I was taking a walk. Warm day in summer and I was wearing a pretty floral pattern dress, not particularly short. Suddenly a light breeze caught me out and lifted the hem of the dress. I quickly smoothed it down, but obviously not quickly enough. There were yelps of delight from a group of teenage boys who had been walking behind me. I ignored them and simply walked on. I was deeply embarrassed and no doubt blushing but at the same time strangely excited. Is there a link between embarrassment and sexual excitement ? Have any other women experienced this ?
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CuttingEdge
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My wife did something similar.
We were on a long family road trip, and for fun, she decided to wear a short sundress and shoes... nothing else, kind of being flirty for me. Well we ended up at Denny's, and got the corner table. As she went to slide out to take one of the kids to the bathroom, she turned. When she did, her short hemline held to the seat and showed it all!!
A guy and his wife were eating along the side and thus the man could look up as she swung her legs out, and from the look on his face, he saw everything. She even shaves her sex, so it was truly EVERYTHING, and from the smile on his face, he liked it. Worse yet, she had to walk right by him in going to the bathroom.
We were on a long family road trip, and for fun, she decided to wear a short sundress and shoes... nothing else, kind of being flirty for me. Well we ended up at Denny's, and got the corner table. As she went to slide out to take one of the kids to the bathroom, she turned. When she did, her short hemline held to the seat and showed it all!!
A guy and his wife were eating along the side and thus the man could look up as she swung her legs out, and from the look on his face, he saw everything. She even shaves her sex, so it was truly EVERYTHING, and from the smile on his face, he liked it. Worse yet, she had to walk right by him in going to the bathroom.
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Yeah, and we toyed with it some.
By that I mean, I would deliberately take her up stairs next to the flood court at the mall with me knowing she was without panties in a miniskirt, and she could follow me or not. Most of the time she would, secretly loving the accidentally-on-purpose exposure. Or me pinning her hemline up by an inch or so, and seeing if she would take it down, or wear it ultra short. Or even taking off her dress and having her ride back from a dinner-date fully naked... dress tossed in the back so there was no chance to drape it over her in a cover up in the well-lit cities and towns on the way back home.
There was never anything forced on her, just little dares I might do, and mostly she went along with them.
The only dares she said no too, were ones involving other people drinking. She was afraid they would not have good judgement. She did get naked once though at dance club with about 400 people there. All clothes off, but only for 30 seconds before the bouncers kind of intervened. But those same bouncers kept her safe too, and why she did it.
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It goes without saying that it is sad and wrong that women should be made to feel bad in the event of an accidental exposure.
But I think the excitement Susie_P mentioned is, I think, normal.
I've been 'caught' with a hardon in my pants and felt excited that the female's who noticed my tent seemed interested.
But I think the excitement Susie_P mentioned is, I think, normal.
I've been 'caught' with a hardon in my pants and felt excited that the female's who noticed my tent seemed interested.
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I changed health clubs. The old one had a male only hot tub. I’d shower, walk in the door and step in.
New club. Showered. Walked back to my locker. Saw the door marked hot tub.
Walked in. Coed (swimsuit required). lol. My cock hanging down right into a couple of ladies faces.
Oops. Lol.
New club. Showered. Walked back to my locker. Saw the door marked hot tub.
Walked in. Coed (swimsuit required). lol. My cock hanging down right into a couple of ladies faces.
Oops. Lol.
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Yes I have found a link between embarrassment and sexual excitement. The first older man I dated taught me about it, and he liked to get me excited by embarrassing me a bit.
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Bet he got the best sex he's had in a long time that night tho
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Thanks for understanding that it was fully consensual. I really wanted that to be conveyed.
I am not sure being "braver" is really that big of a deal or not. I think what matters is that whether intentional or not, you revealed a bit more than you wanted, and yet found it exciting. That is always fun and shows YOU what YOU are capable of doing! Comparing to what others do isn't the best idea. It's your memorable moment that matters, not other peoples!
If you liked it, you can just put yourself in situations, like not wearing panties with a miniskirt, and being in a place with people and stairs. Wearing leggings that are a size too tight so they are a bit more see thru since they are stretched tighter. Or, being in a multi-storied hotel and changing without the blinds being closed. No one is going to call room 671 of the Bally's Hotel and Casino and stalk you, after all.
Just know this, men and women are far more appreciative of all body types than most lady's realize. The preconceived ideas of a size two body is generated by the 1200 images per day found that women see in advertisements and via media. Its okay for YOU to be a bit bolder today than you were yesterday... no matter what that looks like for you.
I cannot tell you if this was strictly accidental, but on a midday train across country recently I had the pleasure of a mid 20’s woman, with a tight little body and pierced nipples, in a thin white vest top repeatedly adjusting her sitting position by vigorously bouncing up and down.
Part of me wished the carriage had been less full, or we were sat closer, but a lot of the fun is in the teasing I expect.
The eye contact added something extra too
Part of me wished the carriage had been less full, or we were sat closer, but a lot of the fun is in the teasing I expect.
The eye contact added something extra too
I can assure you that there was nothing accidental about the scenario you describe. She was having a ball. All women know exactly how to attract male attention. We were taught by our mothers to sit with our knees together, bend from the knee not from the waist etc in order to preserve our modesty. However, feeling sexually attractive is a profoundly important part of the female psyche. The woman you saw provoked the reaction she expected and was indeed having fun in a relatively safe environment. Must have cheered you up as well.
