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Ladyrookie123

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Here's the run down as my name says I'm a rookie when it comes to ladies, so right off the bat that means virgin. Worse part is I'm 30 and still a virgin due to my repressing my sexual desires for years and never having an interest in releasing that side of myself, so my only way of getting release is through masturbation.

Now when first started masturbating 3 years ago(Which finally ignited my burning desire to have sex) it was actually quite an interesting experience and I'll never forget the feeling I had when I came for the first time, however I've never been able to recapture that feeling at all and in my pursuit to recapture it I also had to learn my body and training my endurance to knowing when I'm about to cum.

However this ended up making things get out of hand and I used to masturbate a total of 7 times a day, every single day for a whole year and every single time I finish I just feel very depressed and angry that it wasn't sex and I end up feeling even more thirsty to have sex each time. Now currently I'm merely doing 3 - 4 times a day while bouncing back and forth between taking a day off in between and trying to stop for a week(only to fail every time) but my strong urge is still there.

So If I'm going to be stuck with this STRONG annoyance, I would like some advice to AT LEAST make this habit useful or pleasurable until I'm finally able to experience the better alternative to this habit which is sex, but I have no idea what I can do to make it worthwhile or any other ways I can somehow use this to my advantage.

Also I would like advice on increasing my chances of shooting when I cum instead of oozing out because I've found out that when I do shoot instead of ooze I don't feel any depression or anger, but my urge to bang is still there.
 
I'm not a man so I don't really know what you could do to enhance masturbation beyond experimenting with toys and different sensations.

I noticed your posts have all revolved around your virginity and your need to experience sex. In your personal ad you mentioned women find male virgins creepy. They typically don't from what I've seen. It's men that focus on it to the point that they mention it often and seem obsessed with virginity that is actually creepy and off putting. Your masturbation frequency and the feeling of depression seems a little concerning, IMO. As a genuine piece of advice I suggest finding a professional to talk to about this. A therapist could give you advice towards helping you and give you tools to better yourself and move past the sexual repression that seems to be limiting you.

Focusing on building a relationship instead of focusing on having sex is also genuine advice. Getting to know someone and building trust with them could eventually lead to sex and in my own experience the best sex I've had has always been with someone I knew well and trusted because we took the time to learn each other's needs and wants.

Also, sex is not the better alternative to masturbation. They're both great in different ways and hopefully you will explore and have fun while doing it. :)
 
Everything that MeekMe said.

Turn off the computer, get out of the house. Meet people - be genuinely interested in others. Develop social skills.

If you are able bodied, more than hand on dick, do volunteer work - bring purpose to your life, contribute to society.

I think your question should have been "How do I make life more fulfilling?"

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, but any obsession that dominates life and impacts negatively on social interaction is probably a good indicator that you should seek advice from a trained counsellor if you truly want change.

If however your postings here are for attention seeking, well I suppose you are actually content.
 
NightL said:
Everything that MeekMe said.

Turn off the computer, get out of the house. Meet people - be genuinely interested in others. Develop social skills.

If you are able bodied, more than hand on dick, do volunteer work - bring purpose to your life, contribute to society.

I think your question should have been "How do I make life more fulfilling?"

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, but any obsession that dominates life and impacts negatively on social interaction is probably a good indicator that you should seek advice from a trained counsellor if you truly want change.

If however your postings here are for attention seeking, well I suppose you are actually content.
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Meeting people and being social doesn't come as naturally to me due to my being socially awkward without friends. I do agree this is the better approach here but with my mind being strictly on getting laid this could be a problem.

I contribute to society just fine with the job I have and I don't really need anything else to distract me from my desires.

I've spoken to a counselor about this in the past and her suggestions was to basically distract myself from my urges as much as I can, and while that did help for a little bit eventually my desires still rose above that. I don't personally believe masturbation is bad I just personally don't like feeling angry and depressed from the act and don't like how it just makes me want sex more and more.
 
MeekMe said:
I'm not a man so I don't really know what you could do to enhance masturbation beyond experimenting with toys and different sensations.

I noticed your posts have all revolved around your virginity and your need to experience sex. In your personal ad you mentioned women find male virgins creepy. They typically don't from what I've seen. It's men that focus on it to the point that they mention it often and seem obsessed with virginity that is actually creepy and off putting. Your masturbation frequency and the feeling of depression seems a little concerning, IMO. As a genuine piece of advice I suggest finding a professional to talk to about this. A therapist could give you advice towards helping you and give you tools to better yourself and move past the sexual repression that seems to be limiting you.

