Male Sharing Dominatrix Fetish

I have had relationships and none of them have ever been comfortable with bdsm. They always ask what my fetish is and when I tell them it just seems weird to them. I want a woman to dominate me wearing long black silk or satin gloves in a sexy outfit. Preferably with stockings and a garter belt. I want someone to explain to me why it turns them on to make me their sub.
I don't see stories with a woman saying why they like being a Dominatrix. Hearing how a woman enjoys seeing me be there sub would make me more comfortable after past experiences.
PM with suggestions or questions.