I play in an online 3d game similar to Second Life. Obviously, exploring the physical aspects of BDSM is limited in this medium, but the psychological aspects can be explored, exploited, and played with a great deal. It can be great fun for those of us who are in committed vanilla relationships or who can't practice it for whatever reasons.
Now my problem. I've been approached by a longtime friend on the site who wants to try to face some longstanding mental issues of hers that stem from an abusive marriage that she was in over 20 years ago. I've just begun to start the dialogue with her, so I know I need A LOT more information from her before deciding whether I'm even willing to do this. I'd like to hear from others who perhaps have found BDSM to be therapeutic this way. What advice might you have for me?
I'll supply more info as it becomes available (within ethical limits, of course).
Now my problem. I've been approached by a longtime friend on the site who wants to try to face some longstanding mental issues of hers that stem from an abusive marriage that she was in over 20 years ago. I've just begun to start the dialogue with her, so I know I need A LOT more information from her before deciding whether I'm even willing to do this. I'd like to hear from others who perhaps have found BDSM to be therapeutic this way. What advice might you have for me?
I'll supply more info as it becomes available (within ethical limits, of course).