Focusing on building a relationship instead of focusing on having sex is also genuine advice. Getting to know someone and building trust with them could eventually lead to sex and in my own experience the best sex I've had has always been with someone I knew well and trusted because we took the time to learn each other's needs and wants.

Also, sex is not the better alternative to masturbation. They're both great in different ways and hopefully you will explore and have fun while doing it. :)
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The feeling of depression just comes from my bland oozing orgasms and my desires to want to get laid instead of jerking off with my hand.

Totally agree having sex with someone I trust and like would be the BEST outcome for me, but at my age I lack the hope of meeting someone like that within a reasonable amount of time, that and I have no idea how to make friends with girls on my own(Hence my name ladyrookie).

And yeah plenty of guys has told me sex is definitely a hell of a lot better than masturbation. Perhaps it really is just different for girls.
 
Ladyrookie123 said:
Meeting people and being social doesn't come as naturally to me due to my being socially awkward without friends. I do agree this is the better approach here but with my mind being strictly on getting laid this could be a problem.

I contribute to society just fine with the job I have and I don't really need anything else to distract me from my desires.

I've spoken to a counselor about this in the past and her suggestions was to basically distract myself from my urges as much as I can, and while that did help for a little bit eventually my desires still rose above that. I don't personally believe masturbation is bad I just personally don't like feeling angry and depressed from the act and don't like how it just makes me want sex more and more.
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Basically you are saying you have no desire to perhaps one day find a partner despite being fixated "on getting laid". "Here's the run down" was just a sympathy plea which amounted to nothing except "I like masturbating and I want to tell everyone".

Hire a prostitute. Oh, and treat them with dignity - I'm sure their job is a little tough from time to time.

I'll try with one more gem - to affect change you have to be willing to accept change.

I doubt your masturbation technique or failing to shoot like a porn actor is the basis to your anger and depression - but you know that already.
 
NightL said:
Basically you are saying you have no desire to perhaps one day find a partner despite being fixated "on getting laid". "Here's the run down" was just a sympathy plea which amounted to nothing except "I like masturbating and I want to tell everyone".

Hire a prostitute. Oh, and treat them with dignity - I'm sure their job is a little tough from time to time.

I'll try with one more gem - to affect change you have to be willing to accept change.

I doubt your masturbation technique or failing to shoot like a porn actor is the basis to your anger and depression - but you know that already.
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I'd be okay with finding a partner, but right now my concerns are simply getting laid and I don't want to have to lead someone on to get it when currently I just want casual sex.

Let me be clear: I HATE MASTURBATING because of the usual feelings I get after I'm finished and I'm unable to resist my urges for too long anyway, hence why I made this topic to figure out a way to combat that issue UNTIL I do get laid.

I'd be fully willing to hire a hooker if I wasn't a virgin, thing is right now as things stand I don't want to lose my virginity to a prostitute period so that's not an option.

Please don't turn this into a unneeded lecture, I would just like tips on how to fix my problem right now.
 
You don't need to mention your virginity to your woman at all.
If you blow your first load too soon, you can just tell her that you were too excited because how badly she turns you on, and give her some oral sex while you recharge.

If the topic arrises, just be honest, it won't be creepy. It's even OK to tell her that she's your first serious date. She would be surprised, but she won't be turned off. In fact, this may count as some points for honesty and courage to admit it.

Lies is very hard to pull off. It's better to tell her the truth and fly with it, than to start inventing girlfriends and other sexual affairs. She doesn't want to hear that anyway.

And some women will even find it exciting that you are a virgin or inexperienced. It's the same for men too - we are not that different in that respect. It's not like women dream about someone with ages of sexual experience - what's important is your desire to learn and perfect.

Anyway, just keep this topic to the minimum, just to be polite and honest while answering her questions. Don't bring this up yourself and don't lie.
 
Ladyrookie123 said:
I just want casual sex.


Please don't turn this into a unneeded lecture, I would just like tips on how to fix my problem right now.
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but you will keep putting up barriers to every suggestion - won't you

What exactly is your problem? "I just want casual sex" or you want to shoot big cum loads like they do in porn movies - will this make you feel more virile? Do you believe this will help in "I just want casual sex"? You do realise those cum shots you see in the videos are likely to be "alternative facts" cum shots. Pretend.

