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Ramone45

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I have not told her, but I'm almost certain she knows because she has probably seen the bottle. I noticed I was having a harder time getting an erection when it was automatic in the past. I thought it was a possible result of a type of exercise activity that I do, age, stress, fatigue or any combination of those factors.

One truth that I have not addressed is the fact that my wife is neglecting the sexual aspect of our relationship. A common scenario is that I will come home from work, she'll be curled up on the couch in the jeans and T-shirt that she's worn all day, and she'll ask in a sleepy voice if I want to fool around.

I find her super-hot, and I let her know it. But she just doesn't put a lot of effort into her sex life. She does stuff to please me, but she puts no self motivated effort into it. I think there are things she could do that would reduce my reliance on Viagra. Certainly, I know there are things I can do also, such as getting more rest and not stressing so much.

For husbands taking Viagra, have you told your wives?
 
Telling the old lady is a lot easier than telling the world on a forum board I reckon.


I bet you don't get many relative posts but nice try.



:cool:
 
Ramone45 said:
I have not told her, but I'm almost certain she knows because she has probably seen the bottle. I noticed I was having a harder time getting an erection when it was automatic in the past. I thought it was a possible result of a type of exercise activity that I do, age, stress, fatigue or any combination of those factors.

One truth that I have not addressed is the fact that my wife is neglecting the sexual aspect of our relationship. A common scenario is that I will come home from work, she'll be curled up on the couch in the jeans and T-shirt that she's worn all day, and she'll ask in a sleepy voice if I want to fool around.

I find her super-hot, and I let her know it. But she just doesn't put a lot of effort into her sex life. She does stuff to please me, but she puts no self motivated effort into it. I think there are things she could do that would reduce my reliance on Viagra. Certainly, I know there are things I can do also, such as getting more rest and not stressing so much.

For husbands taking Viagra, have you told your wives?
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You come home and she asks if you want to fool around? And you're complaining? Jesus, dude. Get over yourself.
 
Ramone45 said:
I have not told her, but I'm almost certain she knows because she has probably seen the bottle. I noticed I was having a harder time getting an erection when it was automatic in the past. I thought it was a possible result of a type of exercise activity that I do, age, stress, fatigue or any combination of those factors.

One truth that I have not addressed is the fact that my wife is neglecting the sexual aspect of our relationship. A common scenario is that I will come home from work, she'll be curled up on the couch in the jeans and T-shirt that she's worn all day, and she'll ask in a sleepy voice if I want to fool around.

I find her super-hot, and I let her know it. But she just doesn't put a lot of effort into her sex life. She does stuff to please me, but she puts no self motivated effort into it. I think there are things she could do that would reduce my reliance on Viagra. Certainly, I know there are things I can do also, such as getting more rest and not stressing so much.

For husbands taking Viagra, have you told your wives?
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Soooooooooo... I'd leave her a sex to do list.

1. Be dressed at all times in a sexxxy outfit.

2. No lounging on the couch.

3. When I get home jump to attention, drop to your knees and assume the position.

;)

Perhaps a nice chat over a meal you've both made together and are relaxing in each others company you could chat about the viagra and how you're feeling or say nothing and nothing changes.
 
Wings said:
You come home and she asks if you want to fool around? And you're complaining? Jesus, dude. Get over yourself.
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That's exactly what I was thinking.

Age catches up to everybody but regardless, it isn't her job to work on the arousal that happens between his ears.

The only complaint that I really understood in what he had to say was that he would like a costume change. If that's the whole issue than just simply toss her a nighty and say, "git dressed!"
 
Debbie said:
Soooooooooo... I'd leave her a sex to do list.

1. Be dressed at all times in a sexxxy outfit.

2. No lounging on the couch.

3. When I get home jump to attention, drop to your knees and assume the position.

;)

Perhaps a nice chat over a meal you've both made together and are relaxing in each others company you could chat about the viagra and how you're feeling or say nothing and nothing changes.
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On the other hand it is not unreasonable to insist upon Donna Reed / Barbara Billingsley style kitten heels and pearls as the uniform of the day.
 
i took some viagra once just to see what it did. what it did was give me a massive headache followed by orgasmic migraines for a few days afterward and that was about it, really. so, yeah, not a fan. also, bad move on my part. only fuck around with fun drugs, kids.
 
