sub2femdom
Really Experienced
- Joined
- May 26, 2018
- Posts
- 261
Hey all,
This post is to be my real 'coming out' as it should be I guess.
I've been posting on the forums for a while, taking what little real life experience I have an applying it to discussions and topics, sometimes knowing very well what I'm talking about and other times either pretending or pushing my ideals, but in any case, I'm here to bare my soul, as it were.
I'm simply and easily explained as sexually lonely. I have been married for almost 20 years, and the sex life dried up in my early to mid 30's. There's a hundred reasons for this, but in the end, mental illness and the drugs to treat it have rendered my wife's libido dead.
In my need for sexual attention, I ended up masturbating often, sometimes more than once a day. This seemed to be fine for a while, but then the basic online porn and my imagination seemed to lose it's luster. Typical hardcore and lesbian/threesome scenes no longer made my desires peak, and I was left wanting more.
I eventually stumbled onto cuckold and femdom porn, which really spoke to me. I started crossdressing and using dildo's in my ass, pretending I was a sissy.
After a while, I started delving into the 'lifestyle' and looked for dominant women.
Over the years, I found a few, and engaged in submissive play, cuckoldry, and other submissive acts, including attending sex parties as a submissive or crossdressing sissy. While I've had my fun, none of it was perfect, and I was left wondering what I really want.
I figured it out after the last party (where my avatar pic was taken). I am not sure what I am or what I want.
First and foremost, I want to keep my family life untouched.
Second, I need to stay in the closet. My income depends on it.
Though next, things get unclear.
Do I want a dominant woman to cuckold me? A dominant man to use me for his pleasures? A couple to use me for variety play? I want it all, frankly. I need to have sexual attention, exactly what I'm not getting at home. But why doesn't just sleeping with a woman answer to that? Why do I need to be submissive and used?
These are the things that I grapple with daily, but always end up just wanting to pleasure a master and getting that 'good boy' during the process. I find my own pleasure a distant second to anyone I am with.
I've not played with anyone since last september, and just got back from a trip to vegas, (which was sexy as hell!) and am left wanting. How can I effectively put myself out there without being able to articulate what I want? I don't even know what I really want myself, except that aspect of attention, I crave it.
I'm no hunk, I'm approaching 50, and a little overweight (intend and hope to work it off), but I have no fortunes or the eternal gigantic hard-on to offer, just myself, heart and soul, for someone to bond with.
So.. that's me. I've bared it all here for you to judge.
This post is to be my real 'coming out' as it should be I guess.
I've been posting on the forums for a while, taking what little real life experience I have an applying it to discussions and topics, sometimes knowing very well what I'm talking about and other times either pretending or pushing my ideals, but in any case, I'm here to bare my soul, as it were.
I'm simply and easily explained as sexually lonely. I have been married for almost 20 years, and the sex life dried up in my early to mid 30's. There's a hundred reasons for this, but in the end, mental illness and the drugs to treat it have rendered my wife's libido dead.
In my need for sexual attention, I ended up masturbating often, sometimes more than once a day. This seemed to be fine for a while, but then the basic online porn and my imagination seemed to lose it's luster. Typical hardcore and lesbian/threesome scenes no longer made my desires peak, and I was left wanting more.
I eventually stumbled onto cuckold and femdom porn, which really spoke to me. I started crossdressing and using dildo's in my ass, pretending I was a sissy.
After a while, I started delving into the 'lifestyle' and looked for dominant women.
Over the years, I found a few, and engaged in submissive play, cuckoldry, and other submissive acts, including attending sex parties as a submissive or crossdressing sissy. While I've had my fun, none of it was perfect, and I was left wondering what I really want.
I figured it out after the last party (where my avatar pic was taken). I am not sure what I am or what I want.
First and foremost, I want to keep my family life untouched.
Second, I need to stay in the closet. My income depends on it.
Though next, things get unclear.
Do I want a dominant woman to cuckold me? A dominant man to use me for his pleasures? A couple to use me for variety play? I want it all, frankly. I need to have sexual attention, exactly what I'm not getting at home. But why doesn't just sleeping with a woman answer to that? Why do I need to be submissive and used?
These are the things that I grapple with daily, but always end up just wanting to pleasure a master and getting that 'good boy' during the process. I find my own pleasure a distant second to anyone I am with.
I've not played with anyone since last september, and just got back from a trip to vegas, (which was sexy as hell!) and am left wanting. How can I effectively put myself out there without being able to articulate what I want? I don't even know what I really want myself, except that aspect of attention, I crave it.
I'm no hunk, I'm approaching 50, and a little overweight (intend and hope to work it off), but I have no fortunes or the eternal gigantic hard-on to offer, just myself, heart and soul, for someone to bond with.
So.. that's me. I've bared it all here for you to judge.