You will not be judged by a shoot or a dribble - some men do and some men don't - it has absolutely nothing to do with attraction or satisfying a lover.

The whole "I feel better" after a good shoot and I feel angry and depressed is purely psychological, so the "tips" you are seeking is not going to come via a pill or clothes peg on your nipple.

So if all your frustrations are really coming from "I just want casual sex" then you are indeed going to have improve on your social skills. "but with my mind being strictly on getting laid this could be a problem" is a total cop-out. It is you putting up barriers.

Sure social interactions may not come easily to you but I am sure with correct professional advice and a willingness to at least try you could improve. Obviously you are well used to hunting down things on the internet - try hunting down social and interest groups you may join in your area or volunteer work. Don't concentrate on getting a fuck - just try your best to be a good guy. A compassionate caring person who can listen as much or if not more than talking just of yourself and your problems.

Be nice to everyone - be polite - offer a hello - ask how their day is going - ask another question after you get a reply. Be genuinely interested. Smile. The more you do it the easier it will become.

You are not going to get a pity fuck - so you have to get over that nonsense.

Find a counsellor who will help you with social interaction/skills and just lay off the sex fixation - you need assistance on how to socialise - get that sorted and the sex just may appear when you least expect.

Start pulling down the barriers - of course it will take work and may take a while - but if you don't start then you are just not going to experience sex unless you pay for it.
 
Oh - and if you are fortunate to find a partner - stop with the focusing on what you will gain from the experience and put your energies into what you can give to the situation - what you can offer a partner.

"But I am a virgin with no experience" can easily be overcome by your willingness to be honest, ask questions of your partner and above all else listening to them and following through on their guidance.

For goodness sake don't - just DON'T approach a woman with all your porn star moves. Asking for guidance and genuinely listening to a partner will far more likely get you a repeat session. Being a little bit clumsy is OK if you are honest up front - it will only get better.
 
To get a big cumshot, here's what's can be done:

1) PC Muscle training enhances the shooting power of your cum
2) Proper physical shape, blood pressure, overall health
3) Before the filming they make sure to drink enough and eat certain foods that increase teh volume of ejaculate
4) Prostate massage increases the volume
5) Staying horny for longer increases volume (and filming often takes several hours with no orgasm).
6) maybe some other tricks, IDK

All in all, only 1 and 2 you can ensure on a day-to-day basis. The rest are situational. They do this for porn, but you can't do this in your life.

Porn is porn, there's a lot of tricks. And guys are also handpicked among hundreds of applicants. So it's a lot of work and a lot of chance involved.
 
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NightL said:
but you will keep putting up barriers to every suggestion - won't you

What exactly is your problem? "I just want casual sex" or you want to shoot big cum loads like they do in porn movies - will this make you feel more virile? Do you believe this will help in "I just want casual sex"? You do realise those cum shots you see in the videos are likely to be "alternative facts" cum shots. Pretend.

You will not be judged by a shoot or a dribble - some men do and some men don't - it has absolutely nothing to do with attraction or satisfying a lover.

The whole "I feel better" after a good shoot and I feel angry and depressed is purely psychological, so the "tips" you are seeking is not going to come via a pill or clothes peg on your nipple.

So if all your frustrations are really coming from "I just want casual sex" then you are indeed going to have improve on your social skills. "but with my mind being strictly on getting laid this could be a problem" is a total cop-out. It is you putting up barriers.

Sure social interactions may not come easily to you but I am sure with correct professional advice and a willingness to at least try you could improve. Obviously you are well used to hunting down things on the internet - try hunting down social and interest groups you may join in your area or volunteer work. Don't concentrate on getting a fuck - just try your best to be a good guy. A compassionate caring person who can listen as much or if not more than talking just of yourself and your problems.

Be nice to everyone - be polite - offer a hello - ask how their day is going - ask another question after you get a reply. Be genuinely interested. Smile. The more you do it the easier it will become.

You are not going to get a pity fuck - so you have to get over that nonsense.

Find a counsellor who will help you with social interaction/skills and just lay off the sex fixation - you need assistance on how to socialise - get that sorted and the sex just may appear when you least expect.

