Collar_N_Cuffs
Clink Kink
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Since the title of this thread has my name in it, I feel obligated to post. But, all I can add to the discussion is common sense.
The best thing to do is use more than you think you need until the time comes when you both decide when enough is enough. Yes, I said both. This isn't a dom decision. The submissive has an equal vote because they know first hand what it feels like.
No need to feel obligated, but happy for your input It seems that common sense is always in short supply...
And I love your views on the rights of subs, THANK YOU, SIR!!! I wish more people had this view. I hate to see the evidence of poorly treated, poorly regarded subs...
Not enough lube usually results in too much friction which can cause abrasions or scratches inside the anal canal. That inner wall of tissue is very sensitive and any scratch or abrasion can end up taking a long and painful time to heal. And with the type of bacteria that frequents that area, healing can also be difficult.
This is exactly the kind of thing I want to avoid...
Take care of your toys. This is a favorite toy of mine. It's stupid to assume one's anus doesn't need to be cared for, just like any other bodily orifice...or toy. The anal sphincter is a muscle and it can be kept healthy. The tissue inside the anal canal is very tender and easily damaged. I listen to my partner. If she says she doesn't want any anal, I have to respect that. She knows her body.
I would also add here to take care of your vibrating toys, too There is toy cleaner on the market, a spray cleaner for just this purpose. Bacterial bugs can be mean critters...
In another thread I made the comment that I had recently experienced a 60 year old's tight anus and somebody seemed to think that was unlikely. But, it's true. Maybe I'm lucky, but once someone is in their 60s, it isn't the end of sex. Everybody take care of your body and you'll be having kinky sex in your 60s, too.
*Raises hand* That was me! I didn't think it unlikely, but could not resist the obvious joke. And that is exactly what got my head spinning in this direction, so thanks for sharing