emma_the_librarian
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Am I considered a cheater if I'm not the one in the relationship?
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Am I considered a cheater if I'm not the one in the relationship?
Am I considered a cheater if I'm not the one in the relationship?
No, but some on Lit will call you a "Jezebel"
I quit like that...
I haven't cheated when I was the one in the relationship.
And I used to have a rule about married men, but in the end I figured, it's his baggage to carry.
And if they're married, I only borrow, never steal. Though I know I'm not saving my soul on that tidbit, ha ha.
Jezebel...I think I'm keeping that one.
Am I considered a cheater if I'm not the one in the relationship?
With the name "emma the librarian" everyone *knows* you are just waiting to take off your sensible glasses and grab the nearest man.
You are assumed to be guilty even if all you do is remove your glasses.
All lady librarians are man-hunters pretending not to be...
If you aren't in a relationship than you aren't cheating on anyone and therefore can't be a cheater.
You're just the person having sex with the cheater. Cheatee, mayhaps?
I quit like that...
I haven't cheated when I was the one in the relationship.
And I used to have a rule about married men, but in the end I figured, it's his baggage to carry.
And if they're married, I only borrow, never steal. Though I know I'm not saving my soul on that tidbit, ha ha.
Jezebel...I think I'm keeping that one.
...You're just the person having sex with the cheater. Cheatee, mayhaps?
...Hmm, not an improvement, sadly.
Of course. I knew that Gladys had something up her 80-year-old sleeve.
...
Cheating is a matter of inclination and opportunity. There are a lot of faithful people who just never had the chance. They want to, but the risk is too great. Give them something safe and easy and they won't think twice.
This makes you the enabler, not that there is anything wrong with that.
Lovely. Now I'm co-dependent. This is why I prefer open relationships, sweep all this stuff away...
Maybe you're thinking about it too much. You shouldn't be committed to someone who has another long term partner.
Lovely. Now I'm co-dependent. This is why I prefer open relationships, sweep all this stuff away...
Only the one who promised fidelity to a partner is the cheater. But alas the other person is often the one who end up getting shot by the angry spouse....
Now that's that truth. I am not. 2014 is my "year of the non-boyfriend."
I find that not bathing and shaving keeps men away, if that doesn't work, I hear pepper spray and tazers are good.