Oral Sex

Enjoy the pleasure of giving

I enjoy giving oral sex - to women and men.

Find someone you are totally at ease with, make them very comfortable. Undress them, put their legs up, spread wide or knees up. Dim lights, scented candles. Put some easy porn on TV, if only to hear the moans.

Get undressed yourself. Touch yourself. Show yourself to your partner.

Kneel down and touch. Let your touch turn to taste. Tell your partner to lay back, relax and let everything flow. Don't hold back. Enjoy!

Taste. Lick. Kiss. Do it very slowly. When you think that you are going slow enough - go slower. Taste everything except their genitals. Go around, over, above, under. Let your fingers dance like feathers on your partners flesh.

Now taste them between their legs. Lick the vagina, put your lips around the penis, nibble her vulva, roll a testicle in your mouth. Watch THEIR reaction to everything you do. Pay attention to see what pleases them. Now, give them more pleasure, slowly, kiss, lick and suck. Don't be afraid to make everything very, very wet. Keep it up. Don't stop. Soon they will be going over the edge. That will be your reward. They will give you their juice - ENJOY every drop. Swallow!
 
I really enjoy giving. At times I crave it! Only men though.
 
Hi.
I think that oral sex is an important part of sexual life. Making your partner enjoying this process surely number one goal. Recently I read an article about tips that you can use for full satisfaction. Check it out, I am sure you will find interesting tips there.
 
I enjoy giving oral sex to my wife, and it is always part of our making love. It took a while for her to get used to giving me oral sex, but she enjoys it now...with the understanding that I will not cum in her mouth or on her face. She had a bad experience with it in college, and I'm fine with that limitation. I think partners should talk about what they want and do not want in the act of having sex.
 
Giving Oral

I have only given oral to women, but I have (very recently) received the compliment “you are orally amazing,” which made me happy.

My secrets are:

1. Relax
2. Love doing it
3. At least like the recipient
4. Be patient - it doesn’t all happen at once!
5. Be genuinely enthusiastic
6. Pick a receptive and responsive partner

I am, of course, always looking for opportunities to practice and to hone my skills.
 
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I have only given oral to women, but I have (very recently) received the compliment “you are orally amazing,” which made me happy.

My secrets are:

1. Relax
2. Love doing it
3. At least like the recipient
4. Be patient - it doesn’t all happen at once!
5. Be genuinely enthusiastic
6. Pick a receptive and responsive partner

I am, of course, always looking for opportunities to practice and to hone my skills.

Number 3. Laughed out loud at that! What world is it where you go down on someone you don't like?
 
Please… No Social Faux Pas

Number 3. Laughed out loud at that! What world is it where you go down on someone you don't like?

ElectricBlue,
sometimes, giving oral sex can be a simple matter of courtesy. To refuse… to even show reluctance or hesitation, could be misinterpreted as bad manners. And we don't want that - do we? So concentrate on enjoying the sex, and not necessarily the person, and going down can be very satisfying and enjoyable...
 
ElectricBlue,
sometimes, giving oral sex can be a simple matter of courtesy. To refuse… to even show reluctance or hesitation, could be misinterpreted as bad manners. And we don't want that - do we? So concentrate on enjoying the sex, and not necessarily the person, and going down can be very satisfying and enjoyable...

Exactly. You can be technically proficient and give decent oral, but you need to like the person to make it amazing.
 
I've always loved foreplay before anything goes and oral sex I think is probably my favorite. I love giving and receiving. Man and Woman. I love the taste, the smell, feeling them tense up, react to it, hearing them moan. I'm a giver when it comes to oral sex. It's probably my favorite thing other than kissing passionately. :heart:
 
I have recently started giving oral sex.

I think you can really enjoy it when it is with the right person and I think it is super sexy.

I have been asked for it and think that this is OK, however I also think it is OK to say no if you do not feel comfortable. By the right person, I think it is super sexy to be asked.

I personally think oral sex is ultra personal and therefore do not like to give it to all sexual partners. Although men have said they have enjoyed it, I have ways been a bit conscious of how good my oral skills actually are.
 
Many moons ago I was dating a college girl who was more experienced sexually than I was. I wasn't too sure about this ORAL thingie and from a few dates where they were a little LESS than pristine in their hygiene it worried me that stickin my face down there would turn me right off.

I remember she asked me if there was any chocolate syrup in the house and there was so we dollopped her liberally with that and I went to work. Of course she was super clean and there was no smell at all other than the one coming from one of my main addictions - chocolate. Soon I didn't need or want the chocolate (it was still fun sometimes) and I always likened it to long stretches of just necking ... kissing, nibbling, licking when that's ALL you're doing.

It is particularly important to tease at first and then pay close attention to her reactions. It makes little sense doing something for an extended period of time if it isn't building her up. Some women thrash and heave and moan when O is approaching. Some go DEAD STILL and even stop breathing. DON'T get turned off thinking they aren't enjoying what you're doing or are still an hour from cuming just because they are silent. I love it when you're hitting just the right spot and she grabs your hair or holds your head to make sure you don't move away and do something else. Actually make a note of EXACTLY what you're doing when SHE grabs you like that because it is not only the launch button but a great TEASE point. Do that thang and then move away and do something else for a bit ... the sounds they often make when they know YOU KNOW about that spot and aren't going there ... is priceless.

