Strap-on experiences

My girlfriend has said she really wants to peg me in the ass, but I'm a little bit nervous about it. Any suggestions?
 
My girlfriend has said she really wants to peg me in the ass, but I'm a little bit nervous about it. Any suggestions?

Has she ever pegged anyone else in the ass?

Lube, lots of it, preferably silicon based. Reapply often. The sphincter will act like a squeegee.

Start small, no need to be a superhero.

You should also prepare for it. Empty your bowel and maybe even a little cleanse...

Believe it or not, lots of guys would love to have a willing girlfriend, you are a lucky man. :)
 
My girlfriend has said she really wants to peg me in the ass, but I'm a little bit nervous about it. Any suggestions?

Above all, just relax both mentally and physically. It's cool, no need for the nerves. You'll both feel closer to each other afterwards as it's an act that requires communication and trust.

Personally, I feel very relaxed and at peace afterwards. In some ways it is quite a humbling experience, but in a good way. But if you're not relaxed about it, it'll be a challenge physically and will find it difficult to get the mental benefits. So chat with your gf about it, have a laugh to release any tensions and then go have fun.

Good luck.
 
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Above all, just relax both mentally and physically. It's cool, no need for the nerves. You'll both feel closer to each other afterwards as it's an act that requires communication and trust.

Personally, I feel very relaxed and at peace afterwards. In some ways it is quite a humbling experience, but in a good way. But if you're not relaxed about it, it'll be a challenge physically and will find it difficult to get the mental benefits. So chat with your gf about it, have a laugh to release any tensions and then go have fun.

Good luck.

HxB

This sounds so incredibly delicious. Would she mind doing me?
Looking forward to the mental benefits. ;)
 
I found a domina who loved pegging. We met for lunch a couple of times, got to know each other, then went shopping for toys and a strap-on for her to use exclusively on me.

We planned a night a few weeks later, got a hotel room. We had it all planned out, she was going to collar me, then make me her submissive bitch. We had lunch a few more times, and then I noticed...

She was getting emotionally involved. I brought it up, wanted to nip it quickly, and thought I did. Come the day before, she called me, crying, talking about our "relationship" and how she didn't want to get any deeper.

I was profoundly disappointed, of course. I had to cut the cord right then, she clearly wasn't in control of her emotions, but damn.. one day away from crossing such a huge fantasy off my bucket list, and poof. gone.

Still to this day (3 years later) I haven't found another woman interested in pegging. But on the upside, I've crossed a dozen or so other fantasies off my list :)
 
Wow. Than you for your responses. All very helpful. And my girlfriend got sooo hot reading your suggestions. And no. She hasn’t pegged anyone else, but she is really starting to embrace her dominant desires.
 
Wow. Than you for your responses. All very helpful. And my girlfriend got sooo hot reading your suggestions. And no. She hasn’t pegged anyone else, but she is really starting to embrace her dominant desires.

Let us know how it worked out.
 
Yes

I always see the post about using a strap on on a man, but do any of you make him submit to it by having him suck it also?

My wife loves when I suck hers before she fucks me with it. She holds back when I am sucking it but one day I hope she just lets loose and fucks my face the way she wants until she cums, it shouldn't be to hard as she cums so hard, quick and often when she is fucking me with it.
 
Love it:

Wife and I discovered the joys of anal play when we were dating. She was very surprised when I lubed up and eased balls deep in her ass. She went nuts, grabbed her vibe and got it from both sides. Loved it!

Shortly after, we bought a rather large strap on. She told me that if she could take it, then I would too. We both got into role reversal, and she strapped on, assumed a dom role. She made me suck it and I loved the sub role, really going to town and gave her a "BJ" with a lot of passion. We were both really into the scene and loved it.

Then, she got me face down, ass up on the bed, presenting my ass to her. She told me exactly what she was going to do to me. I was rock hard, anticipating the feeling of getting fucked.


She slowly stretched me with her fingers and lots of lube, telling me she was going to fuck me with her big cock. I was dripping at this point. She then did exactly just that. She really fucked me silly. I came as hard as I ever have, never touching my cock.

This awesome experience is now an important part of our sexual routine. She wants to have a guy assume the role of the strap on! Can't wait!
 
Wife and I discovered the joys of anal play when we were dating. She was very surprised when I lubed up and eased balls deep in her ass. She went nuts, grabbed her vibe and got it from both sides. Loved it!

Shortly after, we bought a rather large strap on. She told me that if she could take it, then I would too. We both got into role reversal, and she strapped on, assumed a dom role. She made me suck it and I loved the sub role, really going to town and gave her a "BJ" with a lot of passion. We were both really into the scene and loved it.

Then, she got me face down, ass up on the bed, presenting my ass to her. She told me exactly what she was going to do to me. I was rock hard, anticipating the feeling of getting fucked.


She slowly stretched me with her fingers and lots of lube, telling me she was going to fuck me with her big cock. I was dripping at this point. She then did exactly just that. She really fucked me silly. I came as hard as I ever have, never touching my cock.

This awesome experience is now an important part of our sexual routine. She wants to have a guy assume the role of the strap on! Can't wait!


That is so incredibly hot. I find it great that you both enjoy it and have no hang ups about it. Cheers.
 
