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This was one of the best posts I have ever read on here. Very thoughtful, helpful and comprehensive advice. Pity Don doesn't post anymore to see the thread has been revived.


Don K Dyck said:
Hi Teddybear,

There's a bit of a knack to giving good deep throat, and it does take a little (regular?) practice.

Most people gag when something solid and unexpected goes down there throat. It is a natural response. So how do you control the urge?

With practice, it can be done especially if you do it slowly and get used to the feelings involved.

Start slowly at the head, give it plenty of saliva as you slobber and suckle it, try not to bring him off too early and be prepared to control the pace at first, and throughout.

As he gets harder and you get hotter, gradually take a little more in your mouth. When you feel that you are getting that choking feeling, back off and take less until you feel comfortable. You can even let it all out as you get control back, but best to keep handling his cock while you do it. He will stay hard and enjoy the wait.

Back in control, with plenty of saliva, start the breathing trick, that is, as his cock moves in, either by you going forward to gobble or him pushing in,

breathe OUT as your mouth fills and IN as your mouth empties.

With a little practice you will get the rhythm. Then start down his cock, about a centimeter (half inch) a tiime, up and down SLOWLY, gradually taking more cock with each up and down movement.

Eventually you will have a full mouth and then a full throat, but it is most important to continue the movement (when learning) rather than give in to the desire the ecstatic deep short thrust that he will want.

To give good deep throat the woman needs to be in control. Therefore the preferred order of positions is

1. man on back, woman on top; she has complete control, but some men are apparently scared of this loss of control, so choose carefully and don't worry if it happens, just choose a more deserving recipient.

2. woman on back shoulders on pillow at edge of bed; usually considered an advanced technique because there must be trust between the parties that the woman will be safe and not injured by an out of control rampant cumshooting male, so leave this one until experienced or when experimenting with a more than casual lover.

3. standing with woman in front (preferably) squatting with knees wide spread letting the smell of her cum intoxicate her lover; this is my preferred position because I get really horny, and the girl can hold/stroke/squeeze/suck my balls or deep throat at will while practising the breathing trick.

While standing the man may be standing erect or if that give the wrong geometry, then have the man lean back against something, a desk top, sit on a chair is great, lounge against the wall.

Most importantly, do what feels good and don't be afraid to call the shots. Men love being sucked, it is one of the greatest pleasures they can be given, and they will 99/100 times cooperate to get it. If not, change to a more appreciative lover.

Final words of wisdom are found on the very extensive five star rated thread, How to Finish a Blow Job by the Queen of Cum herself. Just look at the top of this Board.

Ball sucking is a separate art form. Men vary greatly in their response to this one, so procced slowly and watch for the relaxed signals to proceed or the fear signals to stop and move to another pleasure.

Licking is generally OK with most men. The "terror" begins when you take a testicle in your mouth, and he wonders if you will bite it off (no kidding!!). GENTLY suck, roll it around in your mouth, watching for ecstasy, when he could easily push your head onto him to give more, or fear, when he will want anything except ballsucking. Relax, go with the flow, enjoy yourself. Again, if he is well endowed then he may be too big to mouth, so licking and kiss/sucking may be the best method.

When you are in a more than casual relationship you will be able to build the trust with your partner that ball sucking requires.

Enjoy!! I envy the lucky bugger that you have chosen. :D :D :D
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i've had 2 g/f's that threw up when trying to deep throat me... lil gross.. but then both wanted to keep going.. so we moved to deepthroating me in the shower so they could just puke n keep going .... lil nasty.. but OMG hot too...
 
Now that I stop to think about it, I'm not sure why I've never had any trouble swallowing even a very large cock all the way down my throat with out gagging. Maybe it's just a natural ability or maybe it's because I began my cocksucking career at the early age of 15 when I would blow my best friend practically every day after school. Another possibility is that since I like the way it feels when a cock is fucking my throat, I don't try to resist it from going down there but in fact I try to open up my throat and swallow it down and hold it down there for as long as possible as I massage the cock with my throat muscles. I think that by trying to resist it , you actually trigger the gag reflex. I love sucking cock.
 
Learned skill

Had GF gag and toss up on my cock and balls while trying too DT me.....I felt bad for her...just me I guess.....she was trying hard too get me down.....I'm no king cock stud either.....Thick though....and another that did the 'Almost' she luv'd feeling a cock pushing into her throat

I have been enjoying mrsK working on this skill....she has a quick gag-reflex....takes time....:D
 
I wish I could get my husbands cock all the way down my throat. I've been practicing which he's supportive of, not surprising. I'm getting better but I'd love to hit bottom with him in my throat. That would be HOT!
Until then I'll have to keep practicing!
 
jen_litgirl said:
I wish I could get my husbands cock all the way down my throat. I've been practicing which he's supportive of, not surprising. I'm getting better but I'd love to hit bottom with him in my throat. That would be HOT!
Until then I'll have to keep practicing!
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I think that every woman can deep throat. You see, suppose you are just starting oral - you can put it all in your mouth before it's really hard. Same is true after he's cum and is getting a bit soft. More important is to figure out exactly what you want to do.