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So hott. I wish you'd chat with me and tell me stories exactly like this...while I keep my hand busy...I visualize these scenarios to help me get off
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I witnessed a similar occurrence. One day, several years ago, I was driving to the bank to make my daily business deposit. I cut through a residential neighborhood to avoid traffic. As I'm driving I see an attractive young woman in a pleated skirt walking from the front porch to her car that was parked in the street. Suddenly a gust of wind blew the skirt up, revealing she wasn't wearing panties. She quickly pulled it back down, but for a second I got a nice view of everything.
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My wife has recently found this " embarrassment" kink where it borders on a feeling of humiliation but not in a degrading way. Not easy to explain but the couple of times when she was embarrassed not to her own doing but a guy or in these cases a few guys had seen something they shouldn't had .......... obviously turned her on though she'd never admit it hmmmmm?!?!
My wife has as well. She says it's quite exhilarating.
We'd park up for a meal at a restaurant on a side street. Walking towards the main street, Mrs AW was in a dress with basque, stockings and thong on underneath. A guy walking the other way definitely got a view of the stockings and pale thighs due to a sudden gust of wind blowing the dress up.
The most important thing is the safety. You’ve got to be careful not to turn it from “I’m teasing this older man and doing him a nice favour in the run up to Christmas” to “I wish I’d never fkn bothered, I need to get rid of this creep.”
It was a wonderful display whilst it lasted, and I’m happy to say that I’ve been lucky enough throughout my 20’s and 30’s to get more than my fair share of these types of occurrences.
But yes, you’re right, definitely cheered me up.
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At present I am in a hotel. I can see a balcony one up and one across through railings.
The other day a woman came out to hang some washing on a clothes line. I saw her look in my direction. So she knew I was there. She was leaning over slightly which gave me a good view of her cleavage.
Prior to her going back inside, she had her back to me and slowly bent over to deliberately let me see up her skirt while lifting the laundry basket.
I was gutted to see that she had checked out the next day.
The other day a woman came out to hang some washing on a clothes line. I saw her look in my direction. So she knew I was there. She was leaning over slightly which gave me a good view of her cleavage.
Prior to her going back inside, she had her back to me and slowly bent over to deliberately let me see up her skirt while lifting the laundry basket.
I was gutted to see that she had checked out the next day.
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I think for the most part a lady is safe being a little risqué. My wife dresses up rather provocatively quite a bit. and we have only had two incidents where other men became a problem. One guy just stared at her all through dinner in a very creepy way, while another followed us around everywhere.
She would never wear that stuff by herself without me there anyway because, well, she wears that kind of stuff for me from the start. I have no issues with guys looking at her, as guys will be guys, I know who she is going home with, and maybe their wives are prudish and no longer dress as my wife does. For the most part, she gets her greatest grief from other women, often saying snide comments. It is always the same Karen's and in the same way: talking just loud enough so she can hear their cutting words as if talking to someone else, but wanting her to hear what they have to say. In the end it is just jealousy in that they do not dare wear what she wears.
Not that it really matters what she wears anyway, but a lover of guns, I always carry anyway, so what can really happen?
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I decided to Facetime a guy I used to date; but he moved to another city. I was going to surprise him by making the call in sexy bra and panties and then teasingly strip and masturbate for him.
I showed him what I was wearing and asked him if he wanted to see me cum for him. He was surprised, I guess, because it took him a moment before he told me he had a friend in the room with him (who I didn't know).
It was embarassing and we had a laugh about it but meanwhile I was still in my undies while we talked. I was very turned on and didn't want to get dressed. Finally my guy teasingly asked why I was still mostly nude, and if I was gonna cum for both of them. I laughed and started to jokingly pretend I was masturbating, but it got more intense and I ended up actuallly orgasming for them. Very hot, very intense.
I showed him what I was wearing and asked him if he wanted to see me cum for him. He was surprised, I guess, because it took him a moment before he told me he had a friend in the room with him (who I didn't know).
It was embarassing and we had a laugh about it but meanwhile I was still in my undies while we talked. I was very turned on and didn't want to get dressed. Finally my guy teasingly asked why I was still mostly nude, and if I was gonna cum for both of them. I laughed and started to jokingly pretend I was masturbating, but it got more intense and I ended up actuallly orgasming for them. Very hot, very intense.
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My wife had this skirt in white, red and blue. Just the slightest breeze would blow it up over her ass. They would also become totally sheer if the light was right. Both types of exposure could easily be written off as an accident, but the fact that she was always commando under her skirt could not in any way be explained as an accident.
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Years ago when i lived in a small building with two apartments I had on some workout compression pants only and could see my cock perfectly outlined in them. I was going up and down the steps getting exercise when the other apartment door opened and the lady stepped out asking what i was doing. She immediately looked down and was no way to cover myself. She told me to continue and she stated out and small talked a bit and watched me
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Posting my above post brought back a memory from a couple of years ago. I was driving downtown in Washington DC. It was lunch hour so traffic was just crawling along when I noticed a very attractive, 30 something blonde lady walking on the sidewalk next to me. She was dressed in very professional office friendly attire, silky blouse, knee length skirt and comfortable looking flats.
What caught my attention as I watched her walking down the sidewalk was the fact the skirt had a six-to-seven-inch V in the back that was rising up as she walked. It didn't take long for that V to reveal that she was wearing lace top thigh highs and a thong that matched the color of her blouse.
I watched her pull her skirt down several times, but I honestly don't think she had any clue what that V in the back of her skirt was revealing, but it was so sexy to watch.
What caught my attention as I watched her walking down the sidewalk was the fact the skirt had a six-to-seven-inch V in the back that was rising up as she walked. It didn't take long for that V to reveal that she was wearing lace top thigh highs and a thong that matched the color of her blouse.
I watched her pull her skirt down several times, but I honestly don't think she had any clue what that V in the back of her skirt was revealing, but it was so sexy to watch.
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