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Okay, then let me ask you this: Humiliation can be erotic. Can shame be erotic?
I don't think so. But then I'm not into the connection between humiliation and the erotic either.
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Okay, then let me ask you this: Humiliation can be erotic. Can shame be erotic?
Okay, then let me ask you this: Humiliation can be erotic. Can shame be erotic?
How would you set up an erotic situation around a personal and solely self-referential emotion?
I just can't see whacking off to the memory of the money I've squandered on nothing, or the time I failed to ... I dunno, perform in some way expected of me, in relation to my fellow human beings or my world.
Shame is about as unsexy an emotion as I can think of. It is not the same as humiliation.
Expiation for something shaming? With a sexual content? I'm not coming up with it, it seems like an incredibly slimy thing to visit on the shamed person.
(edited to say-- damn, if only I'd known varian was posting at the same time! )
Sex as an act-- is not even on my horizon of shame, although interpersonal issues between the actors of sex-- those might factor in.
I heard once that shame is what we feel when our secret desires become known. Humiliation is what we feel when we show our weakness. I don't know if I buy it though.
Okay, then let me ask you this: Humiliation can be erotic. Can shame be erotic?
I'm remembering Stephen King's line in Danse Macabre that you can tell that when Lucy is being bitten by Dracula that "she's coming her brains out."
I read a newspaper column years ago, about what sort of monsters a society has and why. Basically monsters deal with the things society doesn't want to deal with.
Frankenstein's monster was the first modern monster. And that society didn't want to deal with science and its effect on nature. So the monster was 'unnatural' and created by science.
Dracula and Mr. Hyde were the next major monsters. And what did late Victorian society not want to deal with? Sex. So both these monsters were sexual monsters.
The thing our society doesn't want to deal with is Death. It's not part of our lives and we can't control it. An especial affront to control freaks such as ourselves. So our monsters are killers. Jason, Freddy, Michael Myers, Hannibal Lecter and zombies put death right in our face. And it scares the hell out of us.
I think that shame requires some sense that one's secrets are wrong. Otherwise I'd just call it embarassment.
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I'd say yes. What is the desire for erotic humiliation, but the desire for one's shame to be uncovered?
dammit, us neo-libertines lose out on so much of the fun stuff!
dammit, us neo-libertines lose out on so much of the fun stuff!
yes-- there must be something to have declined from, after all, like kicking against the pool wall to get moving. Me, I'm just floating somewhere in the vastness of the deep end...There's a reason all of the great decadents were Catholics.
yes-- there must be something to have declined from, after all, like kicking against the pool wall to get moving. Me, I'm just floating somewhere in the vastness of the deep end...
We are all mere minnows in the shallows of your id.
There's a reason all of the great decadents were Catholics.
yes-- there must be something to have declined from, after all, like kicking against the pool wall to get moving. Me, I'm just floating somewhere in the vastness of the deep end...
I knew I missed out on something by being raised Lutheran!
Yeah, Father Martin even approved of occasional sin, "so as to mock the devil". Now how do you rebel against something like that?
Takes all of the fun right out of it, doesn't it?
Yeah, Father Martin even approved of occasional sin, "so as to mock the devil". Now how do you rebel against something like that?
I don't think humiliation is erotic at all - but shame is very erotic - it is almost inescapable in this culture that our earliest sexual experiences are tinged, and associated with shame, it's practically an industry.Okay, then let me ask you this: Humiliation can be erotic. Can shame be erotic?