Do you want to be capable of "face fucking?" Or do you want to have him all the way down, when he comes? Or to carry him all the way from arousal, to organism, deep throat style?

Look at porn videos of deep throat that are instructional. Heather Brookes of course is the master. She can do anything - any of the above. But pretty commonly, she'll jerk the guy off and finish swooping all the way down, once or twice. Notice that it seems completely natural and not a struggle.

If she built up to a big dramatic moment and then did the "deep throat thing", like it was the big deal in the show, would it be impressive? Or would it be really hot for your partner? I don't think so. It's the use of the technique at the right time and in the right amounts, to the extent you can do it while keeping it seeming completely natural, which matters.

I'm a guy so I maybe am not totally good at explaining this to women here. Always remember even though with deep throat you can learn from these videos, the method in a video is largely visual - when you are doing a guy, he may have his eyes closed or be looking elsewhere. In fact, he may not be able to tell if you've got half the cock down your throat and your hands wrapped lightly around the rest, or if you've got him all the way down.

After he cums and looks down at you, you might just take it all the way down and lovingly look up at him - that's easier because it's partly soft.
 
I offered to try this morning and like my husband of course jumped at the chance of me trying something new. I wasn't sure exactly what the difference is between what I've been doing and deep throating. Well, since reading this thread I've been paying more attention to how far I can take him down my throat and it turns out there's not much farther I CAN take him. So I used what someone suggested and I faked a yawn which pushed my throat muscles out of the way and I was able to bottom out. The look on his face was priceless!

Combining that with lots of eye contact and rubbing that spot just below his balls and he was definitely having a good time. I would speed up because I was really getting into it but I would slow down when I could feel him tense up. I wanted to prolong this as long as possible.

It made for a GREAT Saturday morning leading into a long weekend. I think we may be in bed more often then not for the next couple of days.

Thanks for all the suggestions and how-tos. I can't believe I didn't join the forum sooner!
 
i have heard that the sore throat spray helps. the numbing effect is supposed to make it easier.
 
I've been able to deepthroat ever since I was a teenager and my best friend managed to force his VERY BIG cock past the bend at the back of my mouth and all the way down into my throat!!! We were both amazed the first time this happened and it immediately became our favorite thing and after that, the way that I would always give him a blowjob. I never seemed to be troubled with a gag reflex and I loved the way it felt with his cock completely filling my throat. Try practicing with a dildo. I like deepthroating my Jeff Stryker cyberskin dildo whenever I'm in the mood and I don't have the real thing to suck on.
 
My Trick....

Easiest trick of all, tip your head back at an angle. This opens up your throat/airway. I promise this works. Even if your head is upside down, your head can still go back at an angle, I promise. Once he's down your throat, time your breathing with his thrusts.

Obviously if he grabs your head and fucks your face where you cannot move your head, this will prohibit my technique. And obviously sometimes it will be impossible depending on HIS position.
 
FrozenRose is so right! x the Angle is so important if yo would like to avoid 'gagging' etc x if the angle of the neck is directly lined with the angle of the mouth/throat (imagine a direct route without turns) then deep throating a guy, however large is so easy x x x
 
SuzanneK said:
FrozenRose is so right! x the Angle is so important if yo would like to avoid 'gagging' etc x if the angle of the neck is directly lined with the angle of the mouth/throat (imagine a direct route without turns) then deep throating a guy, however large is so easy x x x
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Hey S
You can DT me anytime you have a spare hour or day. You look gorgeous. May I join the queue......Rxx
 
SuzanneK said:
FrozenRose is so right! x the Angle is so important if yo would like to avoid 'gagging' etc x if the angle of the neck is directly lined with the angle of the mouth/throat (imagine a direct route without turns) then deep throating a guy, however large is so easy x x x
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So the position with your head hanging over the edge of the bed is a real thing huh... mmm makes me tingle...
 
Ive recently been practicing on a dildo as I dont have access to the real thing at the moment. Im actually pretty impressed with how its going, I have a fairly strong gag reflex but have been able to get down about 12cm. 5cm more and I should be able to deepthroat the guy im hooking up with in December :D
 
It's only a simple thing, but...

