The UK Kink Thread

subtleone said:

I think there is definitely an emotional side to it (personally speaking).
I am quite a forthright, supposedly successful, intelligent person whose opinion is held fairly highly in regard to my career. I find it quite a release to be completely submissive and have my opinion sometimes disregarded.
However I did not 'go into' it for this reason and to answer DT's question at the same time; I have been with my Master in a deep meaningful (vannilla-ish) relationship for 17 years. We have played at BDSM in the bedroom but no more than that. I know that my feelings for him run very, very deep and a short while ago I asked him to move our relationship on to a D/s one. So as you see I am green at this so I cannot really speak for all female subs, however I do not think I would have ever entered into a D/s relationship if I did not have such feeling for my husband...for me it is the ultimate gift that I can give him to show my love for him - me; my mind body and soul.
I don't know if that really helps you, as obviously there is a lot of time invested in our relationship but if many women think along the same lines as me it would certainly account for the lack of female subs on the scene.

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FluteMaster said:

I have to say, too, that this is what frustrates me about so many "wanabe" Doms. They think it's all about using the right words or projecting the right image. Essentially, however, it's all about being the right person for that submissive, and that person needs to exhibit humour, confidence, understanding and a degree of self mastery for that to happen.

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Dragonteeth said:

And so say all of us...

For all the good it does me...

LOL.

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FluteMaster said:

Hi Minx1, welcome to the thread. we promise to be gentle, until you decide that this is a soft limit that you want stretching

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minx1 said:

stretching eh? see I knew it wouldn't take long for the conversation to deteriorate

Of course FM, it also depends greatly on the abilitiesof the person doing the stretching

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mickyp123 said:

more like pushing the envelope, make sure you use a safeword

like


Supercalifradgilisticletmebeattrocious

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subtleone said:

Hi Minx nice to 'meet' you.
Night Micky, thanks for the nice comment and roses

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minx1 said:

Hi Subtleone, good to meet you too

Its my first time on this thread I'm usually on the London and UK one.

Looks like I missed an interesting discussion. Hows you?

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minx1 said:

stretching eh? see I knew it wouldn't take long for the conversation to deteriorate

Of course FM, it also depends greatly on the abilitiesof the person doing the stretching

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mickyp123 said:

Off to make tracks for home, have a nice evening everyone

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FluteMaster said:

Nite Micky - maybe see you later?

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Dragonteeth said:

Well I think I found one that I'm happy with now.

what do you think?

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mickyp123 said:

Honest? i preferred the other one, the one with the flame

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Dragonteeth said:

There's a flame in this one too and the cake is more obvious.

Also the other one has copyright on it that might make things tricky.

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FluteMaster said:

And what sort of abilities would you be looking in a Master exactly, speaking as a sub.

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subtleone said:

...is it your birthday??

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Dragonteeth said:

Well I think I found one that I'm happy with now.

what do you think?

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minx1 said:

someone with a touch of restraint

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minx1 said:

someone with a touch of restraint

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Dragonteeth said:

Not yet subtle...

The ticker tape thing tells me I have 5 days to go.

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subtleone said:

Aha! Still time to bake then

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FluteMaster said:

Please, don't tempt me,

I can restrain with a touch, or have retraints on hand, which would you prefer?

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