John Doe
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Sure thing...
...Itchy McScratchy.
When you told your sexual conquests you were taking them out for crab dinners...
...they never knew just how literal it'd be.
The only baggage you want is what comes round on the carousel, I leave mine at the door. It's a shame a lot don't. Everyone has it
The way people describe it it strikes me as alternating between boring and terrifying. Maybe some people get off on emotional roller coasters?
StrangeLife,
I am a sexual being. I'm a monogamous, loved up married woman. I love role playing with the Mr, writing erotica and incorporating that and hi jinks into our marriage and relationship to keep it sexy and lively.
Being monogamous and married is not always a death sentence to rolls in the hay.
The man and I have an agreement. If things aren't working and we need to go our own way then that's what we do. No cheating.
Sometimes I think some people make cheating sound exciting and risque. Is it really? Or is that just at the beginning? What about the feelings of guilt? Fear of getting caught? Meeting where no one will see you together and tell the spouse.
Is it just about the sex? No commitments. No expectations other than just a screw?
I'm not condoning the lifestyle Debbie. If I was, I wouldn't be married. But I understand why some people in otherwise functioning relationships do it.
In a way it has more to do with World of Warcraft than sex. It's a break from "being you". A break from your life. Even when the kids are bad you still love them and you love hubby too - you want to grow old with him - but when you get together with Rodgrigo in your secret hotel once a month for a few hours of pasion you get to "be" somebody else for a short time. A femme fatale. A seductress grabbing a fleeting moment of intimacy with a handsome stranger.
Rodrigo hasn't seen you when you're down with the flu - he hasn't experienced you in the rage of PMS. He doesn't know you like hubby does. He only knows the part of you that you're showing him... the role you want to play with him.
"Can't you be do that by roleplaying with your spouse?"
Well, some can. But your wife knows a lot about you. She knows that you're just a junior insurance salesman from Biloxi and the nice car you're driving is provided for you by the company. She also knows that you haven't travelled Europe and worked for the CIA in the Middle East.
It can be tough to play International Man of Mystery with your wife - especially if she's a bad actress and can't help giggling at the wrong time. Your mistress however doesn't know a lot about you. It's easier for her to suspend disbelief and give you what you crave. With her you can "be" James Bond for a few hours.
I love them. They have great mouthfeel.
I know they all taste the same (pure sugar) but I like blue and purple ones best.
Last year I found a shop that had them here. It's the first time I've seen them in New Zealand. I purchased one and took a bite. I politely spat it into my hand. It must have been old because it was not nice at all.
It was a bit crunchy and grainy. It sounds like it was past it's best by date.
I am quite a realistic, logical person. I think things through and while I am passionate I am cautious and not a spur of the moment person. I guess I just don't get it or have any inclination to see a sexy man and ravish him. Apart from the red head indoors.
Too bad your first experience with peeps was older ones. We need to airmail you some fresh ones immediately.
Well, finding a good spouse is a lot like buying a car.
Your first car is usually a piece of shit your dad buys for a few thousands at your 16th birthday. Your second car however, is that Camaro you always wanted...
I'm asking generally, not specifically about my own situation.