Trying it once.
The problem with trying ANYTHING once is, you may hate it the first time you try it, but it just might be something you love more than life itself, and your first experience just happened to be bad.
I've been actively bisexual for all of my adult life, but there were large blocks of time when I didn't have a man to have sex with. I wanted to have sex with a man, but I've never been into "encounters" or "one night stands". When I have sex with a man, he normally becomes the only man for me until we have to go our separate ways for whatever reasons. (Usually, my steady male lovers moved away for various reasons, but usually because of work.)
To me, sex with a man isn't really BETTER than sex with a woman, but it is different in many ways and that's really what does it for me. Those differences in bed feel wonderful, and since I'm a "bottom", I get the chance to experience being on the receiving end of lovemaking with a man. My experiences with men have made me a better lover with women. Anal sex with a woman changed because I had first-hand (or first rear!) experience with having a hard cock in my ass. I discovered how great anal sex could be with a loving, caring man, and how awful it could be with a man who just wants to shove his cock in and ejaculate as quickly as possible...
Sucking a man's cock and being able to feel his responses while I arouse him to the point of no return is super exciting for me! I love eating pussy and watching a woman's face while she enjoys it right up until she cums so hard. It is the same way with sucking cock. Hearing my male lover's reactions and watching his face right up until he goes rigid all over and fills my mouth with his warm seed... wow!!!
So, being bisexual isn't really something I could turn off, but there have been times I've put it on the back burner of my life for various reasons.
I wonder how many try it once and don't like it?
The problem with trying ANYTHING once is, you may hate it the first time you try it, but it just might be something you love more than life itself, and your first experience just happened to be bad.
I've been actively bisexual for all of my adult life, but there were large blocks of time when I didn't have a man to have sex with. I wanted to have sex with a man, but I've never been into "encounters" or "one night stands". When I have sex with a man, he normally becomes the only man for me until we have to go our separate ways for whatever reasons. (Usually, my steady male lovers moved away for various reasons, but usually because of work.)
To me, sex with a man isn't really BETTER than sex with a woman, but it is different in many ways and that's really what does it for me. Those differences in bed feel wonderful, and since I'm a "bottom", I get the chance to experience being on the receiving end of lovemaking with a man. My experiences with men have made me a better lover with women. Anal sex with a woman changed because I had first-hand (or first rear!) experience with having a hard cock in my ass. I discovered how great anal sex could be with a loving, caring man, and how awful it could be with a man who just wants to shove his cock in and ejaculate as quickly as possible...
Sucking a man's cock and being able to feel his responses while I arouse him to the point of no return is super exciting for me! I love eating pussy and watching a woman's face while she enjoys it right up until she cums so hard. It is the same way with sucking cock. Hearing my male lover's reactions and watching his face right up until he goes rigid all over and fills my mouth with his warm seed... wow!!!
So, being bisexual isn't really something I could turn off, but there have been times I've put it on the back burner of my life for various reasons.