Start pulling down the barriers - of course it will take work and may take a while - but if you don't start then you are just not going to experience sex unless you pay for it.
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1. When I'm masturbating at least I want to be able to shoot, it doesn't have to big loads of cum, I'd just rather shoot than ooze out because that way at least I don't feel as frustrated or depressed. I'm not stupid I'm aware that the"money shots" in porn are a false representation of what it looks like for real.

2. Whether I shoot or ooze during sex makes no difference to me as long as it feels better than when I masturbate. The only time it'll be a concern for me is if my partners would prefer I'd be able to shoot and that's it.

3. It's not a matter of whether I feel better or not after a shoot it's the fact that when I shoot while I still get the urge to bang I don't feel frustrated or depressed afterwards and that's what I'm looking to address. I'm also still REALLY new at masturbating so if there actually are any tips to make this good I wouldn't know hence why I'm asking.

4. Again I am 30 so I'm not exactly at a stage where I am able to just comfortably relax and be SUPER patient when it comes to these urges of mine. Instead of trying to distract myself from the urge I'd rather the urges properly be taken care of and that's all the suggestions my therapist would give me.

5. Oh if I'm able to meet someone interesting and nice I'm more than capable of and willing to being friendly,polite and nice and interested in them....provided I don't have any sexual attraction towards them anyway...

6. A pity fuck is just that, only doing it out of pity and not because they genuinely want to do it so no I do not want a pity fuck either.
 
NightL said:
Oh - and if you are fortunate to find a partner - stop with the focusing on what you will gain from the experience and put your energies into what you can give to the situation - what you can offer a partner.

"But I am a virgin with no experience" can easily be overcome by your willingness to be honest, ask questions of your partner and above all else listening to them and following through on their guidance.

For goodness sake don't - just DON'T approach a woman with all your porn star moves. Asking for guidance and genuinely listening to a partner will far more likely get you a repeat session. Being a little bit clumsy is OK if you are honest up front - it will only get better.
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Sexually I have NOTHING to offer a partner since I have no prior experience so that's out.

I still need to find a willing partner that's willing to help give me experience. Giving my partners pleasure would be great but first I have to get some experience first and that's my challenge.

Lastly there's no "porn star"ideas in my head....Again I may be a virgin but I am NOT that naive with this subject to the point that I have delusions about being super awesome in bed or anything.
 
Nezhul said:
To get a big cumshot, here's what's can be done:

1) PC Muscle training enhances the shooting power of your cum
2) Proper physical shape, blood pressure, overall health
3) Before the filming they make sure to drink enough and eat certain foods that increase teh volume of ejaculate
4) Prostate massage increases the volume
5) Staying horny for longer increases volume (and filming often takes several hours with no orgasm).
6) maybe some other tricks, IDK

All in all, only 1 and 2 you can ensure on a day-to-day basis. The rest are situational. They do this for porn, but you can't do this in your life.

Porn is porn, there's a lot of tricks. And guys are also handpicked among hundreds of applicants. So it's a lot of work and a lot of chance involved.
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Okay now this is more like it....Sorta...

Let me be clear again while it would be nice to know I'm not asking for how to shoot like a porn star, just for how to shoot in general instead of ooze out.

1.)What kind of exercise is PC muscle training?
2.) So basically a fit healthy body is good too? I have been going to the gym for a couple of months now.
3.)What kind of drinks and what kind of certain foods?
4.)......Do I wanna know what you mean by prostate massage?
5.) Well I originally thought this part determines it but there has been times when I've gone a while without it but I still ooze so I'm unsure.
 
1.)What kind of exercise is PC muscle training?
2.) So basically a fit healthy body is good too? I have been going to the gym for a couple of months now.
3.)What kind of drinks and what kind of certain foods?
4.)......Do I wanna know what you mean by prostate massage?
5.) Well I originally thought this part determines it but there has been times when I've gone a while without it but I still ooze so I'm unsure.
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1.)Google
2.)yes
3.)Google
4.)..... I dunno. Google?
5.) Only how long during the session matters. Your body starts producing cum when you get hard, basically. The longer time passes between you getting horny and you cumming, the hornier you get - the better. Foreplay is great for shooting a good big load of cum in the end.
 
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Ladyrookie123 said:
The feeling of depression just comes from my bland oozing orgasms and my desires to want to get laid instead of jerking off with my hand.

Totally agree having sex with someone I trust and like would be the BEST outcome for me, but at my age I lack the hope of meeting someone like that within a reasonable amount of time, that and I have no idea how to make friends with girls on my own(Hence my name ladyrookie).

