funmauijolie
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- Aug 9, 2016
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Aloha,
I am in what I think is a unique situation and was wanting to get peoples thoughts or even interact with people in similar situations.
My Husband and I are happily married, with a great sex life. We have experience with swinging as a couple as well as separately. We attended a dungeon party a couple of years ago. We were both very intrigued about everything we learned about. We had occasionally did some role play in the past. Never really took it to the extreme, sometimes it even made us laugh when we played roles (laugh in a fun good way).
Here is the thing. When my husband tries to be dominant it is hot. However, because we know so much about each other, and share so much, we both agree it always falls short. We have tried switching in both directions and still it falls short. In our regular life we show so much honor and respect to each other. We also are the type of couple that laughs together several hours a day. So the role play although ok, is always just role play, and neither of us can get lost in the part we are playing. Has anyone else experienced this.
On another note, we have agreed on me seeking out a Dom so that I can experience my submissive side in a situation where I will truly be a sub. I have found a Dom that this is working with. My husband is totally OK with this. We dont have jealousy and this has actually made the two of us even more sexual then we were before. My Dom also know that husband is my partner and the love of my life and he has a good way of respecting this without acting like a pushover. My husband is also terrific in the sense, that he understands that if my Dom needs my services, I will need to be there. If my Dom tells me I need to refrain from Sex, then I will need to do so. Whatever it may be, my husband finds a way to let me know that he is OK with it and happy I am getting this need fulfilled. My husband has always been into the 'Hotwife' lifestyle so this actually fulfills that desire in him. He has never been into humiliation cuckold, and my Dom is not one to act that way.
Any thoughts, any comments positive or negative.
Just want some feedback on this.
Warmest Aloha Jolie
I am in what I think is a unique situation and was wanting to get peoples thoughts or even interact with people in similar situations.
My Husband and I are happily married, with a great sex life. We have experience with swinging as a couple as well as separately. We attended a dungeon party a couple of years ago. We were both very intrigued about everything we learned about. We had occasionally did some role play in the past. Never really took it to the extreme, sometimes it even made us laugh when we played roles (laugh in a fun good way).
Here is the thing. When my husband tries to be dominant it is hot. However, because we know so much about each other, and share so much, we both agree it always falls short. We have tried switching in both directions and still it falls short. In our regular life we show so much honor and respect to each other. We also are the type of couple that laughs together several hours a day. So the role play although ok, is always just role play, and neither of us can get lost in the part we are playing. Has anyone else experienced this.
On another note, we have agreed on me seeking out a Dom so that I can experience my submissive side in a situation where I will truly be a sub. I have found a Dom that this is working with. My husband is totally OK with this. We dont have jealousy and this has actually made the two of us even more sexual then we were before. My Dom also know that husband is my partner and the love of my life and he has a good way of respecting this without acting like a pushover. My husband is also terrific in the sense, that he understands that if my Dom needs my services, I will need to be there. If my Dom tells me I need to refrain from Sex, then I will need to do so. Whatever it may be, my husband finds a way to let me know that he is OK with it and happy I am getting this need fulfilled. My husband has always been into the 'Hotwife' lifestyle so this actually fulfills that desire in him. He has never been into humiliation cuckold, and my Dom is not one to act that way.
Any thoughts, any comments positive or negative.
Just want some feedback on this.
Warmest Aloha Jolie