I find the hotter I am feeling, the better I am at deepthroating. Being hornier makes me more relaxed and also slightly more desperate to fill myself with him and thus it becmes easier. So his best blowjobs are either when he's been playing with me and then I get too overexcited and jump on him, or the morning blowjobs when I've been playing with myself before I even bothered to wake him up.
And make sure he is really wet, saliva or lube. If I've been at it for a while he tends to end up pretty soggy, but as being soggy means I've been working hard, he doesn't mind. :)
 
I swear by Deep throat mints, or cinnamin gum. bith work at numbing.

I have been practicing with both popsicles and on of my dildos. I have been told I am getting better :)
 
Can't say anything that hasn't already been said: practice, practice, practice! And what's not to love when you go down on your guy?

I can't imagine he's going to complain either!

On the idea of the more aroused you are the further you can go, I always got down on my guys when I was stroking myself. And as efficient as it is to lay down and have a guy "fuck face" it's so much hotter to be on top of him and do it.

But hey, that's just me!
 
Deep throating is easy, my husband loves his huge thick cock in my mouth. All I have to do to open up is yawn, the more open I am, the further his hard cock goes in.
 
Any more tips?

I'm getting with a rather thicker than normal guy and really would love any tips for dealing with someone that's a pretty good girth. I'm used to average sized people but this one is thicker/bigger than I've had previously and I really want to please him. He's definately a good mouthful and a rather ... intense type of guy.

Loving the tips so far. :D
 
Don K Dyck said:
Hi Teddybear,

There's a bit of a knack to giving good deep throat, and it does take a little (regular?) practice.

Most people gag when something solid and unexpected goes down there throat. It is a natural response. So how do you control the urge?

With practice, it can be done especially if you do it slowly and get used to the feelings involved.

Start slowly at the head, give it plenty of saliva as you slobber and suckle it, try not to bring him off too early and be prepared to control the pace at first, and throughout.

As he gets harder and you get hotter, gradually take a little more in your mouth. When you feel that you are getting that choking feeling, back off and take less until you feel comfortable. You can even let it all out as you get control back, but best to keep handling his cock while you do it. He will stay hard and enjoy the wait.

Back in control, with plenty of saliva, start the breathing trick, that is, as his cock moves in, either by you going forward to gobble or him pushing in,

breathe OUT as your mouth fills and IN as your mouth empties.

With a little practice you will get the rhythm. Then start down his cock, about a centimeter (half inch) a tiime, up and down SLOWLY, gradually taking more cock with each up and down movement.

Eventually you will have a full mouth and then a full throat, but it is most important to continue the movement (when learning) rather than give in to the desire the ecstatic deep short thrust that he will want.

To give good deep throat the woman needs to be in control. Therefore the preferred order of positions is

1. man on back, woman on top; she has complete control, but some men are apparently scared of this loss of control, so choose carefully and don't worry if it happens, just choose a more deserving recipient.

2. woman on back shoulders on pillow at edge of bed; usually considered an advanced technique because there must be trust between the parties that the woman will be safe and not injured by an out of control rampant cumshooting male, so leave this one until experienced or when experimenting with a more than casual lover.

3. standing with woman in front (preferably) squatting with knees wide spread letting the smell of her cum intoxicate her lover; this is my preferred position because I get really horny, and the girl can hold/stroke/squeeze/suck my balls or deep throat at will while practising the breathing trick.

While standing the man may be standing erect or if that give the wrong geometry, then have the man lean back against something, a desk top, sit on a chair is great, lounge against the wall.

Most importantly, do what feels good and don't be afraid to call the shots. Men love being sucked, it is one of the greatest pleasures they can be given, and they will 99/100 times cooperate to get it. If not, change to a more appreciative lover.

Final words of wisdom are found on the very extensive five star rated thread, How to Finish a Blow Job by the Queen of Cum herself. Just look at the top of this Board.

Ball sucking is a separate art form. Men vary greatly in their response to this one, so procced slowly and watch for the relaxed signals to proceed or the fear signals to stop and move to another pleasure.

Licking is generally OK with most men. The "terror" begins when you take a testicle in your mouth, and he wonders if you will bite it off (no kidding!!). GENTLY suck, roll it around in your mouth, watching for ecstasy, when he could easily push your head onto him to give more, or fear, when he will want anything except ballsucking. Relax, go with the flow, enjoy yourself. Again, if he is well endowed then he may be too big to mouth, so licking and kiss/sucking may be the best method.

When you are in a more than casual relationship you will be able to build the trust with your partner that ball sucking requires.

Enjoy!! I envy the lucky bugger that you have chosen. :D :D :D
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Don,
Great advice, many thanks!
 
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