And yeah plenty of guys has told me sex is definitely a hell of a lot better than masturbation. Perhaps it really is just different for girls.
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Based on what you've written in this thread, it seems like you don't actually want to work on yourself. You want a woman to get experience and you want that because you think you don't have anything to offer. Which is silly and sounds like you want to treat a woman like a prostitute but you don't want to actually pay her (AKA have anything to offer her). We all started with no experience and fumbled around, that's how gaining experience as opposed to losing virginity works.

When you say you just want to fuck a woman to get experience it shows exactly why you have trouble meeting women. Treat women like people and not just a means for getting laid and you might have more success.

Good luck learning to shoot your load like a porn star. Try not to shoot yourself in the eye while you gain some experience.
 
Nezhul said:
Lies is very hard to pull off. It's better to tell her the truth and fly with it, than to start inventing girlfriends and other sexual affairs. She doesn't want to hear that anyway.

And some women will even find it exciting that you are a virgin or inexperienced. It's the same for men too - we are not that different in that respect. It's not like women dream about someone with ages of sexual experience - what's important is your desire to learn and perfect.
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Two very good points. Don't worry about bringing anything to the table but yourself. Let her decide. All she can say is "No." If she says that, don't take it personally, because it's about her, too. She may have a thousand reasons to say "No" that have nothing to do with you.

And if you're a virgin, she should know that right away. It's not a badge of shame; everybody was a virgin once. If she knows, she can make allowances and guide you where you need to be guided. And, trust me, you will need to be guided.

In the meantime, make masturbation the journey and not the end. Go slow, make it last. Don't go rushing headlong to an orgasm, because that will only be counterproductive when you're actually making love with another person.
 
MeekMe said:
Based on what you've written in this thread, it seems like you don't actually want to work on yourself. You want a woman to get experience and you want that because you think you don't have anything to offer. Which is silly and sounds like you want to treat a woman like a prostitute but you don't want to actually pay her (AKA have anything to offer her). We all started with no experience and fumbled around, that's how gaining experience as opposed to losing virginity works.

When you say you just want to fuck a woman to get experience it shows exactly why you have trouble meeting women. Treat women like people and not just a means for getting laid and you might have more success.

Good luck learning to shoot your load like a porn star. Try not to shoot yourself in the eye while you gain some experience.
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This isn't about "working" on myself. This is about figuring out a way to get my masturbation habit under control until I have sex.

And yeah I'd rather have sex with a girl for my first time who I don't have to directly pay money towards to get it and someone who also does want to have sex with me knowing i'm a virgin but apparently that's a tall request.

Women are people and I do treat them as such, they just so happen to be people who I may or may not want to have sex with that's all. AND THIS IS NORMAL especially if I end up liking some of them naturally I may want to have sex with them.

And again I'M NOT trying to shoot my load like a porn star, I just want to learn how to shoot PERIOD so as to avoid as much oozing as I can
 
Athalia said:
Two very good points. Don't worry about bringing anything to the table but yourself. Let her decide. All she can say is "No." If she says that, don't take it personally, because it's about her, too. She may have a thousand reasons to say "No" that have nothing to do with you.

And if you're a virgin, she should know that right away. It's not a badge of shame; everybody was a virgin once. If she knows, she can make allowances and guide you where you need to be guided. And, trust me, you will need to be guided.

In the meantime, make masturbation the journey and not the end. Go slow, make it last. Don't go rushing headlong to an orgasm, because that will only be counterproductive when you're actually making love with another person.
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I wouldn't take it personally, I'd probably feel hurt but everyone has their preferences and reasons.

Yes absolutely I'd need to be guided, but it seems most girls where I'm from are totally against having sex with a virgin especially casually if it means they won't gain any pleasure out of it due to my lack of experience. But people keep telling me to hide this fact or lie about it..

This journey has been going on for 4 years now, I'd just like to experience the main course now because masturbation is just frustrating now...
 
Ladyrookie123 said:
it seems most girls where I'm from are totally against having sex with a virgin especially casually
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How did you conduct your survey?

Yes - people do have casual sex and strangers hook up for one night stands - but maybe your approach is just not happening for you.

Just aim for friendships - I mean genuine friendships. The person who likes you only as a friend may introduce to someone if they think you are a great guy - so be a great guy.

