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HandsInTheDark
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In a recent story, a dominant male and submissive female revealed they were both fond of having the female required to sexually serve other men. I followed it up with a scene of that sort. This was in BDSM, not LW, and I didn't expect much backlash, and indeed I didn't get any. It's the highest rated chapter I've ever written. Another story of mine in which the theme comes up was also very highly rated, by my standards.
Which surprises me, very slightly. I do a lot with dominant and submissive themes, sometimes consensual and affectionate, sometimes edgier than that. (This was a very affectionate pair). A lot of my readership, judging by my email, is female. This leads me to suspect that, at least within the context of a trusted relationship, an awful lot of females have the fantasy of being required to sexually serve men they don't know. It doesn't surprise me at all that it's a hot thought in a non-con setting, for those into non-con. But in a consensual arrangement it apparently retains the hotness, despite (or because of) the violation of the secret, safe D/s space it implies.
Females, comment. Females with a submissive mindset, especially remark on how you'd feel in real life (and yes, I know fantasy is different) if you were told to serve another man while the dominant observed. If this turns out to be a significant fetish for a lot of readers, I could easily see trying a story in which it was a major theme.
Which surprises me, very slightly. I do a lot with dominant and submissive themes, sometimes consensual and affectionate, sometimes edgier than that. (This was a very affectionate pair). A lot of my readership, judging by my email, is female. This leads me to suspect that, at least within the context of a trusted relationship, an awful lot of females have the fantasy of being required to sexually serve men they don't know. It doesn't surprise me at all that it's a hot thought in a non-con setting, for those into non-con. But in a consensual arrangement it apparently retains the hotness, despite (or because of) the violation of the secret, safe D/s space it implies.
Females, comment. Females with a submissive mindset, especially remark on how you'd feel in real life (and yes, I know fantasy is different) if you were told to serve another man while the dominant observed. If this turns out to be a significant fetish for a lot of readers, I could easily see trying a story in which it was a major theme.