Conager said:
That's exactly what I was thinking.

Age catches up to everybody but regardless, it isn't her job to work on the arousal that happens between his ears.

The only complaint that I really understood in what he had to say was that he would like a costume change. If that's the whole issue than just simply toss her a nighty and say, "git dressed!"
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Can you contradict yourself some more please?

FFS. Its not her job to arouse him and in the next sentence he's gonna toss her a nightie and say here?

IMO it IS a mates job to arouse the other. It's part of the deal and and you need to adapt to changes.
 
Way to blame your sexual inadequacies on your wife.

If I am home for more than 5 minutes I am in a t shirt or tank top. If we're both in the mood, one look at me is all it would take. If I asked him to fool around it would be more like 3 seconds.
 
Aglaopheme said:
Way to blame your sexual inadequacies on your wife.

If I am home for more than 5 minutes I am in a t shirt or tank top. If we're both in the mood, one look at me is all it would take. If I asked him to fool around it would be more like 3 seconds.
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Confirmed.
It just worked on me.
 
Aglaopheme said:
Way to blame your sexual inadequacies on your wife.

If I am home for more than 5 minutes I am in a t shirt or tank top. If we're both in the mood, one look at me is all it would take. If I asked him to fool around it would be more like 3 seconds.
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Thats a real cunty response right there and part of the reason men are afraid to discuss the topic honestly.

Seriously. Could you be any more full of yourself or more of a bitch?

Wait another twenty years toots when those boring tits you need validated once a week here droop down to your navel and get back to us.
 
Sounds like it would be a good idea to see a couple's counselor before the both of you become resentful toward one another.
 
Killswitch1 said:
Thats a real cunty response right there and part of the reason men are afraid to discuss the topic honestly.

Seriously. Could you be any more full of yourself or more of a bitch?

Wait another twenty years toots when those boring tits you need validated once a week here droop down to your navel and get back to us.
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No it's not. His wife is not responsible for his waning erection.

If I thought my tits needed validating, I would most certainly never have the nerve to post them here.

You seem a little touchy about the topic, swishy, why is that?
 
I cant believe the stupid responses in this thread. The OP was honest and considered both sides and was thoughtful and he gets

Its not her responsability to turn you on.

You must be fucked up because all I gotta do is put on a tank top and in three seconds my husband wants to bone

And the best one....

You need counseling.

Are you people fucking high? Or just dumb.
 
Aglaopheme said:
No it's not. His wife is not responsible for his waning erection.

If I thought my tits needed validating, I would most certainly never have the nerve to post them here.

You seem a little touchy about the topic, swishy, why is that?
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Because it just pisses me off to hear women and even men here say it's not a spouses job or responsibility to even concern herself with turning her man on, or in any way doing a damned thing to spice up a waning sex life due to a number of factors including a mans age.

Un fucking believable the arrogance and selfishness.

Im actually amazed. I would never have bet that's what I would have heard in this thread from a bunch of people on a sex forum board.

Jaded much?

FFS.
 
Aglaopheme said:
No it's not. His wife is not responsible for his waning erection.

If I thought my tits needed validating, I would most certainly never have the nerve to post them here.

You seem a little touchy about the topic, swishy, why is that?
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I don't read him as "touchy", but rather as repulsed by a progressive cunt who obviously can't smell her own stank.
 
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Oh dear lord, he brought up what his wife was wearing, I bet a
large majority of woman that are at home dress exactly the same way. T shirts are not boner killers. He said he finds her 'super hot'. Not a boner killer. He said she does stuff to please him sexually. Not a boner killer. He said she asks if he wants to fool around. Not a boner killer. The only thing that he said that has changed is his boners are no longer automatic as they once were.
 
Killswitch1 said:
Because it just pisses me off to hear women and even men here say it's not a spouses job or responsibility to even concern herself with turning her man on, or in any way doing a damned thing to spice up a waning sex life due to a number of factors including a mans age.

Un fucking believable the arrogance and selfishness.

Im actually amazed. I would never have bet that's what I would have heard in this thread from a bunch of people on a sex forum board.

Jaded much?

FFS.
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I didn't say that. I think his need for Viagra is not to be pinned on his wife.
 
eyerami said:
I don't read him as "touchy", but rather as repulsed by a progressive cunt who obviously can't smell her own stank.
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Always nipping at my heels. :rose:

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