As a male, I have been on the receiving end of a strapon. My fantasy is being totally dominated by a girl and her toy(s). My favorite time was when I was dressed in her lingerie, bent over a table with my ankles tied to the legs, and my arms stretched out front and tied to the other legs. I got spanked and screwed. She alternated toys, using a strapon and various dildos. Eventually, I was hog tied on my back, and she stroked me until i came, and she aimed me so I would cum on my ass and her strapon. She continued going using my own cum as lube until she had her fill. We took a break and went for round 2.

10 for 10, would do it again if I could find a woman who wanted to.
 
Due to the interests of someone I've been playing with, there's been quite a bit more of this in my life lately than in the past. Practice does definitely improve the experience from both sides, I think. So far there hasn't really been a BDSM aspect to it, it's just been a fun alternative activity, though I suspect soon it may take on a D/s dimension too.

This was a new thing to discover, but does anyone else find giving oral to a strapon/feeldoe wearer kind of hot?
 
pegging

Id love my wife to use a strap on with me. shes used her little rubber dildo, and they are getting bigger,but the control, i think, would be better from her, using her body and not her hands. I do worry about the messy side of the dildo or strap on up my arse, any tips on how to improve that im all ears or PM me :)
 
Due to the interests of someone I've been playing with, there's been quite a bit more of this in my life lately than in the past. Practice does definitely improve the experience from both sides, I think. So far there hasn't really been a BDSM aspect to it, it's just been a fun alternative activity, though I suspect soon it may take on a D/s dimension too.

This was a new thing to discover, but does anyone else find giving oral to a strapon/feeldoe wearer kind of hot?

Yes, but the real thing is better.

Nonetheless, you're a fortunate guy.
 
Have never used a strap-on on anyone but had one used on me several times while restrained at a Dungeon Party a few years ago x The guy who used it on me was already very well endowed but used three hollow dildo a ttachments, all huge, one Equine and the other two totally bizarre, one spiral/ribbed and the othe rwith large bobbles on it. Had to scream my 'safe word' during one as was just too long and painful x x x
 
Have never used a strap-on on anyone but had one used on me several times while restrained at a Dungeon Party a few years ago x The guy who used it on me was already very well endowed but used three hollow dildo a ttachments, all huge, one Equine and the other two totally bizarre, one spiral/ribbed and the othe rwith large bobbles on it. Had to scream my 'safe word' during one as was just too long and painful x x x

Your experience reminds me of story of an older man and a younger woman. The woman was about 30 and her man was in his 60s. She posted on a site like this one about 6 years ago saying they had a great sexual relationship with plenty of kinky fun. One thing they did regularly which was mainly for her, was he donned a hollow strapon and fucked her. She enjoyed it very much and got great orgasms from the strapon. He had problems in the past keeping an erection long enough until she had her orgasm, so he suggested the strapon and they did it ever since.

When they used the strapon, she would cum several times and then after a brief rest she would have him take off the strapon and she would focus on him.

I see it as something very considerate and caring he did for her while still having fun and kink in the bedroom.

ES
 
Your experience reminds me of story of an older man and a younger woman. The woman was about 30 and her man was in his 60s. She posted on a site like this one about 6 years ago saying they had a great sexual relationship with plenty of kinky fun. One thing they did regularly which was mainly for her, was he donned a hollow strapon and fucked her. She enjoyed it very much and got great orgasms from the strapon. He had problems in the past keeping an erection long enough until she had her orgasm, so he suggested the strapon and they did it ever since.

When they used the strapon, she would cum several times and then after a brief rest she would have him take off the strapon and she would focus on him.

I see it as something very considerate and caring he did for her while still having fun and kink in the bedroom.

ES

That works for us as well. Viagra is a great help in maintaining an erection but the side effects are a pain in the ass and I don't always want to deal with them. As an alternative, I use a large strapon (not hollow, just rig it above my dick) in our harness to pound Mrs. She eats it up too, cumming multiple times. Sometimes that's all I need is to satisfy her, other times she'll help me get hard and then talk dirty to me and bite my nipples or go down on my taint while I jerk off. The strapon used on her gives us the chance to get her off when we don't want to wait for and then deal with aftereffects of Viagra.
 
Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman? :)

Yes! I have used strap ons!
Yes! I had 'em used on me!
It felt great, both giving and receiving!
Yes, I do it pretty damned regularly! and
Yes, when I'm on the receiving end, it's my female lover that gives it to me!

I'll add that at 60-something, I'm still enjoying sex with my first girlfriend, AND with her husband AND with my SO. We've managed to get together as couples 5-6 times a year for the last couple of years.

The guys were bashful about anal play when we first got started, but have come to like it, giving and receiving. Sometime after the first year of delightful orgies, they even started to play with each other. The hottest my guy has ever been was the first time he was part of my DP and getting it in the ass himself from my girlfriend.

Can't say this is part BDSM play, though. We just fucking like it!
 
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It is the absolute best feeling to be pounded and orgasm without touching myself!!!😍
 
For those times when you want to surrender to a woman who wants to take you in way you’ve never known! The two times it happened to me were great. Once I came a huge load and it felt okay. Another time I had some sort of internal orgasm! No cum but it was fantastic! My whole body was tingling!
 
I'm bi and pregnant with twins. Getting harder to be fucked so like to use strap on with my gf and by if we're lucky have 2 and play with them on the same day. One of them milking me whilst I fuck the other.
 
I'm bi and pregnant with twins. Getting harder to be fucked so like to use strap on with my gf and by if we're lucky have 2 and play with them on the same day. One of them milking me whilst I fuck the other.

Do you use a feeldoe? More traditional strap on with a harness?

I've been curious about having a woman use one on me.
 
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