Giraffe055
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Hello Men or Women,
How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?
How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?
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Hello Men or Women,
How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?
I have only given oral to women, but I have (very recently) received the compliment “you are orally amazing,” which made me happy.
My secrets are:
1. Relax
2. Love doing it
3. At least like the recipient
4. Be patient - it doesn’t all happen at once!
5. Be genuinely enthusiastic
6. Pick a receptive and responsive partner
I am, of course, always looking for opportunities to practice and to hone my skills.
Number 3. Laughed out loud at that! What world is it where you go down on someone you don't like?
ElectricBlue,
sometimes, giving oral sex can be a simple matter of courtesy. To refuse… to even show reluctance or hesitation, could be misinterpreted as bad manners. And we don't want that - do we? So concentrate on enjoying the sex, and not necessarily the person, and going down can be very satisfying and enjoyable...
Many moons ago I was dating a college girl who was more experienced sexually than I was. I wasn't too sure about this ORAL thingie and from a few dates where they were a little LESS than pristine in their hygiene it worried me that stickin my face down there would turn me right off.
I remember she asked me if there was any chocolate syrup in the house and there was so we dollopped her liberally with that and I went to work. Of course she was super clean and there was no smell at all other than the one coming from one of my main addictions - chocolate. Soon I didn't need or want the chocolate (it was still fun sometimes) and I always likened it to long stretches of just necking ... kissing, nibbling, licking when that's ALL you're doing.
It is particularly important to tease at first and then pay close attention to her reactions. It makes little sense doing something for an extended period of time if it isn't building her up. Some women thrash and heave and moan when O is approaching. Some go DEAD STILL and even stop breathing. DON'T get turned off thinking they aren't enjoying what you're doing or are still an hour from cuming just because they are silent. I love it when you're hitting just the right spot and she grabs your hair or holds your head to make sure you don't move away and do something else. Actually make a note of EXACTLY what you're doing when SHE grabs you like that because it is not only the launch button but a great TEASE point. Do that thang and then move away and do something else for a bit ... the sounds they often make when they know YOU KNOW about that spot and aren't going there ... is priceless.
Also know that over the course of a month she's gonna be going through MOOODS - one night she doesn't want anything but a VERY gentle tongue lashing and two afternoons later what she REALLY wants is a good spanking and to be fucked in the ass hard!! NEVER make the (boring) assumption that "OK ... this works ALL the time." It doesn't. They're women.
Hello Men or Women,
How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?
I really enjoy giving. At times I crave it! Only men though.
Hello Men or Women,
How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?
Is it OK to ask?
Absolutely. In fact, it's a necessity. It doesn't work well unless you're both on the same page, and the easiest way to tell is to ask "May I do this to you?" or "Please do this to me."