Searching for an online and long-term alphamale partner

I frequent the Literotica Chat but am routinely disappointed with the lack of commitment and follow through of those who say they want to develop a long-term relationship online. I am 31 and currently attached in the real world, but she is unaware of every detail of my interests and desires- as of yet. Online, I have been chatting with a lovely woman for years and she has helped nurture, develop and encourage my sexual interests. This includes men. She and I would like for me to find a strong, kind, intelligent and eloquent alpha man to develop a relationship, and of course grow intimate online. I am very open and feel comfortable to reveal that much of my desires surround ass play, some bondage and dominance. Although this is not all but does cover some highlights and hopefully sparks your interest. There may be some ground rules from her but those are not firm and would ultimately be discussed and decided among us three.

Please message me with any questions or interests.