When people advise to be honest, it is not "Hi, my name is Chris. I am a virgin, wanna fuck?". It is getting to know someone because you like them not just lusting after them. As the friendship develops and maybe after a kiss'n'cuddle or two you own up.

If you really like someone and you feel a connection, don't fuck it up. Don't rush- it may take months before you are at the stage to talk about it. The journey toward love making can be a lot of fun. Develop a strong bond with the person over time and the virgin thing won't be an issue providing you pay attention to how they guide you.

Casual sex can also happen between friends, not just one night stands - so get out there and make some friends.
 
One-night stands are always for pleasure. If you think that many woman ANYWHERE are eager to spread your legs so that you can loose virginity and disappear - you are mistaken.

Girls will not mind your virginity if sex is a part of a relationship. If you are looking to get laid and be gone - your virginity is not an asset in the least.
And how does this topic comes up anyway?

Don't look for casual sex, look for a girlfriend. You are deluding yourself in thinking that you'll find someone who will fuck you just so you can blow your load and be gone. You will forever stay a virgin with that approach.

People have casual sex for what, do you think? Just to have sex? No. They do it for a good experience. With your attitude, no one would be sure they'd get a good experience out of you, so why do you think it's strange that people are not eager to get laid by you? It's not about your area or the women around you - it's casual courtesy.
 
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NightL said:
How did you conduct your survey?

Yes - people do have casual sex and strangers hook up for one night stands - but maybe your approach is just not happening for you.

Just aim for friendships - I mean genuine friendships. The person who likes you only as a friend may introduce to someone if they think you are a great guy - so be a great guy.

When people advise to be honest, it is not "Hi, my name is Chris. I am a virgin, wanna fuck?". It is getting to know someone because you like them not just lusting after them. As the friendship develops and maybe after a kiss'n'cuddle or two you own up.

If you really like someone and you feel a connection, don't fuck it up. Don't rush- it may take months before you are at the stage to talk about it. The journey toward love making can be a lot of fun. Develop a strong bond with the person over time and the virgin thing won't be an issue providing you pay attention to how they guide you.

Casual sex can also happen between friends, not just one night stands - so get out there and make some friends.
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1.Simple I asked the people around me, and their answers were either, "I don't see myself enjoying having sex with someone who doesn't know what they're doing." or "I'm not exactly the teaching time" or "I'd have to really like the virgin to want to sleep with one."

2.I don't have an approach because again I have no idea what approach to take.

3.Hmmm I didn't consider the possibility that making friends with someone could lead to an opportunity to perhaps get close to their friends. Noted.

4. People get close to people also because they may wanna bang too, I see nothing wrong with this but apparently girls don't like this. Now its when you discard the person after you bang or when you've had your fun is something I'm personally against.

5.The journey up to the point of being close enough to bang always did intrigued me and there was a time when I was looking forward to that.

6 & 7. This all sounds like advice you'd give to someone in their twenties. Can all this really apply to someone in their thirties when most people my age are at a stage when they're trying to settle down and pursue a serious relationship while I'm still at the stage of messing around?? Or should I perhaps pursue younger girls?
 
Nezhul said:
One-night stands are always for pleasure. If you think that many woman ANYWHERE are eager to spread your legs so that you can loose virginity and disappear - you are mistaken.

Girls will not mind your virginity if sex is a part of a relationship. If you are looking to get laid and be gone - your virginity is not an asset in the least.
And how does this topic comes up anyway?

Don't look for casual sex, look for a girlfriend. You are deluding yourself in thinking that you'll find someone who will fuck you just so you can blow your load and be gone. You will forever stay a virgin with that approach.

People have casual sex for what, do you think? Just to have sex? No. They do it for a good experience. With your attitude, no one would be sure they'd get a good experience out of you, so why do you think it's strange that people are not eager to get laid by you? It's not about your area or the women around you - it's casual courtesy.
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I honestly don't know how this topic came up I was just looking for masturbation tips....

And that's just it I don't want a girlfriend, I just wanna bang. And I don't have the patience to go through that potential long process of getting a girlfriend just to bang. And if someone wants to stick around for whatever reason I wouldn't turn them down just so long as I like them.

And again if I need to lie or keep my virginity a secret to increase my chances........I will do so if I reach a point where honesty isn't working. I don't think it's strange at all that people would rather have sex with someone experienced, I just don't understand why being a virgin is such a red flag to females when to most guys they're open to female virgins.
 
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