rhod101
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- Jan 11, 2014
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Thank you. I keep telling myself this. It's easy to feel deficient. I don't really care that I can't orgasm from intercourse. I wish that I could with fingers, or with oral. The vibe is the only thing that does it. I know it hurts his ego. Its frustrating for me as well.
It sounds like you need to relax. How you go about doing this is absolutely up to you, but it sounds like you need to get comfortable with who you are sexually. I think that my wife is very similar to you in many respects.
I wouldn't do anything that you aren't comfortable with and don't feel pressured. At the end of the day, sex should be about fun, so you need to enjoy it too. Just take some time to explore your feelings about sex and remember that whatever you feel is nothing to be ashamed about. It's all perfectly natural.
Once you've figured out what you want and feel comfortable with yourself I think everything will just go from there.