreciate it if you didn't call me out.

 

[GracieLove]

49, F - I was sexually assaulted several years ago by a family friend. My husband would happily murder him if he got the chance.

..I am sorry to hear that. That doesn't sound like something a "friend" would do... I would be happy to give his address to a friend who owns a concrete business...

 

[Edensgarden]

So I will confess to my turn-on of control, also known as dominating.
I love the idea of taking full control and having a submissive lover.
However I know this is frowned upon in public, in part due to the feminist movement I feel.

I never would have guessed that about you. We would probably butt heads in the bedroom and I would end up getting a head in my butt.

I give you my word as a scholar and a gentleman that I will take the same care your secrets that neruda does.

And I understand if you'd prefer not to send them to me.

I think he chose the perfect person to take over.

 

[BradBigBrain]

I never would have guessed that about you. We would probably butt heads in the bedroom and I would end up getting a head in my butt.



I think he chose the perfect person to take over.

Thanks. I appreciate the support.

 

[Kudram123]

I never would have guessed that about you. We would probably butt heads in the bedroom and I would end up getting a head in my butt.



I think he chose the perfect person to take over.

Its one of many hidden features

Maybe I have more hidden then public features



Do you have anything to add to the topic of the day perhaps

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Its one of many hidden features

Maybe I have more hidden then public features



Do you have anything to add to the topic of the day perhaps

What's the topic?

 

[Kudram123]

What's the topic?

The topic is kinks you share on lit but not in the real world.

So how about a topic for todays discussion then!

Lets keep it in the secret genre.

I personally have a few kinks that I share on literotica, that I have never ever told anyone about in real life.
I even have one or two I don't freely share on lit, I guess I could say I am afraid it could damage my in-site reputation. Not all people are free thinkers, or open minded as they think they are.

So I will confess to my turn-on of control, also known as dominating.
I love the idea of taking full control and having a submissive lover.
However I know this is frowned upon in public, in part due to the feminist movement I feel.

Does anyone else have a turn-on, kink or fetish they only admit to on lit?

Do you have one that you don't even freely admit to fellow litsters?

 

[Pervy_Sage]

The topic is kinks you share on lit but not in the real world.

Ah. I share mine both here and in rl. Lol

 

[Edensgarden]

Its one of many hidden features

Maybe I have more hidden then public features



Do you have anything to add to the topic of the day perhaps

One of your hidden pubic features? Do tell...

 

[Kudram123]

Ah. I share mine both here and in rl. Lol

I aplaud you openness and bravery then!

because I can't imagine you don't have any kinks that are out of the norm

One of your hidden pubic features? Do tell...

Well yes my pubuc features are also hidden

Way to twist my words you goof !

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I aplaud you openness and bravery then!

because I can't imagine you don't have any kinks that are out of the norm




Well yes my pubuc features are also hidden

Way to twist my words you goof !

LOL!...

 

[Kat73]

I do not have a submissive personality at all. I tried it, I can not do it!

However, sexually, on ocassion, and with the right person, I do like to be dominated and treated as a slut. It has not happened in the bedroom, only cyber. I am not sure how I would do in real life, but look forward to trying it.

 

[ohverbatum7]

This reminds me of a time I was working on a project in grad school. I had to drive some back roads in Central Tx. And to get where I needed to be, I had to hike through some wild areas - lots of trees, shrubs, and vines.

As I was driving (alone) a beat up truck pulls up next to my car. It was a 2-lane highway. They were making vulgar gestures and trying to nudge me off the road. I waited until the shoulder widened up, slowed down and drove mostly on the shoulder so they could drive next to me and see into my car.

I'm sure they thought I was going to flash them. Instead I reached down to the passenger floorboard, picked up my machete that I used to clear the trails for me. I turned, held it up for him to see, and gave him the most evil & steely stare & smile that I could muster.

His eyes bulged - he looked like a cartoon character. He turned and hit the driver to get his attention- I couldn't hear him of course, but he was agitated. I saw him pointing at me so I rolled down the window and held my machete out so the driver could see... the driver floored it and they sped away.

It would have been SO much more fun to have two truckloads of burly SWAT men to take care of it, but I worked with what I had.

That was incredible brave of you TX.Do you think the assertiveness of youth fuelled your reaction or would you respond in a similar way today?
Alex

 

[njoyndesire]

I'm pretty much an open book...

I find as a submissive I will try lots of different things to please my partner (so far - all virtual)... they aren't necessarily a turn on to me, but my partners excitement and appreciation of getting to explore their fetish fuels me...

for example.... incest play (mother son), breeder/impregnation, panty play, and daddy/baby girl (which i separate from incest play because it is not that for me), anal play

 

[Kudram123]

I'm pretty much an open book...

