Male threesome: reality compared to fantasy?

I've been with two guys many times over the years, even three a few times.
The trick is to relax and not get all anxious and uptight. You need to really just get into it and love the moment. Maybe a couple of beers will help you ease into it. I'm a bottom, and I vastly prefer being topped--both orally and anally. It's fun and it's a super turn on, especially if things get a little kinky. I really get turned on when people watch, which has happened maybe five or six times. Feeling slutty and a little dirty and that makes me incredibly hot.