Also know that over the course of a month she's gonna be going through MOOODS - one night she doesn't want anything but a VERY gentle tongue lashing and two afternoons later what she REALLY wants is a good spanking and to be fucked in the ass hard!! NEVER make the (boring) assumption that "OK ... this works ALL the time." It doesn't. They're women.
 
Many moons ago I was dating a college girl who was more experienced sexually than I was. I wasn't too sure about this ORAL thingie and from a few dates where they were a little LESS than pristine in their hygiene it worried me that stickin my face down there would turn me right off.

I remember she asked me if there was any chocolate syrup in the house and there was so we dollopped her liberally with that and I went to work. Of course she was super clean and there was no smell at all other than the one coming from one of my main addictions - chocolate. Soon I didn't need or want the chocolate (it was still fun sometimes) and I always likened it to long stretches of just necking ... kissing, nibbling, licking when that's ALL you're doing.

It is particularly important to tease at first and then pay close attention to her reactions. It makes little sense doing something for an extended period of time if it isn't building her up. Some women thrash and heave and moan when O is approaching. Some go DEAD STILL and even stop breathing. DON'T get turned off thinking they aren't enjoying what you're doing or are still an hour from cuming just because they are silent. I love it when you're hitting just the right spot and she grabs your hair or holds your head to make sure you don't move away and do something else. Actually make a note of EXACTLY what you're doing when SHE grabs you like that because it is not only the launch button but a great TEASE point. Do that thang and then move away and do something else for a bit ... the sounds they often make when they know YOU KNOW about that spot and aren't going there ... is priceless.

Also know that over the course of a month she's gonna be going through MOOODS - one night she doesn't want anything but a VERY gentle tongue lashing and two afternoons later what she REALLY wants is a good spanking and to be fucked in the ass hard!! NEVER make the (boring) assumption that "OK ... this works ALL the time." It doesn't. They're women.

SO VERY well said! :) Wonderful. :rose:
 
Hello Men or Women,

How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?

Definitely ok. me I just love giving. If you want to give a subtle hint, just don't wear panties, slowly raise your skirt and offer "dessert"
 
For me, I tend to think that good oral is even more intimate than fucking. Oral gives you that close up look from inches away, look right up inside a woman. Smell her, taste her, feel her wetness on your lips and face, hear her moan and scream. It's much more up close and personal than fucking.

I also prefer getting blowjobs than just fucking unless when fucking I can pull out and cum in her mouth. Something very intimate about her tasting and swallowing cum.... digesting the bit of protein in it and literally having you become part of her. I loved having married women swallow me and then think about their husbands kissing their lips or sucking their tits or licking their pussy that may have partly been created from the protein in my cum.

I love giving oral but only to women. I love getting it from women. I really do not have any thoughts or fantasies of doing it with men.
 
I guess the question was "how" do you like giving or getting oral. Any way possible but I enjoy a woman lying on the edge of the bed holding her legs open with me kneeling on the floor in front of her. I also like getting it by sitting on the edge of the bed with her on her knees mouth fucking my dick slow and deep. I like to watch my cock going in and out of her mouth just like I like watching it go in and out of her cunt. I appreciate women who understand how to give a good blowjob as thinking of it as me fucking their mouth. In fact, sometimes I just love standing, grabbing her head, and fucking her mouth as she kneels submissively. Then again, there are other times when I like to lie on my back and have her squat on my face. All good.
 
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1) Yes. The only aversion I have is to pain.
2) Yes. You do you. If there is something you want, ask for it. They can't read your mind.
 
Is it OK to ask?

Absolutely. In fact, it's a necessity. It doesn't work well unless you're both on the same page, and the easiest way to tell is to ask "May I do this to you?" or "Please do this to me."
 
Hello Men or Women,

How do you enjoy giving oral sex? Is it ok to ask for?

I love both giving and receiving oral. Receiving is wonderful, however nothing can compare with hearing the moans coming from a woman as she orgasms from my tongue in her most intimates of intimates.
 
Is it OK to ask?

Absolutely. In fact, it's a necessity. It doesn't work well unless you're both on the same page, and the easiest way to tell is to ask "May I do this to you?" or "Please do this to me."

This.
 
I like if both of our sex drives are high.

I enjoy giving oral to a woman. The first time is the most difficult since everyone's likes are different. Eventually we work it out which is the best.

I also enjoy receiving and eventually it is a must.
 
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I really enjoy oral sex with my husband (giving and receiving). In a relationship, one really needs to find out the partner’s take on this subject. I think asking questions and discussing it is healthy.
A guy shouldn’t just shove a woman’s head down on their cock, expecting a bj...
I guess, not until he finds out if she likes it like that! ;) hehe
 
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