Freckles8155
Virgin
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- Mar 12, 2016
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I'm pretty new to bdsm, i just started dating a guy that's trying to get me
Into it and it's definitly working. He is somewhat new too it as well. He's very dominant but in a caring way if that makes sense. I like it because i feel dominated but I also feel like I can trust him and that he cares. Every time we have sex he pushes my limits a little further. The first time it was just light choking and pinning me down, then he started choking me with a little more pressure and used restraints, then we added a ball gag. He's also started slapping and spanking me. I love all of it. I want to do things to please him too but every time I even try to touch him he just says "don't worry about me" and pulls my hand away. Outside of sex we are very affectionate with each other. Is it normal for a dom to act like that? Also what are some other things we can try?
Into it and it's definitly working. He is somewhat new too it as well. He's very dominant but in a caring way if that makes sense. I like it because i feel dominated but I also feel like I can trust him and that he cares. Every time we have sex he pushes my limits a little further. The first time it was just light choking and pinning me down, then he started choking me with a little more pressure and used restraints, then we added a ball gag. He's also started slapping and spanking me. I love all of it. I want to do things to please him too but every time I even try to touch him he just says "don't worry about me" and pulls my hand away. Outside of sex we are very affectionate with each other. Is it normal for a dom to act like that? Also what are some other things we can try?