I find as a submissive I will try lots of different things to please my partner (so far - all virtual)... they aren't necessarily a turn on to me, but my partners excitement and appreciation of getting to explore their fetish fuels me...

for example.... incest play (mother son), breeder/impregnation, panty play, and daddy/baby girl (which i separate from incest play because it is not that for me), anal play

Did you live upto these in real life too?

 

[BradBigBrain]

40's female...

once had phone sex while having sex with my husband... i was riding my husband and my phone lover was telling me to imagine it was his cock in me... after i hung up my husband fucked me much harder than usual... (he's kind of submissive) It was so hot!!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Mid-20's male - before my time on lit, control wasn't a sexual concept for me. I was as vanilla as it gets and was content to be. But over the couple years I've spent here, the females that I've spoken to intimately, be it a result of circumstance or coincidence, have nearly all been submissive. For their sake, and because people-pleasing was always more second nature to me than establishing control, I'd wear the dominant hat. And, wouldn't you know it...I've now been trained to actually like it. Like Pavlov's dog, I now salivate when I see the traditional trappings of a submissive female. It's funny how things work out.

 

[BradBigBrain]

- Female, no age given

My husband was cybering with a lady and I climbed onto his lap and started having sex with him. I took over cybering with him and sent her my phone number to have her call us. She did, and while I was on my stomach my husband put some lube on his cock, and then answered the phone. Instead of saying hello, he answered with "I'm fucking her in the ass."

 

[PlayfulLittle1]

A lot of "secret subbies"

You do take it further then others though, or perhaps just admit to more

I do agree though, a lot of people in real life would look at you funny.

Yeah, even though some already knew, and even though this is a decidedly safe and non-judgey thread, I still feel like a weirdo perv-ball for havin' it out there. (I'm workin' on'owning' it, so to speak. )

 

[BradBigBrain]

Male, no age given

Not so much a secret – but something I have not shared.

When I was in college in the 70’s I would sometimes hitchhike when I couldn’t bum a ride from a friend. One time I was taking a trip to visit a friend at another college. It was about a three hour journey. I got a ride up one interstate for the first two hours and then had to find a ride down another road to the town I was heading to.

It was getting dark when a car with a middle aged man driving a sedan pulled over and I got in. He said he could take me all the way to where I was going. It wasn’t very long though before he gave me a flashlight and asked if I wanted to look at his porn magazines, I remember specifically he called them ‘fuck books’. Well I was scared shitless thinking I was going to get raped and murdered. I calmly said ‘no’ that I didn’t care about the magazines asked him if he collected them because I collected beer cans and it was great to have a hobby. I kept talking about beer cans until he said that he actually wasn’t going my way and let me out.

I then got picked up by some other teens who gave me a beer and shared a joint with me. I never hitched again.

 

[cunnilingual2]

Yeah, even though some already knew, and even though this is a decidedly safe and non-judgey thread, I still feel like a weirdo perv-ball for havin' it out there. (I'm workin' on'owning' it, so to speak. )

I wish I could own it..........I hardly share any of my Lit pervs, which is why I come here. My SO and I have really grown apart over the years and if she finds a salacious link on my laptop, I'm suddenly a molester in her eyes. Needless to say, I've learned to cover my tracks!

 

[Kudram123]

Yeah, even though some already knew, and even though this is a decidedly safe and non-judgey thread, I still feel like a weirdo perv-ball for havin' it out there. (I'm workin' on'owning' it, so to speak. )

Thanks for opening up here

And I don't think you're a weirdo perv-ball

Male, no age given

Not so much a secret – but something I have not shared.

When I was in college in the 70’s I would sometimes hitchhike when I couldn’t bum a ride from a friend. One time I was taking a trip to visit a friend at another college. It was about a three hour journey. I got a ride up one interstate for the first two hours and then had to find a ride down another road to the town I was heading to.

It was getting dark when a car with a middle aged man driving a sedan pulled over and I got in. He said he could take me all the way to where I was going. It wasn’t very long though before he gave me a flashlight and asked if I wanted to look at his porn magazines, I remember specifically he called them ‘fuck books’. Well I was scared shitless thinking I was going to get raped and murdered. I calmly said ‘no’ that I didn’t care about the magazines asked him if he collected them because I collected beer cans and it was great to have a hobby. I kept talking about beer cans until he said that he actually wasn’t going my way and let me out.

I then got picked up by some other teens who gave me a beer and shared a joint with me. I never hitched again.

The 70's must have been crazy times!

I wouldn't hitchhike ever again after that experience either though!

 

[tiedtits4me]

Interesting
How did you partner (well ex now) respond to it at the time if I may ask?

He was alright with it. We'd play around with it on the phone (it was a long distance relationship) but he never would when we were together